Posted on Oct 15, 2017
SFC Christopher Taggart
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Even if you took them off-line and spoke to them, they just laughed at you and didn’t take you seriously and the teasing continued. Forget taking them to the command, because they were “buddies” with the First Sergeant and Sergeant Major. How did you handle it and how did it affect you?
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Maj John Bell
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When I was a 2ndLt, I had two peers that disliked me as much as I disliked them. I was the target for several malicious pranks. We were the three rifle platoon leaders in the same company. Keep in mind it was a different time, and my solution would probably not fly now. If their actions did not affect my Marines or have a public or personal ramification for me, I ignored it. If their actions affected my Marines, I addressed it with the company XO or CO. If their actions had a public or personal ramification for me, in front of our peers, I invited them to the racquet ball court, to settle our differences, after hours.

I was pretty evenly matched with one, and could easily take the other. For about 4 months, it was damned rare that one or more of us didn't have a black eye or fat lip. No doubt, the Company XO and CO; and Battalion XO and CO knew what was going on. As long as everyone was fit for duty the next day, nothing was said.

I will not claim that I came out better in every encounter, but the two of them got tired of fighting before I did. When I became the Company XO, they expected the worst and that I would make them pay for all their malicious pranks. I did not. One of them apologized to me before the tour was up. (he had become the butt of the jokes when I left the company to take over the STA platoon) I ran into the other about 11 years ago. We had another fight for old times sake.
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SSG Field Artillery Firefinder Radar Operator
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Definitely sounds like you were part of a different Corps. Great story Maj John Bell
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MSG Mechanic 2nd
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different times, we used to call it the woodshed
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1SG Alex Larson
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Get thick skin, grow a backbone, and don't be a snowflake.
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This
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SFC Instructor
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Yes, by all means, let’s treat our soldiers poorly. I enjoy reading about soldiers who lock them selves up in their room only to be found with a self-inflicted gunshot wound sometime later. There is a characteristic called toxic leader ship. I’m not a fan
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Sgt Dale Briggs
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Great story right there. I was at Camp Lejeune 1976-79, I spent all my time at French Creek first with 2nd Angelico then with 5th Bn 10th Marines. Both were really good units , but Angelico was wired a bit different than the gun bunnies, but squad leaders and Plt Sgt weren’t shy about going into the woods to talk things out. It was rare certainly because anyone who was really a turd was already on the Gunnys list , and Gunny was a great leader of men, he took no shit and gave no shit unless you deserved it. So he took a lot of that responsibility from the Plt Sgts.
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PFC Kia Davis
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I reported to IG and EO and nothing happened to the asswipe. I reported him to 1SG, Commander, and still nothing. He tried giving me a field grade for some bs that he caused. Luckily I had two NCO’s that vouched for me and a record of everything that went down. Keep a freakin record of everything bad that they do and ask for a battle or a squad leader to be present. Also use your global for proof. I had to do all of these things. It’s sad but there are a ton of toxic leaders.
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