Posted on Jul 31, 2020
MSgt B Grimes
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What are your thoughts given some basic info? Fraud, Criminal Intent, PTSD & psychology.
An Army infantry soldier completes a first term 4 year enlistment, excited following 9/11. Possibly serves only one overseas tour, and never fires his weapon in combat. Gets out of Army following enlistment and joins Army Guard. Within first year of guard duty (upon orders for overseas tour) claims PTSD threatens to kill his comrades. Is released from duty.
Member has tried for 12 years to get benefits, and finally receives 100% disability. Claims to his family that his PTSD disease is cured. Does not follow psychologists prescriptions, as they are not really needed.
Was member fit for duty when enlisting in the Army Guard? Or did this member fraudulently join having pre-existing condition?
Can this member have concealed carry and go hunting, when he claims PTSD for gunfire?
would you consider this member to be defrauding the government and taxpayer?
Soldier has lied to family members claiming to be heroic sniper, only to reveal as lies later, having never fired his weapon in actual combat. Possibly used similar lies to VA psychologist.
How would you approach situation? VA does not seem to care, and does not offer path for investigation.
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SSgt Marvin Cole
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Every veteran who has served in a combat zone suffers from PTSD at some level. Some very small, some very large.

Some Veterans bring their Anxieties and Mental Issues with them when they enter the military. The nature of Service Connected simply implies that whatever that person did in the Military resulted in less than maximum participation in the workforce.

It is way to complicated to find simple solutions. The process of obtaining a PTSD disability is strenuous and goes thru several level to ultimately reach the level of disability.

War Zones changes people.

I am 90% Service Connected, paid at 100% because I am unemployable. The process I went thru was filled with Psychiatrist, Psychologist, and Counseling visits. Immensely helpful. I function well today, because I do not have to worry about finances. I do not have to worry about medical care. I do not believe I could do it without my VA disability.

You cannot always tell what's in a book by it's cover. Judging others without the benefit of all the information is just rumor mongering and just being a busy body. The professionals in the VA have done their job! None of us, should judge them without having the proper credentials.
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SGT Steven Bolander
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MSgt B Grimes - Wait a minute. Are you saying that YOU'RE "traumatized" because you're worried that someone ELSE might be fraudulently claiming PTSD?? Please tell me that you're not using that as the basis for a PTSD claim of your own.

(Maybe I should file a claim that I'm traumatized over what YOU'RE saying.
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1SG Rick Seekman
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MSgt B Grimes don't get upset over things you have no control of. It will eat you up from the inside out. Be better than that..
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CWO4 Tony Howdeshell
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I disagree with the statement "Every Veteran who has served in combat has PTSD at some level". I served 30 years and have 15 combat deployments and have been deployed to every high threat enviroment from my first combat tour in Desert Storm to my last one in Syria in 2016. I do not have PTSD, even though the VA doctors want to check me everytime I go to the VA. I know many other vets that do no have PTSD as well. I acknoledget that some vets have PTSD and I feel for my brothers and sisters that do, but it is wrong to state that all vets have PTSD.
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MSgt Loren Pierce
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CWO4 Tony Howdeshell - I agree with you 100%. I served three tours of duty in war zones, worked in the Fire Dept and saw horrific incidents, and then had a career in Law Enforcement and I do not suffer from PTSD. Like you, every visit to the VA ends with trying to make me an appointment to psych to put in a claim for PTSD. It's not hard to fall into the trap especially for the money their trying to handout to everyone these day.s
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Why do you care? How does this affect you personally?

Also PTSD = Post Traumatic Stress Disorder...so anyone can suffer from it if they suffered from trauma. If one is in a serious car accident, sexual assault, etc, you can get PTSD. Childhood abuse, domestic violence. The list goes on. People need to stop thinking you only get PTSD in combat.
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1LT Neal Schwartz
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TSgt Don Dollinger - Our home was burglarized, they used our pillow cases off the bed to carry their loot. My wife would not sleep in that bed, and she could not touch her pillow. New pillows did not help, we bought a new bed. Her thoughts of them touching things in her house did not go away until we moved out of the area. Then new trauma. She missed her friends and shopping seriously, she cried for two years, almost every night. We made a trip back to visit friends two years later, and saw the disgusting rise in crime, filth, homeless camps, and such in the Seattle suburb we had lived in. After visiting our friends and returning to our new home it all stopped, she was okay again and thankful for the move. She seldom brings up the burglary anymore, but can openly talk about it. This has nothing to do with disability benefits, but may give you some insight as to a woman's PTSD issues that might be quite different than a man's. My issue on the burglary just made me really mad (sever anger), mainly because we know who did it but the police were too cautious to charge them for lack of proof other than their car description and license number from a young man that observed them coming over our fence with the loot on their backs. I was more traumatized by the lack of police's inability to do anything about it I considered a personal lawsuit but the culprits had nothing that could benefit me. Someday they may just get caught and literally taken out, that is my salvation.
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PO1 Janice Ritz
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SPC Gloria Anderson - Are you seeing a personal therapist? If you are, make sure you are talking with your therapist about the incident that caused the trauma. Make sure they are writing it down in your record (get your Blue Dot record to make sure). If you're not seeing a personal therapist, ask for one. Demand one. Advocate for yourself. Every single time you go to the VA, talk about your anxiety, depression, and other symptoms related to your trauma with your doctors. And get it documented in your medical file. After 11 years of trying and therapy, I finally receive compensation for my MST related PTSD. Yes, it took a lot of hard work on my part, but I feel better for it and I finally feel vindicated.
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SFC John Ruffin
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Very well spoken....
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MSgt Don Miller
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It annoys the heck out of me to hear PTS “D”!! I do not have a “disorder”!!! I experienced traumatic stress - many times in 26 years and many combat deployments. I “suffer” from post traumatic stress. I don’t “have” a disorder!! Don’t hang that tag on me please.
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CSM Darieus ZaGara
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No offense but there is certainly a lot of he said, she said, and speculation. As for PTSD, many pepp op or are affecting by things in life differently. It could be that he made up stories about his experience in order to justify his level of PTSD, not wishing to admit that the environment itself got to him. As for telling his family one thing only to recant is a classic sign that he may be dealing with deeper issues, I.e. there is nothing wrong with me, you have nothing to fear I mad me it all up. This is done, in some instances, to take the concern from the family. As for not taking meds, that too is a common issue.

