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PFC Justin Gkuspie
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I have a couple of friends who are Marines (They are both out but I know 'Once a Marine always a Marine') and I've jokingly called them jarheads and they've made fun of the Army. I'd never call someone I just met a jarhead unless they absolutely knew I was joking. I guess what I'm getting at is, do you think interservice rivalry can sometimes come off as 'offensive'' even if it's meant jokingly?
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SSG Harry Herres
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We each have our nic names. Pride is our heartage. As long as we all know we are proud of our service, thats all that counts. Thank you all, coasties, swabbies, airdales, jarheads, and GIs you are what makes us great.
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PO1 Charles Babcock
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I Agree with Lt Col Tisher, it all depends on who's saying it. My submarine duty usually got me tagged as "squid" or "Bubble Head". No problem if it came from another Military member, as I have comebacks for each of the other services. I Do find it offensive if it comes from a random "Joe Civilian" who has never served.
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PO3 Michael L
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I am a navy veteran and my uncle is a former marine... I would call him a jarhead and he would call me a squid and we would hug right after
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SPC Franklin McKown
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SOUNDS like an INFANTRY question to me...Cav don't care.
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SSgt BillandMaggie Straub
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When I get kidded by other vets or active duty about being an "Airdale", or bird dog for being in the Air Force I take no offense at all. After all, a Jarhead, Navy Bellhop (Marine) Anchor Clanker, Swabbie, (Navy) Knee-deep Navy, or they wear shorts in case the ship goes down they won't get their pants wet, (Coast Guard) Knuckle dragger, Grunt, Dog face (Army), should feel a large amount of pride. They earned the nicknames by virtue of being brave, honorable, and patriotic because they were part of the Brotherhood/ Sisterhood of Hero's who served this country. Now if some snowflake, draft dodging never served, civilian used those terms. It's on. Only those who were willing to come home in a box can use the names which many times are said in a derogatory manner. Just sayin'.
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SSgt Boyd Herrst
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I think it’s the attitude the person using it is in..., maybe they’re being sarcastic, obnoxious .. belligerent.. when they sAy those words... it’s a matter of character the person that it is being used against is
In.. how will they react ; like it’s water off a duck’s back and laugh with them ? Laugh with them, and that person’s offense is weakened ..
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Frederick King
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Th Marines I've known don't care what you call them. Jar head, grunts, Mullet heads. That's what they called each other long ago, around Camp Lejeune, NC. My Dad was a Captain. 2nd Amtrac battalion, 2nd Division, I believe. He worked with the Tacticians. I worked for the Navy. Fast Attacks. We said "death from Below" , kill em all, let God sort them out. The Marines had better sayings, gerally. They said the same good, relevant stuff as we did, and much more. Love the Marines, Navy, and all our troops.
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PO2 Rev. Frederick C. Mullis, AFI, CFM
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Offensive?? Among the services?? Of Course Not! I have called Jarheads Grunts, and even the ever loyal Mud Marines Sometimes when my nephew who did the unspeakable and went into the Army when his Uncle, Grand Uncle Grand father and Uncle were all in the Navy and one Uncle was ever in the Army Air Corps he became a Dog Face. That one srange Uncle who was a B-24 navigator with the US Army Air Corps then became the AIr Force always took it good when we called him Fly Boy. It is all good fun even when the fists fly as long as it is all over before the MP's, SP's or the local constabulary's arrive. BUT GOD HELP THE CIVILIAN SNOW FLAKE THAT TRIES TO CALL ONE OF US THOSE NAMES. They will have to pick him up with a spatula!
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I just received an email from an old friend about a discussion - is the term "shyster" antisemitic. It comes from the German for excrement. And of course Yiddish has its roots in German, so therefore it must be an antisemitic term, right? Oh scheise!
SFC Jimmy Sellers
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No. If your feelings get hurt by words than the Marines probably is not the right place for you.
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LTC James McElreath
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I have worked with several Marines both in the service and the civilian side and I really got the impression that was a term of endearment. That is not to say they will not banter back and fourth as well. To be safe, it might be more prudent to know the person, as a friend on the outside chance the person is not in a good mood.
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Capt Karlos Nordinsifeller
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Nope
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SCPO Rick Hunter
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As Colonel Tisher stated below, it really all depends on who and how it's said. I was an FMF Corpsman as such was called, well a lot of so-called "derogatory" names. The best was when someone mistakenly called me either Jarhead or Marine. I'd correct them right away but I was also proud I comported myself in such a manner as to be mistaken for a Marine. As someone else said, I'd never lead with calling someone I'd just met by a slang name for members of their service. And I've been in situations where former members of other branches have given people much more than was just inter-service rivalry and that can go too far. Bottom line is, all of us are proud, or should be, of our service, branch of service, unit and occupational speciality
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PO2 Lewis Brockman
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I was in the Navy in the late 60's and we jokingly called eachother leather necks and swabbies if someone not in or have been in the service ,that we did not know , he had a bad day
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SPC Clayton Ellzey
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Brothers can joke and bs with each other .But an outsider better think twice before messing with one .
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CPO Chris Kellar
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If someone gets upset by this, they need to go home and get their baby bottle. I always loved the inter military rivalry.
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SSG Clayton Kuehn
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If you have worn the uniform, terms such as Dogface, Jarhead, Squid or Zoomie are no more than friendly jibes among the different services and, in my opinion acceptable. The only one I find offensive in any way is the term "GI" as I have heard it used by civilians and mostly with a negative connotation. The serviceman and servicewomen serving, and who have served, are professionals, not Government Issue by any measure.
