My boyfriend and I are in the same unit and we both want to go active. Do you think they’ll let us have the same duty station?

Until you’re married the Army won’t make any special consideration. If you can work it out on your contract it could happen but other than that you might want to start going to church.

If it happens, it will probably be much more due to luck/chance than being due to any willingness to accommodate your preferences.

Absolutely! The Army wants what is best for the two of you, and since you have made the commitment of “planning on getting married”, they will support that. Just make sure you jot it down in pencil somewhere, like on your “Go Army” folder. Ask for matching uniforms and to have the same days off. (Of course I say that tongue in cheek. Don’t worry about it too much, you two won’t be together in 5 years from now. I’m not saying that to be mean, it’s just the law of probability).