The psychologists at the VA have the distinct advantage of accessing his entire military and medical record, they know where he was, for how long, and in most cases what he experienced.

If he is legit, then his Family should ask to attend a family counseling session with the VA in order to learn how to support him, he’ll he is troubled either way, PTSD or not. So money aside he needs help. Also, the VA reassess all levels of compensation about every five years until about 55. They will also review over 55 if the condition is one that is thought to be repairable. So, if he is a fraud he will be found out, and removed or reduced.

So my first thought would be the benefit of the doubt, if he won’t attend a family session, I recommend his loved ones seek counseling and read up on how to help and cope with him. Soldiers are very adapt at masking their feelings. God Bless.
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SP5 Bill Belisle
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SP5 Bill Belisle I've been searching for my medical records from the mid-60's, with no luck. They were either lost in the famous "St. Louis fire" or misplaced and lost somewhere between my overseas duty and return to the US. You would think that the VA would have a system to track every bit of veteran's info, sort of like the FBI's methods of snooping on American citizens!
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TSgt Daniel Newman
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Well the fact family members cant vouch for him and he tells lies of his service. I am sick to God of these phony desk jocks getting over
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MSgt Loren Pierce
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NCO Academy speech writing course gave me PTSD. That should be worth a 100%
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Falsely claiming PTSD for VA benefits?
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I just spent the last 45 minutes or so reading the various posts in this thread. And perhaps slightly longer writing this response in between coffee breaks chatting with my wife and playing with our 'needy' 2.5 yr old Huskie.

First, great topic and some very interesting and thoughtful responses on the whole.

First, my wife who is also USN (Ret) worked at the Navy's Drug and Alcohol Rehab Center at NOB, Norfolk for 3-yrs. I was aboard ship during the time. We did not often speak of work, but when we did the conversations were interesting. She once told me of a story of high performing yet borderline alcoholic USAF Officer what had been sent to the center by his command for treatment. Long story short one day the Officer finally broken down about a traumatic event in his youth. Accordingly, he had shut the room up and his fellow "recoveries" listened intently.

His story was a story of misplaced discipline that did not allow for love or measured compassion. It is a classic story of a desire for a father (aka male role model) to be hard nosed and never show an ounce of care for fear of being seen as weak. A fear he passed to his son by suppressing his (that is his son's) desire for joy in his life, because perhaps their had been no joy in his own. The USAF Officer had risen to Major with early selection at each opportunity to advance, according to my wife. But, this gentleman was troubled and haunted by his youth. As my wife told of his story I could not help but think about our two small children at the time, especially my son, who was younger than his sister by a couple of years. I could not help but understand how important being both firm yet loving is a tight rope every parent walks and prays that even a gentle breeze does not plunge them into oblivion. This USAF Officer could no longer hide his alcohol dependence or the tell-tale signs it was leaving. Someone in his chain of command exercised a level of compassion to help him save himself - from himself. The one thing this USAF Officer wanted most was for his father to fly a kite with him. Simple, one would think. Paper, balsa wood and string and perhaps some ribbon for a tail. Fairly inexpensive activity.

Yet, can we call a "no joy" on this one? This built up and built up until the Officer's capacity to suppress and repress the impact of the act of rejection was beginning to overwhelm him and impact his otherwise superior sustained performance. The solution to getting this Officer back on track was simple and elegant. His fellow participants were so moved they asked my wife to lobby for them to be able to all go to Virginia Beach to surprise him and fly kites. Typically, this was not protocol. But, in typical fashion my wife, typically a tough lady, showed her often guarded softer side by convincing the counseling staff that it made sense as part of the healing process to get an official bus to that that class to the beach. So, on a Friday afternoon in late October on a somewhat deserted beach with a 15 mph breeze blowing across the sand this group of vulnerable people took their classmate out for a day none would soon forget and from which all would reveal and heal in ways they did not realize they would. Unknown to the Officer the men and women, black and white, enlisted and officer alike boarded a 40 pack bus to the beach as part of a "planned activity" for that group. Only the USAF Officer did not know it was ALL for him.

The bus had been pre-loaded the night before with kites so that the person in question had no idea they were even their. Coolers of drinks (water, soda, tea) had been loaded before dawn. Boxes of lunches were loaded just after dawn just as the "students" were waking. By 07:30 all were up and by 08:00 all were headed to breakfast at the beach. Arrangements had been made to get them feed, not at the chow hall, but near the beach.

After breakfast around 10:00 am the supposed activity was to go to the beach and just walk. Some of the participants simply made sure the Officer was surround by people while others got out the kites. Then the surprise was exposed when he saw people bringing kites of all shapes and sizes to fly. For nearly six hours he flew kites to his great joy. A hole had been filled in his heart and spirit that had been filled by his own father. My wife said that this group came together and stuck together not only through the remainder of their treatment process, but were one of the strongest post treatment groups in her three+ years of her service as an intake specialist.

Why tell this story? Simple...take a moment to also read this article 25 Jul 2020 article entitled - How PTSD can look like Borderline Personality Disorder, by Christine Hammond, MS, LMHC. This 31 Jul 2020 article entitled - CPTSD, PTSD, OCD and Trauma: How Creating Boundaries Will Set You Free, by Jenna Grace may also be helpful to some.

