What are your thoughts on domestic abuse?

Obviously, don't do it. But what I'm saying here is it seems to me more and more leadership are on the female's side every time. For example, a female soldier I know of beat her husband and all she received was a reduction from E-4 to E-2. I know for a fact if it had been a male instead, he would have gone to prison or been chaptered out. Another example, a woman accuses her husband of abusing her when he is not. He is still in trouble. Thoughts?