Would anyone encourage their kids to join the service?

I've always pointed out that it's there. Never pushed though. My wife and I both served, as did my parents, and grandparents.

The Marines did right by me. The Air Force did right by my parents. The Army did right by my brother and cousins. I would never dissuade him from it if that's what he wanted to do.

If they were interested in the military, I would certainly encourage and support them. However, I wouldn't push them into the military if they clearly were not interested. The only reason I'd nudge them towards the military would be if they were having difficulty finding their way in life. I wouldn't want them to flounder, and the military has a proven track record of helping people find their way in life (and I include myself in that group).

Inasmuch as my children are well beyond the age at which this question would be pertinent, I will take the liberty of rephrasing it slightly to apply to my grandchildren. My answer in that case is, not at this time.

I see many good and valid reasons for all to serve this once great nation, but not under this Commander-in-Chief. Who would want to see their children/grandchildren used and abused for some waffling political/diplomatic purpose and then be abandoned at a whim.

Ask me again when we regain our sanity if ever...

I'd love to seem my daughter join the service....but I doubt that girl would run, even if chased by a bear.

I would first tell them my story about joining. I would also talk about about the pros and cons of joining, but would highlight the gratification and honor you get from serving and any of the branches. I'd give them all the information they need to make a decision on whether to join or not. I wish Recruiters were more truthful, especially with individuals who are older or more mature than the high school graduates that usually join the service.

Yes I encourage them both on joining. One is following into the Air Force to be an EOD Tech and the other has plans to join the Army and be a Ranger. Proud papa either way.

I would tell them why I joined, what I have learned and experienced while I served, what I have gained, lost, and how my values changed. I would then encourage my kids to make their own decisions based on everything I taught them.

In order asked
1. Yes
2. Duty, Honor, Country

I would, not to be pushy, but to show that its important to give back... and most generations of my family had someone serve.

1LT (Join to see) , without hesitation for three reasons.

1. To serve and defend their country and freedom.
2. To learn discipline and honor through service and commitment to the team.
3. To carry on a history of serving others.