During my time as a Navy Corpsman, especially being a Chief, some fellow sailors from my commands were sent to my wife. My COs were glad I had that in. I cannot begin to recount the stories we now talk about more freely than we did on AD, for obvious reasons. But, there was many a day after duty when she would come home and I knew she was tired, but a sort of happy tired. A tired you get when you have allow the human condition to work on the gentle cycle to wash just the dirt out of good clothes.

Also, there is an emerging body of research regarding ACES (Adverse Childhood Experiences). This involves issue of child abuse in many forms from cruel emotional events to the deflowering of innocence, usually at the hands of adults, but also at the hands of under-aged bullies, thugs really. See the CDC (https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/acestudy/index.html) to 'begin' to understand the ACES issue. Also, search PubMed if you want to begin to understand the cross and intersections that such events heap long term on our young. A study of ACES does not a lack of discipline, in fact it requires self-discipline to instill proper discipline in a manner the mitigates ACES and growth strong, healthy and resilient human beings.

All in all, there are those whose minds and hearts are 'nefarious' by nature and will do that which does not hold them accountable either to themselves or to others. But, what can do is to try to make the system holds them accountable both to themselves and to others. That is why I appreciate that SSgt Richard Kensinger regarding his "5 decades...of clinical..." experience. Each person's reflections in this post are valid and are presented from a "...certain point of view...." Yet, as true as what SSgt Marvin Cole when he says that "...War Zones changes people..." so do operations in peace time. What about flight operations when a rooter from a CH-53 spins off cutting the unsuspecting sailor in half. The trauma this "peacetime" event can cause, if left unchecked can be hard to deal with. That is why what SPC Anitra Bailey-Bearfield was so important to read.

But, the Socratic Method, is critical, because we know that there are those well practiced who would, as easily as those that have "Stolen Value" only to puff themselves up will take from those deserving to attempt to give to themselves something they don't deserve and have never earned - honor!

So this tread, so far, has been the kind of post that demonstrates measured response and consideration from multiple vectors. I think 3e5x1-engineering is very wise in her statement when she said:

"...PTSD does not require more than a second of an event and it doesn’t matter if you never fire your weapon, or even have a weapon for that matter. PTSD can occur for a host of reasons, combat is just one example..."

In my current work as a Data Scientist and Research Specialist I read and review all sorts of vetted articles and research materials on PTSD and other topics specific to veterans and their families for the training my company develops for commercial healthcare. This provides me an interesting view on the world and topics, like PTSD. It also happens my sister is trained in psychology and sociology and was an Army wife for 20 yrs until her husband got stupid. She served, as a DoD civilian, in front-line operations to support the troops that also included 5 yrs in the 'green zone'. She is in the desert now as I type this response. We get to have many conversations including one just a few days ago. One the outside she is hard, but a softer more gentle spirit you will not find. She may come across like a drill Sargent, but like my wife of > 40 years she reads things well and take no crap, especially when the sly are trying to BS her. That brings me to this final point.

I believe CSM Darieus ZaGara is onto something by reminding us that...:

"...The psychologists at the VA have the distinct advantage of accessing his entire military and medical record, they know where he was, for how long, and in most cases what he experienced...."

What is important now is that we heed what SSG Trevor S. has shared...:

"...False claims allocate resources to those who don't need it, overburdens the compensation funds causing "cost savings measures" to hurt others (such as refusing concurrent receipt for retirees under 50%), and causes social stigma for all Veterans in the workplace and society in general..."

In the end, the fraud of the 10% hurts the care needed by 90% and impacts 100% of the population! Mental health is a true double-edge sword - With it applied in proper measure we begin to solve 'real issues', but when it is misused either by the individual or at a societal level we actually create a multiplying negative effect.

SSG Smith also make a critical observation when he says...:

"...If you can prove this person is committing fraud then report them to the VA..."

But, one has to be wrapped real tight and such 'documentation' has to be carefully recorded and corroborated. Think of it this way, it takes at least TWO 'honest' eye-witnesses to make a recommendation for the MOH. Before the MOH is awarded the investigation is intense because the 'worthiness' to have such an honor bestowed is weighed and measured with great intensity!!!

So, MSgt B Grimes, I am just an old Navy Chief 'Doc', what do I know? If you are concerned carefully write up your 'evidence'. Present it on draft paper as you would as if you are briefing the CO after a careful investigation that he has asked you to examine. I am sure you have been in such a position before. This gives you a chance to reflect on what is taking place. Speak to both facts 'in evidence' and the facts that right now - only seem to be conjecture.


I agree with CSM Darieus ZaGara when he says...:

"...If he is legit, then his Family should ask to attend a family counseling session with the VA in order to learn how to support him,..." Furthermore, he is correct that "...if he won’t attend a family session, I recommend his loved ones seek counseling and read up on how to help and cope with him. Soldiers (aka military types in general) are very adapt at masking their feelings...."

If his family, who should know his character, is not trusting his bloviating story about his exploits, then tread carefully. He may need help, but he needs to see he needs help. A 2006 movie called "Home of the Brave" staring Samuel L. Jackson, speaks to issues that may be germane here. If you have not watched it watch. While it is 'Hollywood' it is interesting and informative.

Finally, keep in mind that many who have not served find what many have given in the service to our country is often beyond their comprehension or belief. Perhaps, that is because they have never chosen to test themselves in the crucibles of military service - in or out of a war zone. That is not to say their experiences are less or more, they are just different and like ours have to be respected with the benefit of the doubt - until proven otherwise. That does not mean not holding someone accountable, rather it means the opposite in being accountable!

As you give counsel to his family, remind, them that if he has committed a genuine fraud that he remains a human being who will require their support. They don't have to excuse his behavior, rather they have to work to help him accept accountability and seek to get at the root cause of the need to perpetrate such an act. It is a narrow path you are considering walking. Once you have started down that path there is no turning back.

