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Lt Col Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Program Manager
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Lt Col Charlie Brown
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I have been working with some homeless women veterans as well as some who have ended up in veterans' courts.
There are a number of resources but unfortunately, getting the word out seems to be difficult

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Lt Col Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Program Manager
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Absolutely agree. As a community, I think we all need to take advantage of any opportunity to amplify this message. Thanks for all you do to support homeless women veterans!
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SGT Lorenzo Nieto
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Thank you for your story, women who served should get the same respect as me if not more, at one time in the history of this country they were left behind to work in the home, when there county called they stepped up and served in more than one way I guess sometimes we as men don’t see it that way, hats off to The Who served in and outside of the home.
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SGT Air Defense Radar Repairer
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this statement " 1 in 5 women report having been a victim of Military Sexual Trauma". Is extremely low. A lot is going to have to change in the executive suites as women veterans are getting shortchanged. I've seen my local VA run off two very good female providers. Support groups for female veterans don't exist. It took me 5 years of lobbying to get a support group for LGBT veterans. Then Covid happened and everything went out the door. Instead of taking care of the people they are supposed to they abdicated their responsibility for care. The VA ignored its at risk populations and that cost the life of a female Vet that I knew who took her own life.

The VA has to become more accessible to those it serves. This 0845 to 1645 has to go out the door. The VA needs longer hours . How does a woman with a family and job supposed to find time for a support group. Its time for the VA to rethink how it provides care. BTW this telehealth may be fine for young folks but old folks either don't have computers, don't understand how to use them or like myself would rather have face to face meetings. I mean who wants to discuss intimate issues, feelings, fear or other issues over such insecure platforms as Zoom, Duo or Facebook. I've talked many times with folks at my VA and these folks are at home. They have me on a speaker and you can hear the kids and everyone else in the background so how is this information private. I mean how many people are listening in and just how secure is their computer and connection.

There is a lot of work that needs to be done and until the Old Boys Club is done away with nothing will happen.
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Lt Col Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Program Manager
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SGT (Join to see) many great points! And I didn’t even consider how the “normal working hours” of the VA could be a greater barrier for women. For single parents that are veterans, this number is largely women vs men. Since women vets are most likely to be a single parent than a male vet, I think there are a few secondary issues we need to start considering. I can see how limited hours for primary care would be a huge barrier for single partners in general.
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Lt Col (Join to see) - There is a lot to be done. There is also a lot of stonewalling from the executive suite and department heads. Took me 5 years to get a LGBT support group authorized. Quite frankly there are many LGBT Vets who have walked away form the VA due to the treatment they received from the VA. Uncalled for. The lack of women support groups are also troubling. Lives are being lost because the VA is failing at their mission.
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Maj Alea Nadeem
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Lt Col (Join to see) thank you for highlighting that women serving in our military is only increasing and how we need to start looking at what the veteran woman will look like post service and how we can try and get after these issues early.
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Lt Col Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Program Manager
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Thank you so much Maj Alea Nadeem ! I appreciate all you do day-to-day for our members currently serving!
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The State of Women Veterans Today
SrA Gina Hotard
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I could claim you were talking about me! Was homeless, MST, PTSD, you name it. Today I’m doing awesome. Tired of people assuming I’m the spouse of a vet instead of the veteran.
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Lt Col Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Program Manager
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Thank you for sharing! I think one of the biggest barriers women that have served can face is showing vulnerability. In some ways, we’re more hesitant to ask for help when we need it. I think you have a great story, that shows others it’s really a strength. I really appreciate your, story and perspective. You should share it often!
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SrA Gina Hotard
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Thank you. I don’t share to often. Yet I will help another vet with what avenues are available after having to find out if these on my own. Programs and services should not be hidden, and they should be available to those who need them.Lt Col (Join to see)
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Lt Col (Join to see) A great post Colonel. During my civilian career, the hardest working and dedicated co-workers were women veterans.
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Lt Col Sexual Assault Prevention & Response Program Manager
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Thanks Ted! I’m thankful to all that have raised their hand for our country. I think it’s our responsibility to ensure that this service is valued and doesn’t negatively impact us after we separate or retire. The more visibility and conversation we have on these topics the more forward movement we’ll see.
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Sgt Kerry Thurlow
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It would be an amazing thing for the VA to take services for us out of the darkest corner of the facility and make us visible. My VA facility has one part-time provider...and one NP that fills in 2.5 days a week. We wait for weeks for appointments. We go to civilian providers who look at us oddly when we present our VA ID and referral documents for appointments.

MST/IPV Services...that's a joke. I waited 90 days for a coordinator to contact me and then I waited over four months for a provider.

As a grandmother, I have permanent guardianship of my grandsons. The VA doesn't consider my grandsons to be my dependents....unless I adopt them. I cannot afford 10k to adopt two kids that I have raised for ten years. Even if I had 10k, the IRS permits me to claim them as dependents...why can't the VA??

Things are changing....ok, great when do these "things" change at the front-line service level? When to these pilot programs shift from large urban areas to the rest of the country?
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Interesting. I will take this to my congresswoman and see if there is something that can be done.
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Sgt Kerry Thurlow
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I keep taking it to mine. Maybe one day soon this will change.
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CPT David Gowel
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Lt Col (Join to see) as a combat arms veteran who served in mostly all-male units, I was ignorant to the challenges faced by our female servicemembers and veterans. It is valuable to have you share these data points and I look forward to learning more from you.
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Thank you CPT David Gowel . I appreciate all you are doing for our veterans, and the opportunity to add to the conversation. The more we discuss veteran issues, and increase awareness for women veteran challenges, the better we will be as a country. Long term, it will also impact our ability to recruit and retain an impactful force in the future.
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SPC Charles Sewell
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A nation should protect it's women , not put them in harm's way.
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SPC Charles Sewell
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Data often is skewed. Men vets struggle all the time, just don't hear about it. All veteran support is declining, it's not cool to be a vet any more. I am giving back my vet plates because people are aggressive when they see them. It's a voluntary force , our culture is changing big time. Combat troops are driven by testosterone and are skilled in the art of killing, not a place for women, some women have a special talent perhaps in espionage etc. However , to rely on our women for this nation to be combat ready for a world war, is a no go.
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AA Loreen Silvarahawk
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When I was in the service, most women were treated as nothing more than lower class citizens. Things have advanced where women are respected more but it has to be earned. When they get out of the service, many are vastly unprepared for civilian life. A few may return to service, many marry or are already married, and far too many are the forgotten ones. These are the ones who have PTSD and cannot cope with the world and therefore become homeless. I have seen first-hand how women are treated in a VA clinic and/or hospital and it is not right. Yes women have come a long way but there is far more that can be done to support women Veterans.
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