Posted on Nov 12, 2023
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I've never asked this question, and I've never seen anyone else ask it, but I'm curious. What do you say when someone thanks you for your service?
My Military ID is right next to my driver's license and debit card in my wallet, so it's visible if I have to show my driver's license for something or if I'm taking my debit card out to use. Very often, someone who sees it will ask what branch I was in. Then they will thank me for my service. My usual answer is "Thank you for your support." But I'm curious about how others respond to that.
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SGT Joseph Vallela
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I simply respond "You were worth the sacrifice".
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LTC Angie Habina
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“Thank you for your support” is more than appropriate.
If a teacher, police officer, first responder, or someone in a service, I respond with “thank you for your service.”
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SPC Ray Rigsby
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I'm a Vietnam combat Veteran and I wasn't thanked then when I came home and don't want to be thanked now, it's meaningless to me! But my response is always the same. 'It was an honor to serve!' No, I don't add a thank you.
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SGT Scott Moreland
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At first, it was an awkward moment where someone approaching me just to be nice was unexpected and found myself struggling for the right words, barely getting out nothing more than "you're welcome". As time passed, I recognized that some people just wanted to express their gratitude while others used it as an icebreaker to engage in conversation. My reply now is "you're welcome, and I appreciate your support". If they linger a moment then that's a chance to start up a conversation. People have questions and who better than vets to answer them! Granted, as more time passes since our service some things will change and certain insights become obsolete. At the end of the day, you get an opportunity to change or shape perceptions about military service.
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SGT Armor Crewman
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I served near the end of the Vietnam war. I did not go to Vietnam, but every senior NCO and officer Captain and above had. These are the men who prepared me for combat as well as was possible without experiencing it. When Saigon fell I saw more than one tear on the faces of men who bore the physical and emotional scars of that war and who were often derided in public when in uniform, as was I even though I had never fired a shot in anger. When I first got out I kept a low profile on my veteran status, but the public perception of the military changed after the first gulf war, and I began to hear “Thank you for your service.” At first, I was bothered by this because I did not think I had done anything worthy of praise in comparison to what the Vietnam Vets had gone through. I eventually accepted it and now proudly wear my “Thank me for my service” hat, and when thanked I reply with a sincere “I appreciate that” and hope that these men lived long enough to receive this praise they truly deserved.
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SPC William Robinson
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I understand your sentiment, as by the time I finished all my schools, they had started pulling everybody out of Vietnam, so I got sent to Germany for my tour of duty. After I got out, I started college and was constantly taunted by this little dogsh*t punk who kept calling me "baby killer," and other taunts. I repeatedly told him that I had not been to Vietnam, so his names were ridiculous. That continued until he threw a piece of chalk at me, hitting me in the back of the head. I went ballistic and charged him, ready to beat his mouthy young ass, but the professor jumped between us and told me that I didn't need to get in trouble. Oh, how I wanted to stomp him flat!
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LTC Jason Carter
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Thank you for your support
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SFC Terry Bryant
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I always respond the same way. I thank them for allowing me to serve the greatest nation and the greatest people in the history of the world. Because in my mind it is a joint effort between tax payers and service men and women that makes it happen.
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1SG James Kelly
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I'd do it all again; met my She there and she put up with me for 43 years.
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Maj David BenJames
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Thank you for your support. OR, Thanks
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SFC Douglas Wallace
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I tell them thank you and that the country an them were worth it.
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