Well MSG, if you didn't make an issue of it then, no that doesn't make you a douchenozzle, however downgrading my response kinda does....but that's my opinion. I should have clarified my response to include the part of his that stated "...should not be used when addressing ANY NCO." To me that is a personal opinion. Having utilized that term quite often over the course of my career,be it wrong in your or any others' eyes, as a term of respect for 1SGs and MSGs who have held the 1SG title/rank and having learned that tradition from some damn fine NCOs since 1987, I see nothing wrong with it. Maybe it was a Combat Arms tradition or simply a tradition within the Armor community itself, but it was and is a tradition that I followed, as well as a lot of NCOs, Soldiers and a few Officers followed.
AR 600-20 Table 1-1 clearly states that a First Sergeant will be addressed as "First Sergeant". There is no NCO addressed as "Top" in the regulation.
If someone can show me regulatory guidance that states otherwise and I will accept "top" as an acceptable address.
It is what Army Regulation 600-20 states on how to address a First Sergeant, this is not an opinion. It is in black and white, and it is difinitive.
I was raised by the 2-14 Infantry NCOs that pulled the Rangers out in Somalia in September 1993. If I ever refered to anyone as "top" I would have had attended the school of the soldier with extra classes. So it is not a combat arms thing to call the First Sergeant, or anyone else, "Top". It is AGAINST what the regulation states. Saying you follow it out of tradition is not the standard I can adhere to myself. I don't wear starched BDUs because the fine NCOs I knew wore them. I change and conform to standards put forth by the Department of the Army.
I can only provide the information I read. It is your choice to follow it or not. I can remember when the black web belt was removed from being authorized to wear. I was unaware of the change and continued to wear it, but when a fellow NCO took the time to make the on the spot correction, I thanked her and I fixed my deficiency.
Once again if you can show me regulatory guidance that states something in addiditon to AR 600-20 Table 1-1. I am willing to conform to standard.
<P>1) A SFC filling the position of a 1SG is addressed as Sergeant per reglatory guidance. In my unit they are addressed as 1SG, they are giving the position, the responsibility, and the authority. They are given the title. </P>
<P>2) They are not allowed to put 1SG/USA on their email as that is reserved for a hard stripe wearing 1SG. They can put SFC/USA 1SG CO A XXXX-XXX</P>
<P>3) There is no such position as "Top". This is an Armor/Mech term (similiar to the way FA uses the terms Smoke, and Chief). As an Airborne guy who jumped back and forth, I was shocked the first time someone called me Top. That is a huge no-go in the Airborne Infantry community. </P>
<P>4) Detachment Sergeants are exactaly that, with the execption of the few LRSD detachments that are authorized E-8s, they are a SFC position in both rank and title. </P>
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<P>The easiest way to think about this is what is their MTOE duty position that is on their NCOER. If it is 1SG they are a 1SG, if it is MSG, they are Sergeant, if it is SFC they are Sergeant. </P>

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