Posted on Apr 25, 2018
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My son is relatively new to the army. He has made a couple of bad choices. He used an illegal drug. It seemed as though the punishment was going to be minor. But a few weeks later he was caught drinking and driving. He was told that he would be transferred to another base and put in Substance Abuse program. Now they are telling him he will probably be chaptered out. Is there anything he can do? I realize you don't know my son and as a dad I am biased but he is really a good kid. Up until these two offenses he had been doing really well. Do they have to give him a chance at rehab before they chapter him out?
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Well, I will say yes he has the right to defend himself and if he wants to stay in fight for it. Now Dad.... if you pay for any of this you are the problem as you are enabling his behavior. He has to want to fix it and suffer the consequences of doing so. So don't bail him out....
However, if Congress and elected officials were held to the same standards as we were, there would be no one in Congress.

I think it is funny that we all have more than likely dine something that would have been grounds for removal from service. Drinking and driving and not caught. Stupid comments or posts. I can go on and on... Bottom line is that the Army needs to practice what it speaks or just shut up with the "fake news." At Command Course they tell you to underwrite mistakes and empower subordinates to make decisions within your intent and guidance. Well news flash... we don't really want to underwrite mistakes.
Unless we start doing that we will run out of leaders and Soldiers. So I will assume all those throwing stones here have never done anything that could have gotten them removed from service during your career. Sorta sucks for you because you cannot relate to your Soldiers and have no good, "no shit there we were" stories to break the tension with your Soldiers.
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LTC Ray Morris
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The Army is not, and should not be, a rehab facility. Too many lives depend upon everyone being able to do their jobs at 100% capability, 24/7. I know NCO's who were chaptered out due to drug or alcohol use. In the war zone, I was the cause on one of them being released. I have no regrets. Your son was given a second chance, something few soldiers get, and he chose to squander it. I hope he learns from it and becomes a pillar of society in a new career that he may be better suited for.
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SPC Chris Ison
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Nope. E-4 and below it is the commanders discretion, but E-5 and above automatic discharge. His CO may be pressured by the BN or higher to release your son, either way, he can fight it but he will lose. What he did amounts to failure to comply with a DIRECT order. And they have him dead to rights. At this point the best thing he can hope for is a non punitive discharge. They will offer him a other than honorable discharge, he can request an admin board, and pitch his case to them for a general or even an honorable discharge, the bad news is unless he comes off Active Duty with an ACTUAL Honorable he will lose his GI bill benefits, period.

Furthermore, even if they let him stay in, 99% of the time he will be given a "bar to reenlistment" which is an R (restricted) code for reenlistment, and not allowed to reenlist. I think there are two forms of this, i know that one of them is an RE-4 and that means no reenlistment ever; however, that too can be overcome by another branch. Although generally speaking since the air force, coast guard, and marine corps are so small they won't mess with any R code. You MIGHT be able to get the Navy to wave that.

The good news is after 6 months his discharge can be upgraded to honorable, if he has no other issues with civilian authority and he will have access to all of his VA benefits EXCEPT the GI bill; i can not emphasize this enough YOU MUST HAVE AN HONORABLE DISCHARGE FROM AD, not an upgrade, upgrades don't count, for the GI Bill.

So, just in the interest of full disclosure as you are going to have people tell you different shit than i did, I was Discharged from the Navy with an Honorable discharge, but i had an RE-4 discharge code. after a year of being out of the Navy, i decided i wanted to go back on AD, so i went to the army, they waved my RE-4 code, and allowed me to enlist in the army reserve, i could not go on AD because i had 4 years of AD and i was an E-3 ( i had gotten busted down, that is part of why i had the RE-4 code). However, once you are in the reserves, you can petition to go on AD, and as such that is a back door into AD time.

I had a soldier who was in my Humvee who had gotten a bar to reenlistment from the army while on Ad at Schofield Barracks in Hawaii; he was able to go into the national guard, which is another back door to ad. I had heard of this for other soldiers too.

My suggestion is simple, have your son fight for the best non punitive discharge he can; if he can avoid a court martial that is the best thing. Have him come home and go to a j.c., for a year or so, keep his nose clean, get his discharge upgraded, and then join the reserves or national guard, serve a year or two there, while still attending school, and then petition for AD again.

What is the worst thing that can happen to him? he gets two or three years of a college education, and the Army or Navy says no? Not really a bad deal.

College is easier to pay for than most people think. Just avoid trade schools like ITT, Concord, and Devry they are scams always.
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Thanks for taking the time and putting in extra effort to this response. It is appreciated.
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With the first offense, I honestly doubt the punishment would have been minor but there are avenues depending on what drug the member used. However, many folks have been discharged for illegal drug use or drinking and driving alone. With these combined offenses, and in such close proximity of one another, he has provided enough justification that he is not fit for military service. You must remember that military members may be in situations where they have to make very important decisions. These decisions can have great impact on the lives of themselves, other soldiers, or our allies. If a member cannot make decisions that follow the laws of their home station, it is hard to trust them to make sound decisions down range. It may be unfortunate, but your son should look at this as an opportunity to start over outside the service.
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MAJ James Woods
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Short answer...yes he can fight it. Problem is the zero tolerance environment for drug and alcohol related charges that leads to UCMJ and Chapter procedures.

HE should’ve been enrolled in ASAP after the first drug offense if it was a minor one but the moment he became a repeat offender he made his case much harder.

They never should’ve offered to transfer him to another unit nor suggest that was a possibility.
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CSM Andrew Perrault
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Drugs and DUI's are death sentences in the military he did both.....he had been doing really well? Or just hadn't been caught?. Soldiers are told repeatedly NOT to drink and drive it's said over and over.....and drugs can't be tolerated ever......who wants a guy on drugs on guard duty or in combat....Sorry there Dad he needs to go.....
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Sgt Wayne Wood
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It’s an all-volunteer force... he wasn’t drafted. One would hope military service wasn’t offered as an alternative to jail...

Follow the rules or pack your trash. We can afford to be picky.
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SFC Larry Jones
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In a word, no.
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SFC William Stephens A. Jr., 3 MSM, JSCM
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He's lucky they gave him a chance with the drugs but DUI, That's hell of nice commander who keeps him in the ARMY. I wouldn't
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SFC Rgt Airborne Ranger
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Your asking this question is indicative of why your son can not follow rules. Quit protecting him, you did it his whole life so now he assumes there will be someone there to clean up his messes.

In this case, there isn't...
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