Does rank play a part in how you view individuals after you have left the service?

For me, it's simply out of mutual respect...I'll either do that or call that person by their last name, especially if we served in the same combat zone! I know we're titled as "civilians" but I don't go by that. I don't hold it against anyone thinking differently, it's just my choice...but if the individual I'm chatting with prefer I don't address them that way I respect it and go by THEIR preference.

In my view, lack of respect for one another is what's wrong with today's culture. Lets stop comparing each others' accomplishments and start helping each other reach their goals. While on active duty I always tried to respect the person next to me and the uniform being worn by them, which included respect for the rank/rating which it represented as well as for the commander in chief and others serving for our nation under the flag when I took my oath. When I retired from the military I used the same principles at my new job and it worked well. Doesn't mean I agree with everyone in authority (including my wife) all the time, or all policies; it just means I signed up to join and serve something bigger than myself and being part of an organization means sacrifice, contribution and service. I like to think the part I played help make it better, not perfect. I leave that for God to help me with.

I only call one friend by his rank because he's a friend and CSM. And was a Drill Sgt. And Ranger In Infantry School when I went through Infantry School. But never
new him till after Infantry School. Met him at Martin Army Hospital. Where I stayed 157 days in 1977-78. He was checking on some recruits. And saw We were from the same County.

Only those who serve dishonorably are viewed with suspicion. Whatever rank/rate a person has upon discharge is a story to be told.

In My view a Veteran is a Veteran and all have my respect for their service to the Armed Forces. I've addressed some by rank as a matter off showing My understanding of what they had accomplished and appreciation for that. I'll address people in whatever they indicate they prefer, that's not a problem. In public also showing proper respect for people tends to make it a lot easier to deal with just about anyone. As I often say, "To Get respect first You have to give Respect!"

Hands down, Yes! I have noticed many times that retired military officers still think and act entitled. I will challenge anyone to go to a military golf course and see how the officers act like they're first and hoe they should be served. Even the bartenders have been brainwashed at 19th hole that officers are so much more special than anyone else. The post exchange or the base exchange, they have special parking, even vallet just for them. Personally, I think it's too much because that tipe of privilege carries over into the civilian world, and it's undeserving.

For the EM's, one finds that different AFSC/MOS, have many/less billets available for advancement.....this plays and very important part for those not selected and does not reflect badly on their experience or ability .

No matter what your rank was when you leave the service in most cases you leave your rank behind.
I work with prior service members from E6 through 06 and respect them all the same.
In the civilian world a retired E6 can be in charge of a retired CSM or an officer.
The key is respect everyone and everyone will work together, be productive, get the job done and get along.

The biggest thing that was reenforced in me was being color blind toward different races. Before I joined I chose to not notice any difference between races judging people on their contributions to society. Now, I recognize we all have different attitudes and there are assholes with big mouths in every color, social level and religion. Fortunately there are far fewer of them than people that are just trying to get by in life.

No that was when I was in but since I retired from the service I want to know the person as they are not in a uniform