Posted on Nov 23, 2015
SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
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I am in agreement with Sergeant Major Of The Army Daily's advice to the Sergeants Majors within the Army. This is my favorite bullet,"No. 10. Never forget that you're just a Soldier. That’s all you are. No better than any other, but just one of them. You may get paid a little more, but when the time comes, your job is to treat them all fair, take care of them as if they were your own children, and expect no more from them of that of which you expect from yourself."

In a recent Armytimes article:
Sergeant Major of the Army Daniel A. Dailey doesn’t pull any punches when he’s talking to his fellow senior noncommissioned officers.
Dailey, who has been the Army’s top enlisted soldier since Jan. 30, has 10 leadership tips he often shares with them, particularly those preparing to become sergeants major.
“Despite what you’ve experienced in the past, a sergeant major’s job isn’t just to find uniform deficiencies," Dailey said earlier this year to the newest graduates of the U.S. Army Sergeants Major Academy. "It’s not just to ensure everyone has matching PT belts and make sure everybody stays off the grass.Your job is to lead soldiers, to ensure they’re trained and ready to fight our nation’s wars, and bring them home again, and get them ready for the next adventure. Everything you do … should be focused on that, and we’ll be OK.”
Dailey's top 10, in his own words:
No. 1. Yelling doesn’t make you skinny. PT does.
If you’re not out there saluting the flag every morning at 6:30, you can automatically assume your soldiers are not. Soldiers don’t care if you’re in first place. They just want to see you out there. This is a team sport.
PT might not be the most important thing you do that day, but it is the most important thing you do every day in the United States Army. The bottom line is, wars are won between 6:30 and 9.

No. 2. Think about what you’re going to say before you say it.
I’ve never regretted taking the distinct opportunity to keep my mouth shut.
You’re the sergeant major. People are going to listen to you.
By all means, if you have something important or something informative to add to the discussion, then say it. But don’t just talk so people can hear you. For goodness sake, you’re embarrassing the rest of us. Sit down and listen. Sometimes you might just learn something.
No. 3. If you find yourself having to remind everyone all of the time that you’re the sergeant major and you’re in charge, you’re probably not.
That one’s pretty self-explanatory.
No. 4.You have to work very hard at being more informed and less emotional.
Sergeants major, I’ll put it in simple terms: Nobody likes a dumb loudmouth. They don’t.
Take the time to do the research. Learn how to be brief. Listen to people, and give everyone the time of day. Everyone makes mistakes, even sergeants major, and you will make less of them if you have time to be more informed.

