Posted on Jan 25, 2015
SFC Mark Merino
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I don't want to single out any group or any member on RallyPoint, but I am not a fan of unverified members (or any members) blasting away at others. Freedom of Speech. You all have earned it and it is a constitutional freedom. HOWEVER, This is a closely monitored, privately owned and operated professional military forum. You will be in accordance with RP 3-1 especially when it comes to your treatment of other members. There is disagreeing with each other, and then there is calling others "inbred animal rapists." If you don't agree with someone, RallyPoint has given you the "down vote" option. If you find yourself in down voting battles, I AGAIN BEG YOU to take the following actions: #1: Never give someone power over you by letting them get you mad. Disengage! #2: Take a break from the thread. You don't have to get in the last word to be correct, nor is it your responsibility to force other people to see your point of view. #3: Act like the professionals that you are. If you slander everyone and down vote others (or continually get down-voted), feel free to email the admins about it, but you might not get the response you are hoping for. #4: Remember, we will not suspend another verified member for their point of view, no matter how ridiculous it is, as long as they are respectful of other members (again, see RP 3-1). Freedom of speech does not just include intelligent speech unfortunately....lol. #5: Please remember that not all members are as experienced, educated, or intellectually stimulating as you are. #6: Most importantly, continue to help policing up the site for the benefit of all of us. When you see those bogus member names continue to report them. Unverified members are usually legit, even after a year, and RallyPoint determines their access and posting/voting capabilities. Member admins enforce the policies in place, we don't make decisions.
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SFC Detachment Ncoic
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To me, this is a trusted community, it's a shame that there are trollers like that here.
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SP5 Michael Rathbun
SP5 Michael Rathbun
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Somehow they always seem to sneak one or two under the wire. Or we hire them to do our laundry.
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SFC Mark Merino
SFC Mark Merino
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Good one.
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Excellent post, SFC Mark Merino. It's chock full of good advice. I especially like the part about disengaging. That simple act could end the back-and-forth of personal attacks.
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SFC Mark Merino
SFC Mark Merino
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....and filling our mesage boxes with complaints.
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PO1 Disaster Survivor Assistance Specialist
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hey...you volunteered to be the admin puke......... You wanted the little star and the title...stop whinin'
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Edited 11 y ago
I am a veteran and have seen this. You don't come out of a discussion forum talking about saluting LTs unscathed.
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LMFAO!!!!
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SGT Richard H.
SGT Richard H.
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LOL. Really?
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Unverified Members posting vile messages and responses. What can be done?
SGT Journeyman Plumber
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I feel like I've missed something and am very thankful for it. I've said it before and I'll say it again, we've got some great admins volunteering their time to police this site. I may or may not have a slight RP addiction and as such check the site fairly regularly, so the fact that I have no idea what exactly catalyzed the creation of this topic speaks volumes as to how on point our admins are.
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SFC Mark Merino
SFC Mark Merino
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We don't do anything half way SGT (Join to see). "Slight RP addiction" only??? Work on it, brother!...(LOL)
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1SG David Niles
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Get em verified, also think it is a little creepy havin anonymous service members checking me out
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SFC Mark Merino
SFC Mark Merino
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I don't like that either.
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SGT Richard H.
SGT Richard H.
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Haha...absolutely agree.
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MSG Signal Support Systems Specialist
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The maxim I drilled my last LT on; he who gets angry first, loses.

(The corollary is that there is nothing wrong with driving your opponent to lose, but remember that you'll probably still have to work with that person.)
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SFC Mark Merino
SFC Mark Merino
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Good advice!
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SP5 Michael Rathbun
SP5 Michael Rathbun
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My motto is "I'd rather get what I want than win." If I leave a staff meeting with the other guy thinking he's left major tread marks on my face, but I see all of my sought-for outcomes ticked off on the agenda sheet, I go home contented.

Otherwise: "For a critical decision, if I must choose between someone who is furiously angry, and someone who is drunk or stoned, angry loses."
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CPT Richard Riley
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I tend to look at any unverified as a guest. As a guest, they are entitled to their opinion but should realize that it is just their opinion. If the guest becomes unruly, impolite, or outright derisive I figure I am not obligated to respond and the door is just behind them, they can show themselves out without further issue. Professionalism within these walls is an accepted 'norm' for those of us who frequently comment, guide, listen, instruct, and commiserate here.

If they continue to act as a guest and refuse to be verified, I see no reason to feed their fifteen minutes of fame and move on.
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SFC Mark Merino
SFC Mark Merino
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Perfect answer.
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SFC Mark Merino, thanks for reminding me of #5!
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PO1 Disaster Survivor Assistance Specialist
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say what? Don't make me remind you about the Navy-Army game...... next time you'll sing the Navy Hymn in it's entirety on YOUTUBE.
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SFC Mark Merino
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Let's go Flyers!!!
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SFC Mark Merino
SFC Mark Merino
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Until the Army and Navy fight it out on the ice, I remain indifferent.
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SGT Journeyman Plumber
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SFC Mark Merino ALLAHU AKBAR!
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Inbred Jed's animal raping ... at your service! Easy fix. Do not allow unverified, unknown infiltrators into this community! It was my understanding no one could view, post or engage without a verified DD-214 submission. If anyone can gain access, it's open season on all of us. THAT is unacceptable.
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PV2 Senior Web Designer, Web Team Lead
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LOL! That wins the interwebs of the day!
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SPC Larry Buck
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Oh captain my captain! Well SFC anyway! Good speech & a commedation
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SFC Mark Merino
SFC Mark Merino
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Too funny!
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SPC Larry Buck
SPC Larry Buck
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Yeah yeah yeah...
Nice photo bomb, too!
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SFC Mark Merino
SFC Mark Merino
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My wife,Hitomi. We took that at the ASU v. U of A game. Go Flyers!
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SPC Larry Buck
SPC Larry Buck
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Gimme the OSU Buckeyes and the Florida Gators: rematch of a older game!!! Tear down the gauntlet
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