Should I re-enlist or get out?

How much TiS do you have? If you're at 10 (+/- 1) yrs then I'd stick it out. You already know what to expect and know how to roll with the punches.

PO3-The benefits of entering the private sector are clear; more control over where, how and when you work and live, more time with family, the ability to change course at will. However, once you get "out here", its surprising how "limiting" freedom can be. Perhaps the greatest thing I miss about the Navy is a sense of direction, clarity and certainty about many aspects of managing a career. For example, if you pick a certain rate, you can (within reason) map out your career, and while there are always surprises, disappointments and sea-changes...you also know exactly what can de-rail those plans. Private sector career planning is much more subjective. Having the "quals" doesn't mean you'll rate the job, or keep it. Decisions regarding promotion, pay increases, benefits, even location can be arbitrary at times. That said, once you understand how the system works, it can be manageable and profitable.

There are public sector jobs that very closely seem to mirror military progression models, and it sounds like Law Enforcement may be an option for you.

Aside from the "hard facts", after about three years, you really begin to miss being "in"...not sure why, but somehow, it just seems like a "better world" after a while. One thing to bear in mind is that retirement pay in your early 40s is quite an incentive...as are many of the immeasurable benefits from staying with Big Grey.

I wish you all the luck in the world Shipmate...Best Wishes.

I am not sure about the navy too much, maybe look into getting a different job in the navy, but make a chart of pros and cons about the navy and sit down with your wife, come together about a decision, maybe talk to your family if that's your kind of thing. If you don't mind it, maybe try the officer route, anything to reach a higher and better you. If you do get out, the best of luck brother!