What is something that you wish that more people understood about the military?

That the Army doesn't make you who you are, it takes the best things that you are (like determination, strength, loyalty, and compassion) and makes them better.
Mommy and Daddy had you for the first 18 years, The Army only had you for the last 2. If a Soldier screws up, look to the tree, not the basket.

I wish they knew first hand about what is going on. Not Hollywood movies. Only way to hear it is from those who were there and the most of us do not like to talk about it. For me, it was fun. I got to sleep in until 0530. By then I was a half mile into the woods checking my trap line. After I made my bed, it was off to the mess hall. I had to clean the barn first. Basic was a piece of cake because I grew up with "Yes Sir & No Sir". After a few bumps I was able to FLY. Flew all over the world. Nobody really understands who we are, what we done or what we stand for. I tell them--if not for us you would be speaking German or Japanese--if you survived. Yet, some of these people protest because they don't like somebody or any other nit picking reason. GOD bless America and all who served and will serve.

I wish they could understand that if you make a career in the military that when you retire you are not the same person you were in high school or college--your mind set has changed and the difference between a 100% civilian and a retired military civilian is and always will remain like the difference between night and day.

We had each other backs.We looked after each other’s families when the other was gone.

I would like for more people to understand that if you always perform at YOUR optimum level and utilize a "CAN DO attitude" that you will escalate beyond your own expectations.

Mike, you pretty well pegged it. The bonds formed. Brothers for life. Even tho you will probably never see most of them again, they are with you forever. Those who have not served cannot imagine how that really is.

COL Mikel J. Burroughs, I'm looking forward to reading insight about others. I think one of the defining facts about me is that I was an introvert before enlisting...some of my experiences have definitely increased the tendency to avoid people sometimes.

Leftover 18th century stereotypes...That all enlisted personnel were uncuffed upon arrival at the recruit depot, or they're all poor kids who have zero skills other than killing people, and are only looking for a paycheck & bennies...And they know nothing of that feeling that those who serve in harm's way know only too well: When you put your life into the hands of another, you are bonded tighter than the "family" you left behind...They have NO IDEA! I'd say I wish there was a way that they could, but that is something that can only be understood from "the inside"...There is a small part of me that cherishes their ignorance. And whether they realize it or not, they don't want to know...Best kept that way.

Col. Burroughs, if only we could instill the pride and discipline in civilians, as we received in the military, this country would be great again, and the petty squabbles and pouting about trivial things would end. Everyone would treat their neighbors, co-workers and strangers, with respect, civility, and manners. People would find humor in things again, but take seriously what needs to be. Oh, were it so!!

While many claim they understand the sacrifices made, they cannot. Many of these amazing men and women could do quite well in other ventures but are hooked by the end of their first tour and make it a career. Overtime does not happen, the flat salary and benefits are adequate but not substantial. Military spouses are often stay at home for many reasons other tgan their own preference. The Garrison machine runs. largely by the volunteering spouses, so that second income is not often in play either. So when you hear that the government or politicians wish to cut benefits for retirement or otherwise push back asking them to look at the totality of the career Soldier/Family. Sacrifice is the middle name. Thank you all for your service.