If this person has 'delusions of grandeur' then as CSM ZaGara said "...if he is a fraud he will be found out...." Our jobs as senior enlisted are complexly simple or simply complex. Who would have thought?

I'll leave you with this...:

Imagine this is your younger brother or sister that you have grown up with. How would you break them down so that you could build them up to be stronger and more honest? What would you consider and why? From what position do you want to help your sibling - legalistic or compassionate or some combination of both?

Doing the right thing is ALWAYS hard. But knowing that it is RIGHT is ALWAYS the hardest and fraught with doubt!!!

The question is ... Are you willing to go the distance and be their on the other side when this human-being will need you the most and at their most vulnerable point? (OR) Is what you are asking a matter that you see to correct what appears to be fraud, that is actually fear manifested in stories the "story teller" cannot now take back or control, for fear of being discovered as a fraud? Remember.....:

Never allow the 'real valor' of those humble who don't voice it in bloviation to be stolen, and never allow those with a tendency for such bloviation the opportunity to steal the humble valor of those so blessed by such courage and grace. Yet, give the bloviator the opportunity to seek forgiveness and ask for honest non-judgmental - help to hold them accountable, if they are prepared to do the hard work - to heal!

In any event, just some old Navy guy's thoughts.......

COL Mikel J. Burroughs; SFC James J Palmer IV (JP4); LTC Stephen F.; Maj Robert Carson; Maj Marty Hogan; Lt Col Charlie Brown; LTC (Join to see);LTC Stephen C.; SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth; LTC Jason Mackay; MSgt Robert "Rock" Aldi; SCPO Morris Ramsey
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CPO Nate S.
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Maj Robert Carson - (Bob), your counsel is dear to me and warmly received one human-being to the other. I understand the requirement for elegant or even brutal brevity. Yet, I have witnessed too many times "fragments" of such brevity, elegant or brutal, taken one way or the other out of context. I don't pretend to be wise, or even wax poetic in my, at times, winded responses. Rather, I seek the perspectives of many, when offered thoughtfully, as many do here on RP, and by some who do not.

Short apparently clear answers well written have been assailed by some with a vengeance. Then taken down paths in an attempt to chop up such simple direct responses to make them, as one song goes, little more than "...dust in the wind..." of human discourse.

The world is an interconnected place, as such, I choose to string together the harmony of voices from their independent commentary into a commentary that, while yes, is a little long is a more complete thought. Many participants here on RP have some excellent thoughts. I choose most of the time to be more dialogic in my responses by providing an interconnected summary of the collective wisdom I also learn from. That is why, with some responses, I choose to bring together my thoughts from the wisdom of many others vs responding "chopped up."

Think of it this way. The synthesis of our nation came and continues to come about by people of very different backgrounds and experiences. Some experiences good and some not so much. From those experience choices about the action to and they do not take. In Newton's 3rd law of Motion Chaos and order are, in fact, the most profound example of that law at work. Equal and opposite forces pulling and pushing against each other. That is be beauty and simplicity of E=mc2. I don't pretend to understand the math that arrived at Einstein's equation, but he did not talk a "E" in one thread, "c2" in another, nor "m" altogether differently. He spoke about their harmony and unity. He was was not brief, but painstaking in that work to get to this - elegant simplicity.

If we allow Newton's 1st law of motion to prevail without applying friction to the thrust that goes in a single array, then, we risk propelling the rock ship of emotion uncontrolled only to be "lost in space." So, to the greatest extent possible I demonstrate my capacity for "active listening" of the many RP voices by a synthesis of those voices reflected in my understanding that they are speaking to me and only to me for purposes of crafting my responses. Yet, I don't take their words as my own without giving credit where credit is do, rather I hope that I demonstrate my humble respect for their voices as I allow them to help me find my own.

Besides, in a 15 Dec 2010 article by Natalie Wolchover in Popular Science entitled "FYI: How Many Different Ways Can a Chess Game Unfold?" she observed the following...:

"Almost nothing looks more orderly than chess pieces before a match starts. The first move, however, begins a spiral into chaos. After both players move, 400 possible board setups exist. After the second pair of turns, there are 197,742 possible games, and after three moves, 121 million. At every turn, players chart a progressively more distinctive path, and each game evolves into one that has probably never been played before.

According to Jonathan Schaeffer, a computer scientist at the University of Alberta who demonstrates A.I. using games, "The possible number of chess games is so huge that no one will invest the effort to calculate the exact number." Some have estimated it at around 10100,000. Out of those, 10120 games are "typical": about 40 moves long with an average of 30 choices per move.

There are only 10^15 total hairs on all the human heads in the world, 10^23 grains of sand on Earth, and about 10^81 atoms in the universe. The number of typical chess games is many times as great as all those numbers multiplied together—an impressive feat for 32 wooden pieces lined up on a board."

So, being able to play chess somewhat well, not grand master well, but well enough, so as to make me hungry to understand the infinite combinations with as much cohesive and collective wisdom as is offered for me to consider allows me to synthesize those thoughts so that any ignorance I may have had about a topic can be replaced with a greater understanding, even if that understanding is still lacking at some level but now lesser, regarding that topic. This then begs me to want to know more because I am free to want to ask more so I can eliminate my ignorance vs being made into a lemming forced into an undeserved path of un-welcomed silence that some would rather witness.

I hope, this long answer to your short commentary, has all made sense. If not, my apologies!

BTW, the opposite of 'cancelling culture' is to - engage it! Why? Because wisdom can be received in the most unusual places from some of the most interesting people at the most interesting opportunities to yield some of the greatest outcomes - when we are able to acknowledge that each voice is heard and understood! For me, that is what critical thought, the questioning manner of science, the depth of genuine faith, the spirit of adventure and the capacity to want to learn have combined to achieve since recorded time!

