What/who was the event or person that made the biggest impact on your time in the military?

My single event was growing up and watching the pride my Father took in wearing his uniform everyday. Regardless, of his rank enlisted to Officer I saw him as leading by example. So once I felt the calling I let him know that I needed to continue what he started it was just going to be in a different service.

I grew up in a military household. My Dad retired after 26 years in the Army as a 1SG. At a very young age I learned the Army Values growing up. I also served 4 years in JROTC to help me build upon the foundation that my Dad established for me. Once I got to my first duty assignment I was extremely lucky to have SSG Lance Dever (RIP) as my first squad leader. Right away he counseled me and not just in writing but by showing me what right looks like. It went beyond the motor pool or the unit area, he showed me where to go for things like getting my uniforms pressed, where to get my alterations done, where to get my boots re-soled and where to get the best haircuts. He helped me look for my first car and made sure that I didn’t get screwed with outrageous interest rates and high payments. He always came by my room in the morning to inspect it for cleanliness prior to PT and to ensure that I was alive. He explained everything, showed me everything and then made me attempt everything that he taught me. He treated everyone the same and would discipline us justly if we screwed up. Every experience, good or bad, was a chance to get better. He prepared me becoming a NCO from day one. I owe a lot to him.

Two former NCOs, from my enlisted days, had the biggest impact on my career. They turned me from being a young enlisted soldier who was simply biding my time (until my ETS) into someone who actually cared about being an effective leader and advancing my career.