Posted on Feb 7, 2019
Would the Army Reserves or Florida National Guard better suit a 26 year old with a family?
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I am a recent green card recipient looking to serve and better myself. I have a wife and a 1 year old daughter. I’d like to know which would better suit my family. I am studying for the asvab to have as many opportunities as possible.
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It's all a personal choice/preference. As a NG/Reservists you will have the opportunity to continue a civilian career. The only limitations are the availability of MOSs since those are dependent on where you live; besides your ASVAB scores. Regarding benefits, you will be short changed. Is there any reason not to consider active duty? There are many more opportunities. Just a thought!
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MAJ Javier Rivera
CPT Lawrence Cable Seen it happened multiple times. Mine stocked with me for the whole stretch before, during, and after my 27 years; still going strong. Hence the importance of having the significant ones on board. Nevertheless, each case is unique!
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Bryant Sanchez Fonseca
Thank for the help sir. My wife at the moment really wants to be a nurse and she’s trying hard but I see the stress she gets sometimes from working part time to help us out money wise, to studying, to caring for the baby when I’m working out of town. I know being active the Army kinda takes over on the financial part and she could focus all her attention on school. So I guess what I am asking is.. what benefits or advantages will my wife have school wise if we went the active route? MAJ Javier Rivera
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MAJ Javier Rivera
Bryant Sanchez Fonseca - There are few ways of looking into this but, the most important thing to understand is that the military will send you wherever you are needed the most; stateside, overseas, and deployments. That been said, the financial aspect is very competitive if you ask me. You will not have to pay for medical insurance, monthly rent will be taking care (unless you like to live beyond your means), and other perks a recruiter can inform you about. Regarding your wife education, that will depend on various factors such (but not inclusive) location, how she prefers her courseware delivered, and dedications. Military installations have education centers which provide all gamut of coursed provided by civilian accredited schools, also there is the online option. Just motivation and dedication is needed.
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I would say it depends on what MOS you are looking at and what is available in your area by either the reserves or the guard. There are no combat MOS's in the reserves, only in the guard, with the exception of pilot. Talk to a recruiter for each side and see what they have to offer. I know most guard units will pay for in state schooling, the reserves off tuition assistance for school.
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Congratulations, and I commend you for looking at a way to serve. It all depends on you when it comes to National Guard or Active. As a young family man you might look at the comparison of benefits of both. Also, based a the job or MOS (Military Occupational Speciality) you choose? I would also recommend you talk with a Recruiter face to face just to get some on the spot answers.
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The MOSs that have my interest or 68a (BMET) 68w (Medic) or maybe a trade like 91e (welding/machinist) my top one would be 68a for the sole reason of being career ready right after AIT which would be outstanding for us as a family because my wife is going to school and I know for the medic mos I would also have to continue school for a civilian career and I think it would be difficult for us to both be in school and to handle bills but not impossible. Thanks for the replies so far.
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Bryant Sanchez Fonseca Excellent question, and the only real answer is it depends. The National Guard has some benefits and cons over the reserves. One of the biggest differences is state boundaries. If you are likely to move out of the state for personal or professional reasons the reserve is a much better deal as you don't need the State's permission to move. If that isn't an issue for you then I'd suggest finding a unit close by that is a career field that you are interested in and will enjoy or would significantly help your civilian career. So I'd talk to both and see what jobs they can offer you and decide on that.
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Your choice should be based on you life goals. For example, if one of your life goals is to work as a diesel mechanic, then the Reserve or Guard unit with an opening that can provide that type of training and duty is best. Also, talk with the Reserve and Guard recruiters and decide if any of the MOS they are recruiting for are in a career field that interests you. Keep an open mind about the opportunities. Something that seems a mundane now, such as supply clerk or warehouse person, can lead to bigger things down the road, such as supply chain management. I'm a little prejudice, but transportation and engineering MOS offer readily transferable skills to the civilian work force, so that's worth a look.
Both Guard and Reserve require one weekend a month and two weeks a year of duty. The pay is the same for the same grade and MOS in either Reserve Component. The State Governor can activate (call up) the National Guard to help with a State emergency (flood, hurricane, fire, riots and demonstrations). The Reserves are not subject to activation by the Governor, but can be activated for similar emergencies through the Department of Defense. Units from the Guard or Reserve can be activated to fill DoD requirements overseas. The Governor has to agree to activation of Guard units.
Both Guard and Reserve require one weekend a month and two weeks a year of duty. The pay is the same for the same grade and MOS in either Reserve Component. The State Governor can activate (call up) the National Guard to help with a State emergency (flood, hurricane, fire, riots and demonstrations). The Reserves are not subject to activation by the Governor, but can be activated for similar emergencies through the Department of Defense. Units from the Guard or Reserve can be activated to fill DoD requirements overseas. The Governor has to agree to activation of Guard units.
