Posted on Jul 8, 2016
SrA Rebecca Jaffee
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So last week I was at the chow hall with another girl from my squadron, and we see this SSgt wearing nearly black lipstick across the room. This is very obviously out of regs as makeup is to be conservative and lipstick can not contrast with your skin tone. She was obviously a higher rank than me or the airman I went to chow with, and neither of us said anything even though both of us desperately wanted to. She looked ridiculous. It was so bad that some male airmen at the table next to us noticed it and asked us about the reg. Anyway my question is, is it appropriate to confront a higher rank when they are blatantly disregarding regs?

PS There was a visiting 2 star across the chow hall at the time
PPS Sorry the pictures are so bad. We were far away.
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SFC David Reid, M.S, PHR, SHRM-CP, DTM
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Some may lack the intestinal fortitude to do this in providing on the spot corrections!
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SFC David Reid, M.S, PHR, SHRM-CP, DTM
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Commonly known as guts!
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SFC David Reid, M.S, PHR, SHRM-CP, DTM
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Very Tactfully!
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SFC Michael D.
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I wouldn't say confront. Such a harsh word. Politely question. Sir/Ma'am, you are telling me to do "X" but the regulation states "Y", could you please clearify.
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MAJ Geiter Dunn
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Seriously? The Air Force has regulations on uniforms and grooming?
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PO3 Boatswain's Mate
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We have a warrant who come in galley with socks and his sweaty Tour de France jersey on. It’s gross
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SFC Section Leader
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Yes, you should make on the spot corrections. Use tact and be respectful. As a senior leader I welcome corrections from a lower rank if I am out of regulations. First off, it's better to be corrected by a Private than a SGM any day of the week. Second, and most important, a Soldier of a lower rank making that correction shows me they are reading and understanding the regulations. We all make mistakes and always should seek improvement. By respectfully accepting a correction, a leader is helping a subordinate and developing the Soldiers courage. Yes, it takes courage for a Soldier to do that, especially in a toxic environment. As leaders, we should not punish or otherwise condemn a junior Soldier for doing this. We should insure the Soldier is correct. If not, a good leader will show them where they are incorrect in a non- threatening manner. They are learning. If correct, acknowledge they are right aND make the correction. Either way, do not be hostile or display any kind of hostility. We are here to develop junior Soldiers and NCO's.
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SGT Intelligence (S2)
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I’m seeing a lot of correct answers.
Make the correction as tactfully AND as privately as possible.
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1LT A. Uribe
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OMG! She looks like my former Commander, is her las name Kim?
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Cpl Michael Mead
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I wouldn't shout it across the chow hall. But pull them aside and say something. If they want to rage take it to their higher up in the coc.
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PO1 David Jordon
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The proper way to handle this is to find a higher ranking person and explain to them what is going on. This person will then go to the female and ,in private of course, explain to her the regs she is violating and that she needs to rectify the situatuon. You ,as a junior person, cannot do this. You will,most likely, be told to mind your business. But someone senior to her wouldn't get that crap. If they do,they have the authority to do something about it.
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