No. 5.If you can’t have fun every day, then you need to go home.
You are the morale officer. You don’t have to be everyone’s friend, but you do have to be positive all the time. The sergeant major is the one everyone looks to when it’s cold, when it’s hot, when it’s raining, or things are just going south. Your job is to keep the unit together. That’s why you’re there. The first place they will look when things go bad is you, and they will watch your reaction.
No. 6. Don’t be the feared leader. It doesn’t work.
If soldiers run the other way when you show up, that’s absolutely not cool.
Most leaders who yell all the time, they’re in fact hiding behind their inability to effectively lead. Soldiers and leaders should be seeking you, looking for your guidance, asking you to be their mentors on their Army career track, not posting jokes about you on the 'Dufflebag blog'. That’s not cool. Funny, but it’s not cool.
No. 7. Don’t do anything — and I mean anything — negative over email.
You have to call them. Go see them in person. Email’s just a tool. It’s not a substitute for leadership. It’s also permanent.
You’ve all heard it. Once you hit ‘send,’ it’s official, and you can never bring it back. Automatically assume that whatever you write on email will be on the cover of the Army Times and all over Facebook by the end of the week. Trust me, I know this personally.
No. 8. It’s OK to be nervous. All of us are.
This happens to be my favorite. It came from my mother. My mom always used to tell me that if you’re not nervous on the first day of school, then you’re either not telling the truth, you either don’t care, or you’re just plain stupid. [Being nervous] makes you try harder. That’s what makes you care more. Once that feeling is gone, once you feel like you have everything figured out, it’s time to go home, because the care stops. Don’t do this alone. You need a battle buddy. You need someone you can call, a mentor you can confide in. Don’t make the same mistakes someone else has made. Those are the dumb mistakes. Don’t do this alone.
No. 9. If your own justification for being an expert in everything you do is your 28 years of military experience, then it’s time to fill out your 4187 [form requesting personnel action] and end your military experience.
Not everything gets better with age, sergeants major. You have to work at it every day. Remember, you are the walking textbook. You are the information portal. Take the time to keep yourself relevant.
No. 10. Never forget that you're just a soldier. That’s all you are. No better than any other, but just one of them. You may get paid a little more, but when the time comes, your job is to treat them all fair, take care of them as if they were your own children, and expect no more from them of that of which you expect from yourself.
http://www.armytimes.com/story/military/careers/army/enlisted/2015/11/23/sma-daileys-top-10-leadership-tips-sergeants-major/76268752/
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SFC William Swartz Jr
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Oh that someone had posted a list like this years ago...I know of quite a few individuals that could have learned from it and done a better job......
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
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SFC William Swartz Jr well said and articulately expressed!
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SSG Audwin Scott
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Hooah! Enough said!
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LTC Stephen F.
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I think his approach is a good start SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
Earlier I posted a disagreement with his comments that nondeployable soldiers were dead weight. I think he is a good man who is doing his best to properly exercise his responsibilities.
His 10 points seem to be well thought out and good advice.
No. 1. Yelling doesn’t make you skinny. PT does.
No. 2. Think about what you’re going to say before you say it.
No. 3. If you find yourself having to remind everyone all of the time that you’re the sergeant major and you’re in charge, you’re probably not.
No. 4.You have to work very hard at being more informed and less emotional. Take time to do the research.
No. 5.If you can’t have fun every day, then you need to go home.
No. 6. Don’t be the feared leader. It doesn’t work.​
No. 7. Don’t do anything — and I mean anything — negative over email. You have to call them. Go see them in person. Email’s just a tool. It’s not a substitute for leadership. It’s also permanent.
No. 8. It’s OK to be nervous. All of us are.
No. 9. If your own justification for being an expert in everything you do is your 28 years of military experience, then it’s time to fill out your 4187 [form requesting personnel action] and end your military experience.
No. 10. Never forget that you're just a soldier. That’s all you are. No better than any other, but just one of them.
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SGM Sgm In Transition To Civilian Life
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Great advice and a refreshing change from Chandler. If Chandler had written an article like this all it would have mentioned is tattoos, hairstyles, camouflage patterns, SSD, and whether or not you were wearing your dog tags around your neck rather than looped through your belt loop and placed in your pocket. GOOD JOB SMA, makes me wish I could have stayed in and served with you.
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
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SGM (Join to see) well said and profoundly expressed, coincidentally I feel the same way. Sweet!
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SGM Sgm In Transition To Civilian Life
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SFC Davis, thanks. I served in 3 ,CSM assignments most under Chandler's reign. During that time and, because of his actions, I had Troops of all ranks, Enilsted, NCO, Officers, and Warrants all discuss with me the relevancy of the SMA position. Another thing I found funny about Chandler was everytime I turned around he was either in the Army Times or on the cover of it, and most of the time he was discussing tattoos and uniform improvements. I have an extremely funny SMA Chandler story that I could share with you but I wont post it for the RP community to see because they removed some of my responses before for being "unprofessional" Take care and best to you.
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Cpl Jeff N.
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I like this SMA...He comes across as pretty straight forward and a good leader/person to follow/emulate. I would take issue with some of number 10. Soldiers are not your children nor should you treat them as such. They are grown men and women. They need accountability and responsibility. That will help them far more in life (and the Army) than viewing them as children that need to be raised. If I thought my leadership viewed me as a child I would have been pretty unhappy about it.
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
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Cpl Jeff N. well stated and agreed upon, I think SMA was making it as an analogy to take ownership of your Soldiers in my opinion.
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Cpl Jeff N.
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL That might be true but I think it goes too far. This might be at the heart of some of the discipline issues I see many in the Army post about. If enlisted personnel are being viewed and treated as children to be taken care of rather than warriors needing training/leadership that is a real problem. The SMA had plenty of time to consider/craft/edit/modify his list and he chose those words. I think it may be more indicative of issues the Army faces than you think.
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MAJ David Vermillion
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Outstanding comment.
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
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MAJ David Vermillion SMA is leading by example. "lead, follow or get out the way"
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I got to number 3 and was instantly a supporter. Hands down. In USAREC I had the displeasure of dealing with someone who had to always tell me they were a leader until I told them they lost credibility when they had to remind people who was in charge.
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SSG JimSchan Thomas
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I know a few SMG & CSM that could've use this advice a few years back, better late than never I guess.
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SSG John Caples
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HOOOAAAHHHH SMA Dailey well said,
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SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
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SSG John Caples he laid down the law!
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SGM Willard Burfict
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Awesome! I totally agree with all ten of his leadership tip...On point!
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