Posted on May 19, 2015
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Im stuck on reenlisting, getting out or changing services. My wife is very supportive of which choices I make, but it's not just my choice

Bright side to staying in, secure job

Bad part, it's hard to lat move/ change jobs or branches. Being an infantrymen doesn't help when either. All the other branches only off one thing to prior service- special op packages

Staying in the corp, it's getting harder and harder to lat move

Getting out, actually find a steady job to support both me and the wife while going to school. Right now I'm just trying to figure out my options, and reasses it again before I dive in.
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Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS
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Really, no one can make that choice but you. But here are some things to consider.

1) Even as a Cpl, when you consider Pay +BAH (about $40k), you are making just under the Median HOUSEHOLD income for the US ($51k). When you get promoted to Sgt, and go over 4, you pay jumps A LOT. Getting out, you will likely take a step back in pay.

2) While you are in, you have the best opportunity for education. I know this seems counter intuitive, but between easy things like CLEP/DANTE, Tuition assistance, etc, Education comes easier inside than outside, where it comes out of pocket, and real life gets in the way.

3) Lat moves are tough, but... You can also apply directly for B-Billets, like DI, Recruiting, MSG, Combat Instructor. Keep in mind, you are not only an Infantryman, you are an Operations person. We use 03xx for Ops, later in their Career, and you will end up learning that the deeper you go.

4) Map your Career. Where do you want to be in 8~ years. Either here or on the outside. Once you've figured that out, make "a" plan. Figure out if it makes more sense for you to stay in, or get out to do so.

5) Don't regret either decision. Get out because it was time. Stay in because you wanted to.
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Great response.
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Cpl Jeff N.
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Some good advice/thoughts from Aaron. I can provide a little perspective regarding my son. He left active duty last November as an AAV crewman (not a ton of transferable skills from a trade perspective). I advised him to stay in the active reserve, which he did. He picked up Sgt about a month ago and he uses his reserve pay to cover helath benefits (tri-care).

He is working full time and going to school full time with a wife and baby (and in the active reserve). Not easy. Did they take a step back financially? Yes they did. Will it be difficult? yes it will, especially the next three years. I think the tipping point for him on his decision to stay active or get out was the deployment tempo and trying to have a family and be around for his daughter. It is hard to put a price tag on things like that.


There are lots of trade offs you need to think through but this is not a short term game, think longer term, be realistic about your goals, current state etc. A decision to stay another 4 years does send you down a path that might make staying for 20 more likely. All the best as you make your decision and move to the next phase or your life.
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SFC Steven Borders
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Cpl (Join to see) I am at a cross roads too. Same situation my wife supports whatever choice I make. I might suggest NG or Reserves. That is what I am considering. I still want to continue my service just not Active duty. I know that for a fact.

But only you will know what is best for you. I plan to start job hunting next year. Sending out resume's and whatnot. Good luck to you and I wish you the best.
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Cpl Rifleman
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I called the NG and who ever I talked to... Didn't even know what they were trying to tell me. Either way thanks for the input, I'm already doing the job hunting
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SFC Steven Borders
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What NG guard did you call? Do you want to stay Marines or switch to Air Force, Army or Navy? Do you want to stay in CA? Do some research on where you want to live. I am focusing on OK. From there look at military bases in that state.

I also got on the Army NG website. Did the chat feature and asked the agent for a number for someone in the cities I was looking to settle down in. From there branch out. If you need any help let me know and I can see what I can do.
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Cpl Rifleman
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I called in cali
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SFC Steven Borders
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So, do you want to stay local by Camp Pendleton? or Move out to somewhere like Santa Ana, or Anaheim?

Here are a list of military bases in California. http://militarybases.com/california/ If you know where you what city you are going to settle down in focus around there. I hope that helps.
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