What Happens When Men Don't Cry? -

I can only account for myself at this moment, as I'm the only example of a man who doesn't cry when crying is justifiable in my area. Like just using this as a example when my dog (A wiener dog) who I've had ever since 2007, and was my first ever dog died I didn't cry, because my brain found a reason why not to. (That being he died before he experienced eye sight loss) I still feel the pain of the loss, but for me I've gone through many physiological trauma's that it prevents me from crying because instead of going into a depressed state I go into a numb state.

I find being numb is alot better than being depressed because when your numb you at least can look for happiness, when your depressed you refuse to look for it.

It's okay to cry but it's not okay to drink and do drugs to try to get rid of the pain because it will get you even more messed up. Go to Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous meetings and some of them are held by veterans. Better to discuss your pain and to be silly and kill yourself like my sister did two years ago in July of 2015. She had issues with relationship that was going bad domestic violence and she drank a lot and took a lot of painkillers and she still had guilt about having an abortion when she was younger because of her abortion she had a hysterectomy and couldn't have kids period every day was going to the bar and grill and drinking. Don't be like her and seek help.