Posted on Aug 23, 2017
When the world is closing on you, what do you do? Who do you call? What works?
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Life happens. Mostly we can deal with it and get through it. Sometimes, though, either a huge event hits us or something triggers a huge past event. It is always good to have a plan on what works for you, and what does not. I say look at your hand and always know five things you can use in different situations to make sure you and those around you are safe and okay. What tools, groups, activities
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Probably my being in AA for the last forty years has given me the tools to deal with situations in my life ,taking it one day at a time, trust in a Higher Power and in my case especially KISS ,keep it simple stupid has worked,I've also found taking a deep breath and counting to ten before responding works just peachy ,because words spoken in anger or resentment can never be taken back.
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Debbie Pomeroy Cloud
AA has some amazing tools and a great support network that continue with the program and work it as much as they need to work it. Great job!!
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First off.... EXCELLENT TOPIC!
When the world closes in and I need to circle the wagons, dig in, take a stand, and set up Fort Apache.... I call upon God as I understand Him.
I step back and try to relieve myself of the pressure of direct involvement. I then pray.
Once I have called in the power of prayer I then I get in touch with my confidant. I speak with that person and try to work through the issue or share what is happening within me.
Sometimes I intuitively know what is happening and know how to proceed. In those cases, and in keeping with the shoot, move, and communicate doctrine.... I communicate. I let people know what is happening with me. I don't bottle things up or compartmentalize. I purge it and let folks know, honestly, what is happening with me.
When the world closes in and I need to circle the wagons, dig in, take a stand, and set up Fort Apache.... I call upon God as I understand Him.
I step back and try to relieve myself of the pressure of direct involvement. I then pray.
Once I have called in the power of prayer I then I get in touch with my confidant. I speak with that person and try to work through the issue or share what is happening within me.
Sometimes I intuitively know what is happening and know how to proceed. In those cases, and in keeping with the shoot, move, and communicate doctrine.... I communicate. I let people know what is happening with me. I don't bottle things up or compartmentalize. I purge it and let folks know, honestly, what is happening with me.
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MCPO Roger Collins
Although I'm far from being what the left refers to as a "Bible Thumper", but fully agree with your feelings. Religion gives comfort to many, particularly in times of stress. Why Atheists would want to take that away, is hard to understand.
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CPT Chris Loomis
MCPO Roger Collins
Master Chief, I'm with you. I'm not the most religious man out there...but I do believe in my God.
I prefer to describe God, as I understand him, as a, "Custom Fit" God. He understands that I was raised a strict Catholic (and have received all but one sacrament), but at some time in my life experience I took a fork in the road that took me away from him. God knows that I've made my mistakes, and continues to allow me to make them so that I may learn and grow. He knows that I believe in him wholeheartedly and work towards a high conscious contact with him. He is very understanding that I'm not a "bible thumper." He doesn't mind that I don't attend mass/church except for a few times a year and when I do that I attend as I am. He's happy that I say my prayers daily (or when I do) and also meditate in my own way...we hold our conversations.
He, again as I understand him, are content with our current relationship and our manner existing together in peace.
My God knows that I take his word and intention and try to place it in my life while simultaneously incorporating what I believe to be good aspects of many eastern and western religions into my religious and spiritual life.
I've had more than a few "bad nights" in my time. God, as I understand him, understands the phrase, "whatever gets you through the night." The caveat is that Carholicism is my foundation. I often say, "I know you're not leaving me, and I apologize for disappearing for a bit, but I'm back, and you're stuck with me." LOL!
To some this might sound confusing. However, it's not to US....
Master Chief, I'm with you. I'm not the most religious man out there...but I do believe in my God.
I prefer to describe God, as I understand him, as a, "Custom Fit" God. He understands that I was raised a strict Catholic (and have received all but one sacrament), but at some time in my life experience I took a fork in the road that took me away from him. God knows that I've made my mistakes, and continues to allow me to make them so that I may learn and grow. He knows that I believe in him wholeheartedly and work towards a high conscious contact with him. He is very understanding that I'm not a "bible thumper." He doesn't mind that I don't attend mass/church except for a few times a year and when I do that I attend as I am. He's happy that I say my prayers daily (or when I do) and also meditate in my own way...we hold our conversations.
He, again as I understand him, are content with our current relationship and our manner existing together in peace.
My God knows that I take his word and intention and try to place it in my life while simultaneously incorporating what I believe to be good aspects of many eastern and western religions into my religious and spiritual life.
I've had more than a few "bad nights" in my time. God, as I understand him, understands the phrase, "whatever gets you through the night." The caveat is that Carholicism is my foundation. I often say, "I know you're not leaving me, and I apologize for disappearing for a bit, but I'm back, and you're stuck with me." LOL!
To some this might sound confusing. However, it's not to US....
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As a Christian, when I find myself facing a mountain, I go to the One that made the mountain. It's important to remember that there is a plan for my life. And while God's plan does not always sync with mine, He only does what is best for me even when I can't see how it is. So I go to His Word and remind myself of His promises. As someone once told me, Romans 8:28 is the pillow that the weary Christian lays their head on.
We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God: those who are called according to His purpose. Rom 8:28
We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God: those who are called according to His purpose. Rom 8:28
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Debbie Pomeroy Cloud
Faith is vital and so is your faith walk. Thank you! Glad you have a good pricess in time of need.
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