Posted on Nov 12, 2023
How do you respond when someone says "Thank you for your service"?
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I've never asked this question, and I've never seen anyone else ask it, but I'm curious. What do you say when someone thanks you for your service?
My Military ID is right next to my driver's license and debit card in my wallet, so it's visible if I have to show my driver's license for something or if I'm taking my debit card out to use. Very often, someone who sees it will ask what branch I was in. Then they will thank me for my service. My usual answer is "Thank you for your support." But I'm curious about how others respond to that.
My Military ID is right next to my driver's license and debit card in my wallet, so it's visible if I have to show my driver's license for something or if I'm taking my debit card out to use. Very often, someone who sees it will ask what branch I was in. Then they will thank me for my service. My usual answer is "Thank you for your support." But I'm curious about how others respond to that.
Posted 2 y ago
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It honestly depends on my state of mind that day. I usually feel uncomfortable and confused at the same time. What are they thanking me for? I served in a bureaucratic system that destroys evidence and refuses to recognize the real issues that cannot be resolved, no matter how much therapy one receives. I feel guilty because I did not serve in combat, and I feel uncomfortable because my fellow comrades don’t acknowledge my contributions to serving this great nation—one that seems to have lost its way because of DEI (Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion) and its misguided notions of inclusivity, where some believe they deserve to be treated better than anyone else.
It is uncomfortable, but I give thanks out of respect to the individual who may or may not sincerely comment. I valued the true camaraderie I experienced during my time in the military, especially with airmen who served in Vietnam. It was difficult to witness how some of them turned to alcohol and drugs. Additionally, I faced bullying for being Hispanic and from Puerto Rico, and I often found myself doing tasks while others just sat around chatting. These days, things are just as they are, and it seems no one really cares.
It is uncomfortable, but I give thanks out of respect to the individual who may or may not sincerely comment. I valued the true camaraderie I experienced during my time in the military, especially with airmen who served in Vietnam. It was difficult to witness how some of them turned to alcohol and drugs. Additionally, I faced bullying for being Hispanic and from Puerto Rico, and I often found myself doing tasks while others just sat around chatting. These days, things are just as they are, and it seems no one really cares.
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I hate being thanked for my service. I didn't sign up for thanks or gratitude. It always makes me cringe. I'm never exactly sure how I should respond. Normally just say thanks and walk away.
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I always say it was an honor and my privilege to serve this wonderful Country
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I always say...Honored because as hard as things were in Vietnam and how bad I was treated upon my return, I would do it again if my country called. Keep in my this is MY view and how I manage it.
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