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Bryant Sanchez Fonseca
Thanks for the reply sir! I forgot to list that as another MOS of interest. Being a diesel mechanic.. because I have an uncle who served in the 90s as one and he is very successful today from that career choice. I guess my first step is shot high for the ASVAB and see what is available for both in my area. But yes my life goal is to bring something with me that will help us be successful in the civilian world
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The first question is why do you want to serve? You already have a green card so you've gotten over the worst of the citizenship process. What are your expectations from serving?
Next, how are you currently providing for your family?
Lastly, does your family support you? Just because it's part time doesn't mean that you won't face the same or similar sacrifices
hardships, and obstacles that active duty soldiers deal with every day.
Next, how are you currently providing for your family?
Lastly, does your family support you? Just because it's part time doesn't mean that you won't face the same or similar sacrifices
hardships, and obstacles that active duty soldiers deal with every day.
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Bryant Sanchez Fonseca
Well I have personally always wanted to serve. I’ve always considered this my country but I couldn’t join because I was only on DACA. I’ve been here since I was 8 months old. So now that the door has opened up I’m looking into my options to better my self. Which brings me to the next question
I am currently working for myself subcontracting all over FL as a drywall finisher and it may be good and keeps us a float because my wife is going to school I spend a lot of money to make money and have zero benefits for us. So which is why I’m looking to get more for us as a family.
And lastly she does support me because she knows I want to do better but I know she has a lot of questions and doubts at the same time. So we will see how it all plays out for us
I am currently working for myself subcontracting all over FL as a drywall finisher and it may be good and keeps us a float because my wife is going to school I spend a lot of money to make money and have zero benefits for us. So which is why I’m looking to get more for us as a family.
And lastly she does support me because she knows I want to do better but I know she has a lot of questions and doubts at the same time. So we will see how it all plays out for us
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Bryant Sanchez Fonseca
It sounds like active duty may be the better option for you. If you're spending money to make money and you're just staying "afloat" the Guard may hamper your financial outlook. You're only going to make initially after training $250 a month and when you factor in paying for Tricare Reserve for your family and your transportation costs of going to drill you're probably only going to pocket about $50. So yes you're serving but you're pretty much in the same spot financially except you have healthcare.
Believe me leaving Florida for the prospective duty stations on Active Duty sucks. They took me from Florida to Kansas; I felt like they held a grudge against me or something, haha. But it sounds like that may be a better option for you. If you want to be closer to home, try getting a guaranteed duty station such as Fort Benning, Stewart, Gordon, Rucker, Campbell, or Jackson
It sounds like active duty may be the better option for you. If you're spending money to make money and you're just staying "afloat" the Guard may hamper your financial outlook. You're only going to make initially after training $250 a month and when you factor in paying for Tricare Reserve for your family and your transportation costs of going to drill you're probably only going to pocket about $50. So yes you're serving but you're pretty much in the same spot financially except you have healthcare.
Believe me leaving Florida for the prospective duty stations on Active Duty sucks. They took me from Florida to Kansas; I felt like they held a grudge against me or something, haha. But it sounds like that may be a better option for you. If you want to be closer to home, try getting a guaranteed duty station such as Fort Benning, Stewart, Gordon, Rucker, Campbell, or Jackson
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It's a personal decision, but if you are looking for Pros and Cons, I know the one major difference in the two is that National guard is state based so you will always be in FL, where as the Reserves is Federal so you could be put in a unit out of state. I know people in the Reserves that lived in GA or even OK that were put in units in AL. It's just a matter of where your needed when it comes to that. I agree with everyone else you might want to check Active as well due to the benefits. NG and AR you get a drill check once a month and for your two week AT. Active is better pay and benefits. As NG and AR you can get Tricare Reserve Select which for a family will run about $200 and some change, so basically your drill check, however it is wonderful insurance. Active you don't have to pay for the Tricare Prime and it's also wonderful insurance.
To be blunt you need to sit down with your wife and discuss the options of all 3. This is a major decision for not only your life but your family as well and while your daughter is too young to have a say so, your wife should be included in the decision making process.
Hope this helps.
To be blunt you need to sit down with your wife and discuss the options of all 3. This is a major decision for not only your life but your family as well and while your daughter is too young to have a say so, your wife should be included in the decision making process.
Hope this helps.
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Bryant Sanchez Fonseca
Thanks you it does help! I currently am self employed so we don’t have any benefits as it is so even just going to drill to pay for our insurance would be a huge help. We plan on sitting down with recruiters next week and hearing what’s all there is to be offered. Thanks again
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