Bob, "...your pittance..." as you call it, is not so at all, rather it is a major catalyst that spark reaction. So, please, never think of your commentary as small or insignificant, it only adds to my awareness to help me fill the voids in my own ignorance and thirst for awareness. If anything, thank you for the spark!

Just some thoughts, my friend, just some thoughts......

SFC James J Palmer IV (JP4), COL Mikel J. Burroughs; Lt Col Charlie Brown; LCdr (Rabbah) Rona Matlow
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SPC John A.
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Wow. Please forgive this Army grunt for not knowing the finer details of the proper form of address with respect to the rank of Chief Petty Officer, but your post makes me want to use it to the Nth degree. Think of it as much more than a courtesy owed to the rank itself; your post reveals the kind of man I admire most highly. When I read the original post I wanted to chime in, which is highly unusual for me. I thought my personal experience as a peacetime veteran (I'd have been in for 20 if I hadn't been booted for the onset of diabetes after 3) and a survivor of devastating PTSD from 11 years of emotional abuse by my wife from which I'm fully 100% recovered after 4 years of intensely successful therapy (following 12 years of utterly useless therapy), and also a student of psychology... might be instructive. I'm also a circumspect writer, which is probably not self-evident from that horrible run-on sentence you just read!

But then I read your reply and now I think there's no need to reinvent the wheel. You've made every single point I wanted to mention, and more eloquently at that. Besides which, that kite story nearly reduced me to tears. It's the kind of story that ripples outward and comforts people far removed from the incident itself. Please, please, PLEASE thank your wife for me and if possible, ask her to convey the same to every individual who made that profound act of healing take place. Today I am truly humbled at the human capacity for kindness, compassion, caring, and healing each other. I am honored to be counted alongside other human beings, knowing I'm in such fine company.

And then of course there's the original post. I hope others heed your words because they are exactly true in every detail. I know this to be true from every thread of my own life and we ignore it at our collective peril.
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CPO Nate S.
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SPC John A. - Thank you! I am humbled! But, like most old school Chief's telling the truth is telling the truth. People want to laughoff the difficult and make light of what scares the hell out of them! That is how individuals and nations get into trouble. Fairly simple to me, but trust me telling the truth is very, very hazardous!
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TSgt James Warfield
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Wow so very well said. So many times I wish I could put my thoughts and feelings into words like you just did.
Thanks for breaking it down for us.
You woke a old wound in me by your first story, as I spent 20 years in the military and because of my childhood, foster homes, and what not, I brought mental baggage with me into the military. However I will say the military help me more to deal with this baggage and yet it also left some very lasting scars as well, such as friendly fire, during an exercise, or been a young man, who spent over a year traveling Germany on TDY's with a very over beraing Msgt, who brought back lots of my buried child hood because of the way he treated me as we had to travels by vehicle for long distance and spend days sharing rooms while TDY.
I remember sharing this with a VA counselor, especially being shot with live fire, ( by accident, person didn't realize they grab the wrong clip and real bullets instead of blanks ( long story ) anyway the counselor told me that it was really nothing and she didn't see that as PSTSD... I never tried to claim it as such, but she took me back as she made light of the incident when it's still just as real today, some 30 years later as it was the night it happen.
I just want to say again as I have in other post, Please people be careful when reporting what you think is fraud... because instead of fixing problem, the VA and our leaders just make more laws and rules to make it harder for the 90% to get the support and help they need.
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Going to play devil’s advocate here. What if the person was a victim of MST? Perhaps this Veteran is stating a lot of lies and different things in order to simply avoid the real issue that he is suffering from, and perhaps does not want the truth to be out there.

The Original Poster mentioned multiple times “never fires his weapon in combat” or “never fires his weapon in actual combat”. That does not mean anything at all towards PTSD and really shows a different agenda or disposition from the original poster. This type of thinking really should stop. pTSD can come from any event and triggers one person different than what it can trigger another person. Judging someone that has PTSD by your own definition of what PTSD seems to be in your eyes is a really bad idea and bordering on toxic like behavior. It’s unfortunate because the mentality of quite a few people is “if you did not go to combat, you can’t claim PTSD”. It’s a very incorrect statement.
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SPC Victoria Coe
SPC Victoria Coe
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SMSgt John Lemon it didn't take me that long under Obama. In fact it was very quick for me once I actually asked for help. The process is different for everyone.
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CPO Nate S.
CPO Nate S.
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CW2 (Join to see) just an old Navy chief up late re-reading some posts. As I re-read SPC Victoria Coe's post I remember my time early in my naval career as a hospital corpsman working in emergency medicine. What I say in the way of several violent sexually related traumas that came in and what I heard about at various stages in my career, especially as a father and grandfather, of a daughter and granddaughter has always PMO regarding MST. But it has RPMO when it comes to Child Sexual Trauma.

Trust me! The 1st thing you want to do is kick someone's #$@#@ @#@##! for being so cruel and power absorb to willfully inflict this demented behavior on others. So, a moral injury for medical types it not being able to take direction against those who hurt in this way to women or children!!!

To SPC Victoria Coe it takes REAL courage to talk about and face the demons of MST. I cannot tell you how often I have seen that course take a broken spirit and begin to allow healing take place. Yes! It is difficult! But I think of Helen Reddy's song "I am Woman" (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rptW7zOPX2E). "...Wisdom for the pain..."

Never ever let a man or a woman ever diminish your self-worthy as a human being!!! Always be honest and balanced in your approach to life! But never allow anyone to walk on you or mistreat you just to have power over you because of their position or their perceived weakness of you. It is they who are weak!!! I have seen too much of the aftermath in those I have had to put back together. A navy corpsman my job was to help people find ways to heal from wounds both obvious and hidden!!

