Posted on Jan 31, 2015
Previous Questions and Discussions Asked on RallyPoint
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In regards to previous questions and discussions that I have started, I am an American Soldier. I am squared away and I don't have any problems with authority. The question I asked about my ring was because I don't understand the NCO's motive behind telling me not to wear it, but I've decided not to push the envelope and just not wear the ring. In regards to the question about an NCO or Officer hitting or pushing me and whether I have the legality to defend myself, it was a general question. I am not a threat to anyone, I apologize to anyone who felt disrespected in regards to my discussion description "breaking it down barney style" it was rude and completely uncalled for. I completely understand with the questions I have asked how you could think I'm the problem. I might be, but I'm not a threat and as I said I will not wear the ring anymore in uniform.
Posted 11 y ago
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Excellent Soldier! If it took 65 people of all ranks, ages and generations to make this happen, I have to say this site is something very special.
This is a great attitude to have and I wish you all the Best with your career!
Steven
This is a great attitude to have and I wish you all the Best with your career!
Steven
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Thank you for stepping up, being credible and accountable. There will be many moments in your Military career that "just don't make sense" to you, press on and maintain your warrior spirit. If you find yourself faltering, look to your mentors. If you don't feel any locally can help, please trust that your RP Family will offer.
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SPC Voye most of the replies to your questions were concerned leaders. maybe some of the replies don't have the best approach but they were well intended and with genuine concerns. From my standpoint of view, seems you are a Soldier in need of "outstanding leadership" and maybe you was reaching out in this forum for advice. My recommendation to you is find a good mentor, someone that you admire and look up to as a leader. I know you may have a lot of questions and want to learn more. And a mentor can help you with your concerns and questions. I believe if you have a good mentorship and/or someone that help you, I know you will bloom and be a good leader in the future. Keep your head up and always do the right. Honor with your service all the persons that you love and care and make them proud. Hope one day to see you as a Sergeant or maybe an officer. My.02 cents.
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Way to step up, brother. "Seek responsibility and take responsibility for our actions". Sometimes we vent under the wrong circumstances and the fallout compounds our frustrations. Lessons learned go into our "toolbox" and we fall back on them in the future. No permanent damage done. The entire point of RallyPoint is to gather insights and wisdom from members who have been there and done that and learn from the benefits of our previous stumbling. Admitting we aren't perfect is the best lesson to learn when we are still young.
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SSG(P) (Join to see), this is great and everything but IMO this doesn't merit its own topic. I recommend you go back to the topics you've created that are being referenced here and edit in these remarks there if you haven't done so already.
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Excellent SSG(P) (Join to see) . As you can see the RP community has got your back. We all want your military experience to be something you are not only proud of but more importantly an experience that makes you a better man. Like others have stated seek out a mentor that you can learn from and help in navigating any negative influences. Best regards
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SSG(P) (Join to see): "The roads to truth are numerous. They vary by the path you choose". That is all I leave with you.
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You learned one of the best lessons in professional written communications, to read it as it may be read by the recipient. It is a challenge to convey ideas, especially those with strong emotional elements. It is easy for others to infer tone that may not be intended, so as the writer, you must always review and analyze for unintentional messages.
On the flip side, it is equally important not to infer tone when reading the work of others. In a professional written dialog, it should be assumed that the tone is neutral, and clarified with tactful follow ups in needed.
You have learned a lesson that took many of us longer to figure out.
On the flip side, it is equally important not to infer tone when reading the work of others. In a professional written dialog, it should be assumed that the tone is neutral, and clarified with tactful follow ups in needed.
You have learned a lesson that took many of us longer to figure out.
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Thank you for stepping up and clearing that up. It takes a big man to admit when their words could be mis interpreted.
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Told ya that clarification would help the PR community. I am glad you did, SPC Cody Voye.
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