Posted on Apr 14, 2014
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I've been in for 5 years just picked up my SGT. I'm torn on whether to get out or stay in for another term. I understand its my decision but I'm curious if anyone has advice that helped them make this decision.
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I greatly appreciate all of the advice and suggestions, and I'm thinking I'll stay in and see how it goes. I have options on the outside however, I think the stability in the military will help overall.
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SGM Matthew Quick
SGM Matthew Quick
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Although retaining soldiers in the Regular Army and Reserve Components is the desired outcome of the Army Career Counseling process, preparation of soldiers to be more productive citizens in or out of the Army is the overall objective.
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1SG First Sergeant
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Stay in. The economy sucks right now and is getting worse. If you do decide to get out, make sure you have employment secured before departing.
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Sgt Harlin Seritt
Sgt Harlin Seritt
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Go where your heart tells you. When is the economy EVER great? You look to be a hard charger. I bet you'll do well anywhere you decide to go.
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SSG Jeffrey Spencer
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I was in your shoes.  I had E-6 orders, but the bar was too high.  I got out.  I wish I could go back and do a retake.  I would have retired 15 years ago had I stayed.  But I still look at my time in the military as the most honorable and challenging job I've had.  It was a bunch of sh** at the time, but that all changes.  There is always sh** wherever you go.
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SSG Mike Angelo
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Find yourself a ROTC college campus; Attend that college, work as a Sgt and get ur degree; Go OBC and teach on campus as an instructor. Stay there until the active Army expands its personnel. Right now...big draw down which means the war will be within the ranks, and I would not wish my worst enemy on the inside of that mess. 
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MSgt Technical Directive Program Coordinator
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I agree. I'm not sure how the Army is looking, but the Marine Corps has already started looking for more reasons to disqualify Marines for reenlistment.  The increasing competition within the ranks will definitely make it more difficult to reenlist in the future. If you are eligible now, stay in, but be prepared for the day when the Army says your time is up (not to sound too negative). Good luck!
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SSG Mike Angelo
SSG Mike Angelo
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Some will get their walking papers sooner than others. This happened in the 80s and nineties after Gulf I and Somalia But now, this drawdown is way hella bigger than when I was in. There may be a rise in violence in this generation of the uniformed services becoming vets in a civilian world, somewhat like post WWI, which morphed into gangster behaviors.  IMO
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I picked up 5 when I was just shy of 5 years. Since I reenlisted, I have no choice but to stay in right now. But I feel that if I can continue to get competitive and challenging assignments instead of stagnating somewhere, then staying in provides the greater benefit for me and my family.
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SSG Avenger Crew Member
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If you truly love what you do, then there should really be no doubt. If you don't like what you do, or are "burned out" then getting out might be a nice change of pace. Some people find it easy to make the transition from military to civilian life, but there are some that have an extremely hard time with the pace of civilian life. Either way it is a difficult choice, and maybe a Pro/Con type list might help. I wish you well with your decision!
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CMDCM Gene Treants
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You need to consider a few things since you are an E-5 with 6 years in.

Do you enjoy your job/work and what you do in the Army?
What are your prospects for promotion in your field?
What, if any, bonus will you get if you reenlist? Orders?
If you get out, I see that you have looked into the Guard, what does that look like for you?
How does employment look where you want to settle? Are you ready to get out and what do you still need to do to prepare for civilian life?

Once you have answered these questions - look at the advice others have given and follow through. Make sure your Resume is ready for Civilian Employers if you go that way, they will not understand military and Army terms so get rid of them and translate them.

Shop jobs wisely and start NOW if you are getting out in December. You are closer than you think. Do not burn any bridges, you may change your mind between now and Dec. My best job offer at the 10 year point came a week AFTER my reenlistment (LOL).

Good luck with your decision. You may choose to follow SPC (Join to see)'s advice, but others have offered more insightful mentoring for sure.
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SGT Motor Transport Operator
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thank you, i just have been really thinking and searching for my right choice i do enjoy what i do in the army, and as for promotions not really sure yet, and bonus's have no idea about, i have to talk to retention about any of that, and im just making sure i have all options available to me, whether i stay in or get out
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CMDCM Gene Treants
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Somewhere around the 6 to 8 year point I really began to enjoy my job in Navy. Once that happened, I never worked a day after that. Sure there were a few rough times, especially after I got married an we were separated during deployments, but overall, I enjoyed most things.One day I realized 29 years had gone by and then really had to transition. That was painful, but I had prepared for it.
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In the end you are the one that need to decide, it is a huge decision. Don’t always think that the civilian life is way better, it could very well be but you never know. I love the military and I have a great pride in what I do it is the best “job” (I know it’s not a job it’s a profession) I have ever had. The army has given me a lot and I bet it has given you a lot also. If I was you talk to you Battalion Career Counselor and check what he can offer you if you do stay in. Then make a pro and cons list and decide on what you want to do. I hoped this helped you, I know I am going to stay Army.
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SGT Motor Transport Operator
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it did help, and i should make a pros and cons list that would be my biggest help right now
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First thing i ask Soldiers is this. Do you like the army? The worst thing you can do is re enlist when you dont enjoy the military. Its not for everyone. Ive seen people stay in the military and become miserable. All they talk about everyday is they hate the army this, they hate the army that. Its your decision and you are going to be the one who has to show up to work.

If you  have other goals why not purse them. Believe me time goes by fast in the army and the next thing you know you will be retiring lol.

The best thing about ETSing is that if civilian life is bad you can always come back in after a couple of years, i think.

I can tell you why i reenlisting the first time though. Because i was to lazy to find another job lol.

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MSgt Keith Hebert
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Edited 12 y ago
Stay in whether it is active,reserve or national guard.
I found out after I left active duty USMC that I missed the structure of the military, joined the guard and ended up retiring after 26 years.
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SFC Case Agent
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I appreciate it MSgt I had a notion that I would miss it, especially after talking to a friend that regretted getting out after his first term
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MSgt Keith Hebert
MSgt Keith Hebert
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Just remember Sgt Fort that there are always options. Research and make an informed decision
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SFC Rob Cesternino
SFC Rob Cesternino
12 y
Stay in. I am currently dropping weight to get back into Guard or Reserves. Only need 5 more yrs to be eligible to retire. I had to get out as I opened my own business and deployment would have ruined it.
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1LT Scout Platoon Leader
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Just FYI pinning E-5 requires two years of retainability. If you choose not to re-enlist and your ETS is less than two years away, they will have to take the rank. Just giving you a heads up because I had a similar issue just recently with a Soldier.
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1LT Scout Platoon Leader
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No problem, and good luck with your choice.
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SSG Shawn M.
SSG Shawn M.
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Sir, do you know the reg on this? I am only aware of a 1 year commitment after promotion to SSG.
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MSG Intelligence Sergeant Major
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AR 600-8-19 Ch. 3-32 (a).  The service remaining requirement is 12 months for SSG.

There is not any service requirements for SGT.


Unless there is an active milper message, this is the latest regulation. 
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1LT Scout Platoon Leader
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Gents, there was a recent milper message. I'll try to find it.
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