To the "gentlemen" reading this post. If you have a tendency to be, well - abusive. Get your head out of your _________________ so some sunshine can get in to disinfect your warp _________ thinking. Let's work to stop MST in all forms!!! Please!!!
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Sgt Judy Leonard
Sgt Judy Leonard
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More men are raped in the military then women. Facts
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CPO Nate S.
CPO Nate S.
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Sgt Judy Leonard - Please quote sources! In other words, please provide links to the data that supports your assertion. Thank you!
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PO2 Dave Michniewicz
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For all of you experts that say you know for positive that Vets are taking advantage of the system just so they don’t have to work even though the majority of the comments attacking and insulting your brother and sisters in arms, are coming from those who have no idea how the VA works, are not psychiatrists, psychologists, counselors and have no training or credentials in the VA health care system. You attack the he VA and the men and women who desperately need the help that the VA provides. Yes people abuse systems in every facet of life but they are not the majority. Yes does the VA have problems but since I first arrived at a VA hospital after being honorably discharged over 20 years ago. Making such generalized statements and attacking and insulting fellow vets without even hearing and listening to what they have to say is very dangerous and ignorant. For the past 10 years 6000 vets have killed themselves every year. That is 60,000 veterans who took an oath to protect this country but felt things were so bad no one was there for them. It is because of this total disregard of facts and the need to just call everybody out like it has anything to do with you. 60,000 brave men and women! I could care less if every vet was paid 100% as long as not one more vet kills themselves because they felt they had no other options. I know first hand what it feels like to think your a lesser and weak man because I’m not able to just shrug off all the shit I’ve gone through as firefighter in the Navy and a first responder as a civilian. I was determined to be unemployable by the VA and that in itself makes you feel like a lesser person and that you failed in life. Add to that I was also determined to be totally disable by social security after herniating 12 disks in my back after an accident on an ambulance while I was an EMT. The constant feeling that friends and family think I’m faking it because I don’t look disabled. They were t at the therapy sessions, rehab, seeing for over 20 years having medications adjusted, stopped put on new ones. They are not there when you wake up from constant nightmares and pain with cold sweats so bad you have to change you clothes and sheets in the middle of the night because they are soaking wet. They don’t know barely anything I’m going through and guess what you haven’t the slightest idea what those who you insulted and look down on while you puff your chest because 1. You have nothing to do with the care and treatments and their military history and 2. It’s none of your damn business. The next time you want to sound off about who does and doesn’t deserve a disability rating just stop and think about those 6000 vets who kill themselves every year. 22 a day! Did you do anything to try and stop those numbers or are you part of the problem because of the hateful comments you post online about others who have served their country.
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CPL Aaron Novak
CPL Aaron Novak
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I couldn’t agree more. Having an invisible disability is hard. I always feel the need to explain myself, or justify my pain and disability to others. Just because others can’t see it doesn’t make it any less real. It does take a toll on your heart and mind when others judge you or don’t believe you. Especially when it comes from family and friends.
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SGT Preventive Medicine Specialist
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To be fair, OP wasn't bashing veterans who seek care. This was more of a thought experiment using (perhaps unwisely) a real example instead of a hypothetical one. Having adjudicated thousands of PTSD claims, I can assure you that perjury is rampant, and a growing problem. Unfortunately, quality is not something that VBA is very focused on, and ultimately has bigger fish to fry.