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SA Scotty Carter
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I've been called "squid", "deck-ape" and a few other things, I don't get offended and I don't see any reason why anyone should take offense at any of the terms used to denote the branch of service the are/ have served in.
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SSG Ricky Johnson
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Having went to a tri-service school (indianhead) naval school that had Army, Air Force, Navy, and Marine Corps. There were Squids, Ground Pounders (gravel agitators), Wing Walkers, and Jarheads. We all wore (or would wear) the Charles County Crab. That badge denoted a band of brothers beyond service. We get that. It has been a proven bond since 1940s.
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SFC Scott Parkhurst
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I've never called anyone but their rightful name. I just never felt right calling a Marine a "jarhead"...I feel only they can call themselves that. As I haven't earned that right. I also feel that only those of us who have served and or are serving can call ourselves our nicknames....and only when it's appropriate.
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PO1 Dan McCarthy III
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I have no problem with Squids,Jarheads,Puddle Pirates,Dog Legs,et al we can and will say whatever about our Brothers and Sisters any Family member can however if not part of this Family Brotherhood/Sisterhood you do not have that Right. However the biggest problem I have is with those Cranyon Eating Grunts,they only eat the Maroon/Yellow ones !
HooAh! OohRah! HooYah!
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PO3 William Harney
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No not at all.
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Lt Col Ron Jacobs
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Not really if its from another military person. Having served in several inter service groups I was constantly reminded of the Air Force penchant for building the golf course and often was shown pictures of a aircraft carrier with a turf covered flight deck if the carrier had been owned by USAF
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CA Christopher Reidt
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I tend to be in the same mindset. If you served, game on, if not, you may lose your head
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Capt Edward Hannan
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I am not offended when another veteran or active service member uses a name like Jarhead, I am not even sure it is meant to be offensive. I was recently at a dock in San Diego when a man (navy vet) saw the EGA on my cover and reminded me that the Corps was a department of the Navy. I replied that it was, the MEN'S DEPARTMENT. I thanked him for feeding me the opening to this old joke, and we started a barrage of jokes which his wife interrupted as it was their dinner time. As for civilians, I really don't care. They are either ignorant or jealous.
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GySgt Thomas Reichard
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I'm a Marine, everyone else on here is in the Military.

Whiskey-Tango-Foxtrot, Over! "Offensive", because of a few words, give me a break! When it hit's the fan, the things we have to face, now that is offensive.
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PFC Brian Brody
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I don't find it offensive I wear it proidly
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SPC Michael Rosauer
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We are family and family pick on each other and it's fun I was in the ARMY and my stepson is a JARHEAD we have fun pick on each other when I get to see him GOD BLESS YOU ALL THAT WERE IN
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GySgt Michael Harris
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These are terms of endearment between warriors, and yes it is better to know a Marine before calling them a jar-head the out come will favor you better.
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HN Al Myers
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I always enjoyed the the team easy and fun when I served, I was a Navy Corpsman called a swab by,
my friends Doc by My Marines, show I called jarheads, including my dad who was a WW2 Marine. It was always said with respect
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Sgt Michael Sayles
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A Navy Corpsman who serves with Marines in combat is as much a Marine as any Grunt. Semper Fi Devil Doc!
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SGT J M Porters
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Only in a time of political correctness. Let me ask you a question? Do you find being called a prick offensive?
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SFC Richard Baerlocher
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As a retired E-7, I believe that calling any branch names that could be considered to be offensive should be off limits except in a closed crowd among only friends. I once watched a major fight break out in Waikiki between the Army, Navy and Marines because of what some thought to be offensive. Keep it to friends and you will be alright.
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Sgt Michael Sayles
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We usually hate the Navy unless someone else decides to pick on them, then we are all in!!
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Cpl Douglas Loven
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No, not really. it's all done in fun besides we all know the Marines are the best in the world. The fact we might eat crayons is irrelevant.
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Maj Ken Brown
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I we were this thin-skinned, we'd never have made it through boot camp. "You're so ugly you could be a modern art masterpiece." "Did your parents ever have any children that lived? I bet they regret that." "You've got all the coordination of a parapligic cockroach." "Sound off like you've got a pair."

"Jarhead" is just another term of endearment. i wear it with pride.
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Sgt Michael Sayles
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Rah! Yut!
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Cpl Ed Casala
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Pretty much applies to the term Jarhead as well in my mind. But this Jarhead does not find it offensive at all.
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Cpl Ed Casala
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SPC William Szkromiuk
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Ahhhh................No.
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SSG Ken Gilder
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O'd say it depends on context. There's a hell of s difference between "Hey, jarhead! Let's go over to the club and have a beer!", and "That jarhead is about as useful as pockets in underwear!"
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Maj Ken Brown
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Teats on a boarded, balls on a preacher, or g*****ed ants.
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PO2 Mark Boone
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My brother and nephew are marines veterans, my dad and I are navy veterans so theirs a lot of names thrown back and forth! But it’s ok we’re all veterans even if the marines are our illegitimate stepbrothers!!
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PO2 Keith Reese
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Most if not all vets realize and accept interservice rivalry, they should anyway bc it's all over the active duty service from the jokes to friendships to being out on the town. I feel if a vet has a problem with another vet calling him/her the accepted terms of endearment then that's the first vets problem, let it be known at the outset. Civvies have no business talking about something they know nothing about. My only exceptions would be an extremely close family member or a very close lifelong friend.
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