Posted on Oct 12, 2014
A1C James Pendergraph
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I joined the military thru the delayed entry program at 17 until I was 18 because my dad wouldn't sign. He said it had to my choice. Now 13 years later, my friend has a son that is wanting to join at 17, and she said he was to young. I was asked if I had any regrets looking back at joining right out of high school and if I thought i was mature enough to make that decision then. I really had to think about that. I don't regret joining, but I believe going to college first would have benifeted me. And I can say that I was immature when I joined. I think now after seeing the civilian side of life as an adult, I have more appreciation for the military way of life and would enjoy it more now as an adult than as the rebellious high school grad i was when i joined. Any thoughts?
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COL Randall C.
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Joining the military right out of high school is really a matter of choice as it depends on your reasons for joining the military.

In some cases, there are a lot of reasons for the individual to go right into the military. There are a lot of benefits available and quite honesty, it is the one aspect of providing maturity for many individuals. In other, it makes a lot of sense to go the college route before joining. Against, it really depends on what the individual wants to get out of the experience.

There is no right or wrong answer.
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MSG Wade Huffman
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Agreed. The 'right' answer would depend on the individual and the circumstances.
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SFC Michael Hasbun
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Seeing as how I've repeatedly traveled the world, have a college degree, a family, a home, a stable life and am generally content and all my high school friends haven't left the city and are still working at the same Walmart, I'm going to go ahead and say yeah, it was a good call...
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SFC Stephen Carden
SFC Stephen Carden
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Preach, Brother!
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SFC Vernon McNabb
SFC Vernon McNabb
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It worked for me. I reported the BCT 20 days after graduation. Been a good run so far. And looking at some of my high school friends on Facebook, I can honestly say the Army has kept me slim over the years.
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1SG Cameron M. Wesson
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Say it loud and proud!
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I agree with COL Randall C., in that it really depends on an individual's circumstances. For me, it was just the thing to join right out of high school. My prospects for college were not terribly good (for financial reasons), and the idea of working at the local mill was not appealing.

The military was my best option, and it turned out to be a great choice. If I had left the Army after four years, I would have learned discipline, matured, etc. I didn't leave, though, and staying made the decision to join up right out of high school even better. I was able to get the college that I couldn't initially afford (nights and weekends), and I wound up serving my country for 30 years of active duty.

As I have posted elsewhere on RallyPoint, I am sooo glad I made that decision at the tender age of 17!
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SSG John Erny
SSG John Erny
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It made my life better in every way, no regrets what so ever.
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It was for me. My family couldn't afford college. I was 17 and a month out of high school. I turned 18 in basic. When I got out and went to college I was more serious I feel about college and buckled down.
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SGT Jim Z.
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I took twenty years from high school graduation to college graduation though the last five I employed what I learned in the military to accomplish my degree.
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Agree with COL Randall C. that there is no right or wrong answer. I'll just tell you what I experienced. I falsely believed that my options were limited, that college was out of the question, so I joined the Army on delayed entry in the middle of my Senior year of high school. My parents had to sign the papers because I was still 17 when I entered active duty.

I was not a rebellious teen, but I looked at my prospects and the military seemed to be my best option. Now, 39 years later, I am SOOOO glad I joined the military right out of high school. It was the best decision for me. I got those college degrees later - during evenings, weekends, and online. Joining up right out of high school was one of the best decisions of my life.
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CW2 Ernest Krutzsch
CW2 Ernest Krutzsch
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I was sorta forced into the military, I was part of the draft lottery in 1971, and I was the prize. I thought my life had ended when my number was 55 and they were taking up to 125. My life had just begun!
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SGT Jim Z.
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I like A1C James Pendergraph joined the Army through Delayed Entry at 17 and the reason was I knew I did not have the discipline to go off to college and succeed. The Army taught me discipline, a trade, and experiences I would not ever had if I did not join. Do I think 17 is too young no and I wish more kids would want to join the military. Did I miss out on things by not going to college yes but on the flip side I got to do things and see things I would not have gotten.
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1SG Cameron M. Wesson
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A1C James Pendergraph

As others have stated, it is a personal choice. I myself joined at 17 and retired at 39. I have absolutely no regrets and it was the best thing for me to do. Waiting for me would have been disasterous.

Was I really mature... Absolutely not! Some would argue I still haven't matured... only gotten older. Did I become a professional? Absolutely!
I did gain and have experiences that in those formative years my peers could not even imagine.

My 2 cents
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MAJ Jim Woods
MAJ Jim Woods
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Oh Heck No! It's better to wait until you flunk out of college for majoring in parties and football.  Then you can really apply yourself to the task of getting through Basic and AIT.  LOL..... at least thats what I did.  I don't recommend it though.  If you are not ready for college or a full time entry level job, it certainly is a good option to go in right after high school.  That has worked for many of us.
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I enlisted before I was out of High School, and left for BMT 6 days after graduation. There are times that I have regretted not going to college first. I am a firm believer in the importance of education, but not at all to be over shadowed by common sense and field experience. We have all certainly seen people with more degrees then a thermometer, but they have no social skills and no common sense.
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I've always told folks that the dumbest people I ever met were when I was in college, lol...
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TSgt Joshua Copeland
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I joined right out of HS and have no regrets. I personally advise sooner rather then later.

At one point I had a Airman fresh from tech school that was an E3. I was an E6 and his Flight NCOIC and we were 3 years apart in age. He was a great Airman, but as a marriage 28 yo he still got stuck doing all the "Airman" things. Another Airman came in at 27 and had lived on their own since they were 18 and was forced to live in the dorms which made them a little disgruntled for being "treated like an child."

My other main reason is simply you are not going to get any younger. The military is hard on your body.

A third reason is you will have a second career, if you stay for at least 20 do you really want to start that second career at 48-58 (under the old cap) or 58-68 (under the new cap) vs as young as 38?
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CMSgt Robert Gates
CMSgt Robert Gates
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I entered USAF in Feb 1969, a decision made early on during High School. Yes I had a draft card. Ironically my number was called while I was in basic training. Interesting times during that period of time.
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MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca
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Exactly what COL Randall C. and CW5 (Join to see) said! We all have reasons for joining when we did that were right for us.
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MSG Sommer Brown
MSG Sommer Brown
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Absolutely it was the best decision for me!
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