I will say this though. A veteran who does not seek treatment for PTSD, has no history of mental illness, and is claiming service connection for it is probably not being honest. PTSD is treated at the VHA. Compensation benefits do little to improve a veteran's quality of life, if they are indeed suffering from PTSD, and as you yourself pointed out, receiving that disability check can cause even greater mental stress, and perhaps hinder rather than improve recovery. We at the VA need to be very careful with how we incentivize disability, and perhaps put the focus on outcomes rather than symptoms.
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PO2 Luis Rodriguez
PO2 Luis Rodriguez
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Somehow everybody becomes a trained professional when they get out… that why I never tell anyone what I did or what’s my percentage. I don’t even have the disabled plates because there is always a hater out there
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SSG Raul Alaniz
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Man, you hit the nail right on the head, you have said the way it needs to be said, and I tip my hat of to you Sir, I Agree with you wholeheartedly, Thank You So much for saying it the way it is, Wow. THE SARGE
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SPC Anitra Bailey-Bearfield
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Every person that has served in the military suffers from some form of ptsd, you don't have to have combat, combat makes it worse. Being separated from you family, screamed at constantly, if you are in a terrible unit many things cause ptsd because the are people that never served in the military have ptsd.
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SFC Volunteer For Veterans Help Organization
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You know, it’s kind of funny that when I returned from Iraq in 2008, the acronym PTSD was hardly ever spoken. In fact during my out briefing at Ft. Riley, PTSD wasn’t even mentioned. Two years after I returned, I was diagnosed at Camp Blanding, Florida (I was in the Reserves) by a Doctor of having PTSD. As I mentioned in an earlier post here, I’m 30% in other areas and I never sent paperwork to the VA for it; quite frankly, I didn’t think it was necessary at the time. I did get counseling for about 3 years though, from a VA Psychologist though. Today now everyone talks of having PTSD for everything under the sun. From alcohol abuse to getting yelled at to stress at work - it’s crazy. This is just my opinion. I think some people are just over doing it to get the high rating for combat related PTSD, I could be wrong, but in the case presented I surmise I am not wrong.
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This has been the most insane thread full of the most outrageous claims I've ever read. You don't have PTSD from BCT. You don't have PTSD from being separated from family. Every grown up person is separated from family... that's calling leaving the house and growing up. This kind of weakness is what makes our enemies like China and Russia laugh at us and grow bolder in their actions. If you really believe those things, I wouldnt want to serve alongside you in combat where actual traumatic things happen to people. Out.
SPC Rebecca Cann
SPC Rebecca Cann
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I am a lifetime member of DAV. And I was counselor / legal advisor for retirees, veterans and Reserves transitioning from deployment. I called a Central Texas DAV officer for help with my VA appeal for Gulf War Illness (Chronic Fatigue Syndrome) back when it was only 50% or 100%. He told me he was overwhelmed with filings, and would help me get 30% for PTSD. I asked him how I could possibly have PTSD when my root cause was stateside vaxes, then radio-active bio-weapons on contaminated military equipment returning to Texas from the Persian Gulf. I had to clean equipment without a respirator, chem suit or vinyl gloves. And I complained loudly to my NCOIC. I never deployed due to vax damage that destroyed my heart and immune system. And I was not gang raped like many females endured while standing guard duty beside male Saudis. After Desert Storm, rape was swept under the rug. Those who died after rapes, gang rapes were declared "undetermined circumstances" as cause of assault and cause of death. I also believe that many diagnosed with PTSD are actually suffering from under-functioning hormones, including thyroid and adrenal. Radiation destroys thyroid gland and "director" under the hippocampus (mid-section of the brain not protected by blood-brain barrier). And "anxiety" is usually an indication that adrenal hormone production is in the trashcan: Peripheral tissues of the ovaries produce half of the hormones that adrenals produce: 2,000 adrenal hormones. One of the nerve agents found in the UN Inspections Team sweep (1991-94) destroys female reproduction systems. I know mine was; required 2 ob-gyn surgeries to resolve. Most of us female veterans never had children. Young, civilian psychiatrists are practicing similarly. When they see young patients with "depression" and "anxiety", they try hormone replacement with low-dose psyche meds. Or they start hormone replacement therapy that fixes the problems. VA psychiatrists (if they actually exist, because I have never seen one) have never offered hormone replacement option. Peer-reviewed, published research on hormones vs. psyche meds was abundant before CV censorship, search engine purges, and de-platforming docs who practice integratively and alternatively.
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SPC Benjamin Hartog
SPC Benjamin Hartog
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In a historical perspective the six month Battle of Verdun in 1916 in WWI and the siege of Stalingrad (8/23/1942 to 2/2/1943 /43) on the Eastern Front in WWII are emblematic of the penultimate horrors of war. "Shell Shock" for both the German and Russian soldiers who survived the battle was commonplace but the recording of psychiatric casualties of the battle were not thoroughly documented. Neither Germany nor the Soviet Union officially recognize combat fatigue and any soldier exhibiting psychological discordance was viewed as malingerer and subject to disciplinary action. Research revealed that over 10,000 German soldiers were executed in WWII for a variety of military infractions. Private Eddy Slovik was the only American soldier executed (01/31/1945) for cowardice. Yet, in spite of the strong esprit de core of the US Marines the battle of Peleliu witnessed an inordinate amount of psychiatric casualties. Statistical records of Soviet army soldiers executed for desertion is not available but I assume thousands were shot by firing squads or assigned to penal battalions. Interestingly, Japanese soldiers were expected to commit suicide rather than face defeat. Among the miniscule numbers of Japanese soldiers captured not one was ever diagnosed with combat fatigue by American psychiatrists who interviewed them although surrender was considered anathema by the Japanese military. Susceptibility to combat fatigue was determined by multiple factors but a history of prior disturbances in civilian life was a critical factor in developing combat fatigue. The military historian SLA Marshall concluded that the average American infantryman succumbed to combat fatigue in 3 weeks of constant fighting. PTSD was officially posted as a bona fide malady in the 1979 edition of the DSM and remains a prominent and widespread anxiety disorder of people who have been traumatized by a variety of disturbing circumstances like crime and accident and natural disasters. Many young children who have been abused by adults are especially vulnerable to suffering from a lifetime of intractable PTSD symptoms. Finally, my wide readings of antiquity like Roman and Viking warfare makes no mention of combat fatigue amongst those warriors. The murderous rampages of berserkers against peaceful people living in coastal villages in England for example, gives evidence that physical and psychological psychopathology was a very prominent their daily lives.
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SSG Elyzabeth Cromer
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One does not just get "released" from the Guard. He was either discharged for the crime of threatening to kill his team members or he was medically discharged mental health reasons. If the discharge was based on criminal reasons that would explain why it took 12 years for his VA claim, because before his claim could be processed his discharge would have to be upgraded. If it was for mental health reasons, it was probably lack of follow through and not turning in paperwork on time.
As prior service you can join with an existing condition, (even if you forget to tell the recruiter as long as you do not intentionally conceal it). If he had a mental health condition that hadn't caused problems between his service and joining the Guard and that would have been waived if noted in his paperwork that is not a fraudulent enlistment. (PTSD can lay dormant and be triggered by seemingly unrelated incidents so that MAY be the case here.)
