Posted on Feb 24, 2017
SGT Ben Keen
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Over the past few months I, along with several other User Admins, have been hit with complaints about people's behavior. Most of these reports come out of people acting disrespectfully towards another normally centered around a political post. Every day, countless posts from both sides of the political line are posted. I was hoping that after the election was over and people settled back into their routines these posts would start to dwindle in number but sadly, that isn't the case. In fact, I think people's reactions only made people want to share more. Other social media sites are covered as well but here I think it's different.

I understand that for many of you, this is your one stop shop for social media actives. And I understand that you have the right to voice your thoughts and concerns but what I don't get and what I will not tolerate is the name calling and personal attacks. I think for some of you, you are so wrapped up on what others have said or done that you yourself are losing touch with reality. Rather than finding a healthy way to express your feelings you are just so hyper-focus that it's causing damage to yourself. Some of the actions I've seen here are simply not healthy.

When RallyPoint first started. it was started to a place where service members and veterans can come to get connected with others and get answers to their questions. Now, with over 1.1 million members we are still that place but have this dirty shadow following us.

So the question I have for you, as one of the original members and as one of the Senior User Admins of this site; why are you here? Are you here to connect with your brothers and sisters-in-arms and to help provide meaningful answers to questions or are you here in some effort to spread your ideals onto others? Why do some of you feel the need to attack others just based on the fact that they voted for someone different? When will you pause and step away to realize that no one person can make American great again, to do that takes all of us. It takes all of us to come together, support the powers to be and hold them accountable as a collective body.
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Lt Col Jim Coe
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I joined RP hoping to keep up with goings on in the military. I hoped I could use my experience to possibly help current service members and especially those looking for jobs as they transitioned out of the military. I started out sharing my experiences as a manager in both the private and public sector on subjects such as resumes, cover letters, and applying for Government Jobs.

I saw a growth of questions regarding the 2016 election. At first I thought I would stay out of the political stuff, but the quantity of questions on the election drew me in. I enjoyed reading the posts from RP members on both side of the aisle. Most were respectful. As a political science major in college and a long-time conservative republican, I couldn't resist giving my opinion. I tried to always be respectful and never use only emotional appeals to reinforce my point of view. I take a similar approach with religious questions.

I am an unapologetic traditional Christian. I am respectful of RP members who are anti-religious or non-believers because I respect First Amendment free speech. I will argue against their point of view with logic, facts, and love as best I can. I doubt I will change anybody's world view because of my words on RP, but I think its important for Christians to hold their ground.

