Posted on Sep 13, 2015
CSM Michael J. Uhlig
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So I was talking with a younger person today (24 years old) and he wanted to know if his plan was clever...

He said he wanted to have a child and be a single dad so he could get free/reduced tuition rates in college and that he wanted to go to college for 10 years at the reduced &/or free rate.

I know what I said, what would you say? What would you recommend?
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Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS
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The cost of a child over 18 years is going to cost him far more than what he is going to save over 4 years. Even if you broke it down to the first 4 years, it's a losing deal financially. That's without getting into any of the other issues.

That would be after I had asked him how many times his parents dropped him on his head as a child.
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CSM Michael J. Uhlig
CSM Michael J. Uhlig
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ready for this Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS, his plan was to be a professional student, spend 10 years in college!
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Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS
Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS
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CSM Michael J. Uhlig In the immortal words of Comedian Ron White "You can't fix stupid"
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People that reason, like the one we are talking about - clearly has not (cannot) do the simple math. Not to mention has no regards in the welfare of the child.
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LTC Stephen F.
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That is a bizarre and selfish reason to have a child CSM Michael J. Uhlig. To be honest it would take me a moment to get my blood pressure down before I answered.
It would be sad if there was a woman/girl who concurred with this young man's plan.
Raising a child takes an incredible amount of time, effort and patience. Raiding a child as a single dad is a very challenging project - I did it not by choice after my first wife decided she wanted to be with somebody else.
For this young man to raise a child by himself for the sole purpose to "get free/reduced tuition rates in college and that he wanted to go to college for 10 years at the reduced &/or free rate" he must be very callous so as not to care what happens to the child and incredibly foolish to think the amount he saved on college would offset the costs he would experience by being responsible for raising a child.
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CSM Michael J. Uhlig
CSM Michael J. Uhlig
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LTC Stephen F. - you are right, very selfish plan.
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What would I do?...keep calm and try not to throat punch the poor misguided soul. Just as LTC Stephen F. and Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS already mentioned, I would explain the cost of raising a child versus the cost of actually paying for your own education. I have 6 kids myself, so I can draw upon a wealth of experiences in how much actually goes into raising a child that is beyond just dollars. I know you set this person straight CSM Michael J. Uhlig.
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CSM Michael J. Uhlig
CSM Michael J. Uhlig
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1SG (Join to see), your first sentence is much easier said.....
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CSM Michael J. Uhlig - I know, but I've been practicing on remaining calm, lol! Especially since being an S1 requires a TON of patience.
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