You say he lied to his family about having been a heroic sniper and expressed concern that he may have lied to the VA psychologist as well in order to get his rating. Unlike his family the VA can access his military records, and incidents of that nature would be verified. His disability does not sound like it is 100% for PTSD; it sounds as if he has a partial PTSD rating combined with something for a physical issue, (the usual things are tinnitus/hearing loss and back pain caused by service injury) that causes him to be unemployable and that is how he is getting 100%.
Is this fraud? Not in any technical sense of the word. So no, the VA is not going to spend resources trying to do anything about it. They have too few people to waste their time on a maybe case.
If you wonder what makes me qualified to speak on this matter; I was in charge of the MMRB's (medical boards) for the VTARNG for several years, I also was responsible for The MEB/PEB process and I developed Vermont's MAR2 program. While in the Reserves I was a Unit Administrator and I spent my teenage years helping my Father (a retired DAV Service Officer) prepare cases. The details about fraudulent enlistment are information I know from having to consult with the JAG and the IG on cases. I hope this answered your questions.
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TSgt James Warfield
TSgt James Warfield
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SGT (Join to see) - I really appreciate you taking the time to explain the difference.
As for re-evaluation as much as a concern that a rater would see my disabilities different thus lower my over rating, I see where re-evaluations are necessary and the importance of documentation from normal every day doctors and technicians we see.
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Yes I tell this to every veteran as many have voiced this very concern: do not claim a condition that you know was not caused by your service. Do not request an increase in your rating unless you are sure that you meet the criteria for a higher rating, and preferably have discussed this with your doctor, just to be sure. Finally, if your rating is decreased, its because improvement was documented by a licensed medical provider, not because the rater doesn't like you. All veterans need to take their entitlement to compensation (or any) benefits seriously as it is a legal right. Bearing false witness or making false claims, as many do, only hurts the entire culture within the VA and by proxy, hurts their fellow veterans. If you are honest, patient, and know your rights, then no one in the VA will come after you, as many think. Unfortunately many VBA employees are jaded and burnt out due to the small but loud population of dishonest vets who exploit the process for their own advantage, and many of us feel the responsibility to guard against it. Most of us are veterans ourselves and take this very personally. Having said that, I do see discrimination in the claims process on a regular basis and that is something we continue to work on, but the official decisions we make (the ones you receive a notification letter about) are highly regulated and accountable to a robust quality assurance program. It is highly unlikely for an error to be made that affects a veteran negatively, and far more likely that we err on the side of the veteran.
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SSgt Michael Grafmuller
SSgt Michael Grafmuller
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His discharge would not require upgrade to receive compensation, 38 CFR 3.354 allows benefits in many cases without discharge upgrade, the truth is dishonorable and bad conduct discharges often fall under this exception, but this individual completed an active duty term which solidifies his benefits like a reenlistment does do even without upgrade he is entitled to benefits most VA employees and advocates do not understand, it takes so long because 9 times out of 10 it takes a judge to force VA to follow 3.354 and the veteran needs to know about it and actually file for benefits, which so many never do because they are falsely told they are not entitled to benefits without a discharge upgrade
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SSgt Michael Grafmuller
SSgt Michael Grafmuller
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I have been total and permanent for years and VA has re-evaluated my highest ratings 3 times each over the last 5 years. They do what they want, they mostly do not understand title 38 and neither do most advocates and service organizations. It is this ignorance and arrogance that short changes most veterans in the long run.
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I’m service connected with major depressive disorder, PTSD, migraines and am now undergoing additional assessment for a TBI. I served in the most deployed division in the army and was constantly on the go, enduring extreme abuse from toxic command and being forced to drive unsafe vehicles that needed to be pulled from the line to which I have been both dragged out of and hit my head off the turret about a dozen times. I’ve never been to a combat zone. It’s easy to judge without all the information. What I will say is in order to even get an official ptsd diagnosis under the va and with a high percentage its a heavily vetted process and very hard to bullshit.
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SMSgt John Lemon
SMSgt John Lemon
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PFC Joe Fugo - PFC you are starting to sound like a broken record. The VA hospital I got to is the best in the system. So all your bellyaching is falling on deaf ears. If you don't like you hospital go to one where you'll get the help you need.
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SPC Albert Schafer
SPC Albert Schafer
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The vetting process leaves a lot to be desired... depression?
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SPC Rebecca Cann
SPC Rebecca Cann
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Depression after exposure to equipment / vehicles that have shipped and returned from the Persian Gulf can cause hormone imbalance in women much more easily than in men, who have fewer hormones and less complex systems. Even if cleaned, vehicles, protective masks, fabric equipment still have sand grains - as fine as powdered makeup - that hold onto radiation and nerve agent that destroys female reproductive systems, glands and hormone production. Progesterone and adrenal hormones vastly improved my mis-diagnosed symptoms of anxiety and depression.
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Me too I have a very similar experience as you it messed me up mentally I have to be constantly taking meds to fight thoughts.
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SMSgt Lawrence McCarter
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Does fraud exist ?, well Yes but PTSD does have different ways of showing itself. Not everyone reacts the same way or has the same levels to bear stress. I've kind of always avoided seeking anything for PTSD and between military and also civilian Police I've handled a lot but seemed to do so ok, not everyone does. I always felt there were others that did far more than I did. I didn't have an awareness of one thing though, not being bothered by things but losing all memory of it such as seeing guys I knew being killed and not even remembering their names or could see their faces even though i knew them before going to Vietnam. I never had bad dreams about them and it came back when someone else I knew mentioned them, then I forgot again. I never forget anyone usually by appearance although names is another story anyway. That doesn't get better I guess if You add getting senile and old to that, LOL. One of My friends a Sergeant Major in Army Special Force though I should pursue the issue with the VA but I tend to think it kind of minor for Me and besides I always handled the high stress Military and Police contacts and kept control. I collect retired pay anyway from the Military for over 20 years service and the same for a civilian Police Department. I won't say I've never been scared but didn't let it stop Me from doing what I had to. Most the time just had to react, didn't have time to think about it. As a Police Officer however, veterans knowing I was a Vietnam Veteran was able to calm them down and no one had to use force. I do understand what some were going through. Fakes ? well Yes I sure have found some, its pretty apparent and many of htose were not even Veterans at all or were never in a combat zone as some claimed or doing what they claimed to do. The fakes are usually pretty easy to spot. That however makes it harder for those with legitimate claims of PTSD. Just some of My thoughts.

Not too related but I usually say " I can't blame anything wrong with Me on the Military, I was a Nut before I ever went in! " Well anyway I do handle My own issues and always kind of questioned how sane many shrinks are based on My experience with them in My Law Enforcement functions. I can think of a few incidents within their own families that they were the problem. one of those He called about His son being a problem, well it wasn't the son it was Him and the son would come to talk to Me as He couldn't talk to His father. I would listen and the way the son solved His problem was to enlist in the US Marines and get away from His Dad and it was the best thing He had ever done and that was good for the son.
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