Posted on Jan 5, 2014
SSG Alleria Stanley
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For example, I've had many a Sergeant Major or Colonel give a speech and list their Three Rules of Army Life that they've learned over their career. &nbsp;It's gotten me thinking now that I'm halfway through my career, what are mine?<br><br>So far:<br><br>&nbsp; &gt; &nbsp;Ask BEFORE you pounce. &nbsp; As NCOs, we so often jump on a Soldier before learning the facts. &nbsp;Very often, there's extenuating circumstances.<br>&nbsp; &gt; &nbsp;Believe in the good of the people. &nbsp;Learned this in my civilian career. &nbsp;People are inherently good, meaning that the Soldier is likely not trying to get over, but more likely just screwed up.<br>&nbsp; &gt; &nbsp;Know the rules of the game you're playing. &nbsp;My Soldiers have heard this OFTEN. &nbsp;There are hundreds of regulations, and you can't know them ALL, BUT there's no reason not to know the ones that apply to what you're doing at the moment. &nbsp;If you're taking an APFT, know the rules about the APFT. &nbsp;Facing overweight? Learn AR 600-9. &nbsp;Curious about your NCOER? &nbsp;Read the regulation AND the DA PAM. &nbsp;Because for damn sure, the ones above you have. &nbsp;As I am fond of saying, if you're playing Monopoly, you want to know when the banker is cheating, so why is your career any different?<br><br>So, what are your three nuggets of knowledge?
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Edited 12 y ago

SSG Stanley, excellent question, here's the three rules that I've learned thus far 1) first, a take-off of the phrase popularized by President Reagan, "Trust your folks, just ensure that you verify the results." As a leader you are ultimately responsible, 2) next, tell your people 'what' result you're looking for, and leave it up to them on 'how' to accomplish it. The only caveat being if you get the ol' "deer caught in the headlights" look when sharing the 'what,' you may have to offer some recommendations from your own experience, or potentially pair them with someone to help the project along. Also, refer to rule one to ensure positive results overall... and finally, 3) "share the successes" (with your folks, give them the credit for their hard work and celebrate their success(es) both individually and as a team), "take responsibility for failures" (as they're a necessary component for success, and a responsible leader absorbs the impact of any failures that happen along the way), and "enjoy the ride" (remain in the moment and enjoy what you do, as you will very likely recall these later as among the best years of your life)!  Again, great question, I hope that these are helpful and that you get a lot of feedback on this thread... wishing you all the best and continued success in the New Year! V/r Maj B  

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CH (CPT) Heather Davis
CH (CPT) Heather Davis
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MAJ Burns:


Respectfully, the sacred bond of trust and the belief in yourself, your team, your unit and your superiors moves doubt, creates cohesion and provides the next generation the ability to grow beyond the limit of man made boundaries.


I concur the importance to keep up and down the chain informed and to provide them with insight to ensure that they are not blinded.


I learned that as a junior enlisted, I would always provide my leadership with heads up. To this day I inform my leadership if I overstepped my boundaries or if I need to mend a fence.


Transparency is the key to building sacred bonds of trust.


Happy New Year


V/R


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SSG Robert Burns
SSG Robert Burns
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CPT Davis I have a question about your last line there.  And I'm only asking because Im curious of your response, not because I'm challenging it.
If transparency is the key to building trust, what is the value of trust that is built on transparency?  When I think about the word trust, transparency doesn't come to mind.  That would be more like proof to me.
I think trust and faith are synonymous.  And if faith is the evidence of things not seen (Heb 11:1) how can you equate that with transparency?  Just a thought.

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CH (CPT) Heather Davis
CH (CPT) Heather Davis
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SSG Burns:


Respectfully, here it goes you are absolutely correct you need to trust and have faith when going through trials and tribulations. When I was a SSG I had to have faith that when I crossed over to Warrant after being enlisted for twenty two years I would be able to endure the transition.


When I went from CW2 to 2LT Candidate to be able to be a Chaplain Candidate I was hitting a wall. It wasn't until I was vulnerable and willing to share my personal shortcomings and struggles with others was when I experienced growth which is transparency.


I was reading "Patton's Mind" and General Patton was 55 years old when he was a COL. He struggled with fulfilling his purpose.


When I went through my internship as a Chaplain Resident in order to be a Hospital Chaplain I had to endure a year of group therapy. That is when I realized the importance of hearing others and receiving their input.


I had to bring my defensive walls down and to build a sacred bond of trust I had to allow others to see me.




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1) Keep a cookie jar/piggy bank. Give to your subordinates by "depositing" into the bank by helping them (giving them family time, taking care of a financial issues, etc). Withdraw from the bank when you need to hit them up for things (keeping them late, etc). Never let the piggy bank go negative or to zero.

2) Treat everyone you work with from PVT to SMA to General the same - with respect, like a human. Everyone in the Army is an adult by the time they arrive at their first unit. Leaders need to quit demeaning their subordinates and kissing ass to superiors.

3) Know what you are talking about. Quit being the leader that says "this is the way we have already done it" or "I heard that...." - know the regulation, FM, ADP, etc and cite it. You don't have to memorize every book in the Army. But you need to know where to look and how to search on Google, and then be willing to spend the time to find it. Example - as an S2 NCOIC I told the troop 1SG and CDRs they couldn't store classified material in their two drawer safe with their arms room keys. It took me like a week to find the answer IN WRITING. Even though I KNEW the answer to be true, I didn't want to be THE GUY that just quoted air.
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1. Every choice you make must be made with reverence for the fact that there are people counting on you to make a good decision. The reason for your existence is to lead them and bring them home alive and nothing besides accomplishing the mission is more important than that.

2. Always be out front. If you have to split your platoon or company to do two missions at the same time, always go with the more difficult or more dangerous mission. Your Soldiers will know and they will respect you for it. If you don't always do this, they will know that, too, and they will lose respect for you. 

3. (for officers) Trust your NCOs, but follow your gut. Don't feel chained to the notion that they drill into you in IBOLC or whatever branch school you went to that you must always listen to your platoon sergeant. Don't get me wrong: it is ESSENTIAL that you ask for input from your platoon sergeant and squad leaders because they will show you a different perspective and challenge your ideas. Sometimes, however, you really do know better, regardless of the rhetoric and the jokes that the lower enlisted Soldiers throw around. I used to be an NCO before I commissioned, so I feel qualified to say that even brand new officers know a lot more than most people think they do. Above all, you know right from wrong and always do what's right, even if your platoon sergeant and squad leaders are hounding you to do something else. It takes personal courage to not take their advice, but as long as your NCOs know beyond a doubt that you trust them and value their input, they will respect you.
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CH (CPT) Heather Davis
CH (CPT) Heather Davis
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CPT Nunes:


Well said, it is important to hear input and learn from those that have served before you. However, when you are in charge, be in charge and stand on regulation.

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