My chief concern is anonymous RP members. I don't understand why RP allows this type of member. I have many years experience with the military, some at the highest levels, and in Special Operations. I never met a military member for whom it was simultaneously a good idea to have a presence on social media and to shield their identity form the general public. If a service members is concerned his or her chain of command will take action against them for what they post on social media, then they need to rethink their postings. Possibly they should pursue appropriate complaints through their EO/EEO or IG. I just don't see the virtue in a Special Forces military member or an investigative service military member being on RP or FB, if they cannot expose their personal identity to the public. My limited experience with investigative services tends to indicate that they would use a fictional persona if they were using RP to further an investigation rather than being anonymous. I think RP should eliminate the anonymous membership.
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Sgt Vance Bonds
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Anonymous has had me confused as well.
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Sgt Jerry Genesio
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I am in total agreement with LTC Coe. Anonymity breeds disrespect and disregard for accountability. I have recently been in a discussion with an anonymous individual who probably wouldn't have been as rude and disrespectful if his identity was widely known. I will refuse to enter into a discussion with any anonymous members in the future.
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I am here to connect with fellow brothers and sisters, mentor, and share information. I would like it if political posts were not allowed on RallyPoint.
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Cynthia Croft - Thank you Cynthia. I appreciate your support and your responses.
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CPT Gary Jugenheimer
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Thanks for asking....I am here to share in the knowledge and experiences of the members of this site....I am not here to criticize, condemn, embarrass, or make posts that offend my brothers in the military.....I do hope that what we all do here is constructive and contributes to the greater good of all the members.....those that have motives other than what I have stated do not belong in my part of the world and they are not welcome!
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SPC Johnney Abbott
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I'm here because it's not the filth that's on Facebook.
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MCPO Roger Collins
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Communication with other Vets and Military Retirees, on a wide variety of topics. RPs success as opposed to military dot com should be evidence your policies are far better. There are mant ways to avoid individual/s if one doesn't like the tenor or tone, that's what I do. Leave things as is and communicate with anyone that crosses the line.
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SCPO Morris Ramsey
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MCPO Roger Collins Good points Roger. I also enjoy your humor.
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MSG Wade Huffman
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Thanks for bringing this up. I used to be a very active member of RP, but a couple years ago, I noticed this issue beginning to build. That is when I became a much less active member. I get plenty of politics outside of FB.
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MSG Wade Huffman
Long time no see brother, glad you are still around! I have always enjoyed your informative responses to questions.
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MSG Wade Huffman
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Thanks MSgt (Join to see) , I've never really left, just shifted from being active to being a 'lurker'! LOL! I have chimed in on a couple non political topics over the past couple years, but that's about it. Still recognize many of the names though (yours included!)
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
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Great question. For me I'm on RP to connect and interact with like minded individuals. As most of us know being in the military instills a different perspective towards just about everything. RP provides a way to filter out all the "noise" found on other social media sites. I do think that there has been a significant increase in political related questions/discussions but I pretty much just choose to ignore them and write most off as signs of the crazy election cycle we just went through. Frankly I look at discussing politics on RP the same as discussing politics at family holiday gatherings... don't do it. Perhaps some of the berating being seen is in fact due to our military backgrounds. So often we have to hold back on things for one reason or another while in the military. RP gives us a way to sort of anonymously vent and when that strikes a button on someone else they react without really realizing they're responding to a person, not an anonymous computer.
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SGT Ben Keen
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Interesting view of things Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen.
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen SGT Ben Keen
Agreed, interesting take on things!
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Cpl Ryan Berry
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WOW, that was outstanding! I couldn't throw that again if I tried, hands down! Couldn't agree more and I myself is sick and tired of all the punches thrown by both parties, and I will have some integrity and say that I'm sure I have been guilty of it a time or two. It's gotten to be like that scene from the Pee Wee Herman movie where they keep going "I KNOW YOU ARE BUT WHAT AM I". So yes, people have a right to voice their opinion, but to attack a fellow veteran personally over his political views?!?! That's more screwed up than a Ray Charles coloring book in this Marine's opinion. I came here in the hope of reconnecting with my brothers from my days in the Marine Corps. Most have been found or what has become of them via FB. I still have two brothers that I was very close to that are MIA. Once getting on here and reading some of the blogs and how the different branches or different MOS, opinions vary I became very interested. And some of the replies from these veterans or service members can be just down right hilarious!!! And that's what I need these days is to smile and laugh at some of these subjects. Hopefully others will also. Thank you again for sharing this message, and again it was a good little "ass chewing" to those who need to put on their big boy/girl pants. Semper FI
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SGT Ben Keen
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Thanks the comment!
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Kevin Jeffers
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I am here, as a civilian, to listen to concerns of the community and to support the welcoming home and reintegration of those who have served.
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Cpl Ryan Berry
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I think that is outstanding and as a veteran I THANK YOU, Semper FI
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Kevin Jeffers
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Cpl Ryan Berry - As one who has never served, there is a 'fear' of approaching Veterans who have. I have staffed Vets Journey Home and frequently reached out to Veterans when I see them with hats or other memorablabia. I have ALWAYS been welcomed when I reach out and acknowledge their service. My personal mission is to assist other civilians to 'risk' engaging. Thank you for your service, Cpl Berry.
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Cpl Ryan Berry
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Kevin Jeffers - I can sympathize to your "fear" of approaching veterans. And mine is a little different sort of speak, in the USMC brotherhood it is un official SOP if you will, to automatically recognize your fellow brother/sister with "Semper FI". 90 percent of the time I will get it back or a "ooohrah devil dog". It's those who wear the USMC and then give you the "deer in headlights look" or for some stupid reason cant get two words out their mouth. Nothing more upsets me, and I'm almost to the point of calling these Marine veterans out on it. Example, the other day a member of the Leathernecks MC was on his bike. I sometimes wear a ball cap with USMC on it. This guy had it all over him and his bike. I waved yelled "Semper FI brother" and got the "deer in headlights look". So I can understand and I apologize for any veteran that might make you feel uncomfortable if you go out of your way to say "thank you for your service" and they look at you puzzled. Most will return with "thank you back", which I do the same but always find it interesting that we say thank you and not your welcome. That's because it means so much to us to be recognized and that's all we want, not parades, not discounts, or posters.....simple smile and thank you. Semper FI to you Kevin, I THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE SIR TO MY FELLOW VETERANS.

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Kevin Jeffers
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Ryan: Thank you for taking the time to reach out. I, of course, don't know what it's like to be in your shoes and to be 'ignored' by both civilians and fellow Marines. I can only say that through my work with "Vets Journey Home" I have seen so of those Vets (some not unlike the ones you mention) begin a healing journey. While VJH usually only works with 6-10 on a given weekend retreat, my experience is that all sides benefit and create a better bridge between.

I thank you for your service and for this contact. I am hear to listen, bear witness to and do my small part in the Home coming all Vets deserve.

Kevin Jeffers
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COL Charles Williams
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SGT Ben Keen I am here as this site, like no others, is for us... the "damn few." I like to give back by answering questions and providing insight when I can. I owe the Army an amount I can never repay. I also like to post things and ask questions to see what others have to say, and have experienced. I do post political articles I find, as I read a lot on line, but try not to be too slanted. I am actually generally cynical. Hopefully, I am not part of the problem. I may disagree, so I either comment or say nothing. I never get personal, or insult anyone, nor do I try to pull rank. Heck I started as an E1, an many regards, I can't believe I was a luckily to achieve what I achieved. I hate personal attacks, which are prevalent in the world of social media and online. But, you would think, since we are the "damn few," it would not happen here. But, it does. I would recommend a revision of a time honored book. Think before you speak and act.

http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12176421-how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people-in-the-digital-age
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