Posted on Jan 8, 2026
SGT Kevin Hughes
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One of the very cool things about living in the South ...Is that the Rich people don't care if you have money ...or not. If they like you, you get invited to the cook out. So Kathy and I got to go and enjoy a barbecue on the water. Beautiful back yards. Everyone had at least a Waverunner (or two). Some sailboats, and paddle boards were floating gently on the water.
We were outside and I snapped this picture of Kathy with her drink. When the Owner of the house came out and said:
"Wait, did you check the yard and under the deck?"
"No. Why?"
"just go in the house for a moment. I will check for Gators and let you know if it is okay."
"Wait, what?"
"Oh, I forgot to tell you. We check before we come out, because the Gators like to hide under the deck, or sun themselves in the grass."
"Oh, we just check for roaches at our house."
She laughed.
"Me, too. This is the South."
So glad the kids were indoors. I had a lot of chores as a kid, but checking the yard for alligators was not one of them.
The food was great, but nobody left any ribs in the yard. Because in any other situation that would be garbage, but down on the water...a rib bone is a lure.
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard
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@kevin Hughes this view reminds me of an outing at a friend's house on Lake Royale, Louisburg NC. We did some canoeing on the lake. It was pretty and quiet with sunsets like the ones Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen posts.
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard
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SGT Kevin Hughes yum! No crab cakes near the water. :(
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SGT Kevin Hughes
SGT Kevin Hughes
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard - Oh yeah, Kathy ate those. I don't eat "Bottom Dwellers." Actually I only eat Cod and Tuna Fish. I think it is partially due to my autism...we are very sensitive to taste, texture and smell. And our imagination runs wild so Lobsters are just big bugs, and crabs are from outer space. LOL
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard
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SGT Kevin Hughes they are big bugs, roaches, and sea aliens. When I was in Italy, I was a sailor. It was financially accessible to try the good life, that included sea earchins, chilled pig brains, snails, octopus, bugs, seaweed, whole fish ungutted. I decided after just looking at the dishes, i'm a whole lot country - collards, turkey, chicken, ham, baked macaroni and cheese, tea with my sugar. --- please and thank you.
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SGT Kevin Hughes
SGT Kevin Hughes
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard - "Tea with my sugar..." Yep, that's me. And man, what a list ...yikes!
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PO3 Edward Riddle
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I went to a family reunion at some rich relatives' house in South Carolina one time and that's what this picture reminds me of Brother Kevin. I hope you had fun though.
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SGT Kevin Hughes
SGT Kevin Hughes
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Free ribs? Free Angus Beef Burgers? And nobody cared if you took seconds? I sure had fun...little nervous about the gators tho. LOL
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PO3 Edward Riddle
PO3 Edward Riddle
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SGT Kevin Hughes - Good for you Brother Kevin. That's all that matters.
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Lt Col Charlie Brown
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If your throwing arm works...toss a few ribs at the gaters while you make your getaway SGT Kevin Hughes
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