Posted on May 26, 2016
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Lately I've noticed several two types of posts from lower enlisted people. The first they are asking very simple questions that should be answered by their leadership. The second type, is someone complaining about their leadership. I think the two types are connected, they don't go to leadership with questions and then complain how they are being failed. At what point do we tell these guys to ask their own leaders to force them to do their jobs? Are the lower enlisted just being lazy and not doing their own research?
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SSG Warren Swan
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"The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them. They have either lost confidence that you can help them or concluded that you do not care. Either case is a failure of leadership"...GEN Colin Powell. It could be this very issue. What would concern me more is when we see SNCO's on here asking questions that PV2 Jones knew coming out of basic.
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SPC Casey Ashfield
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This is a great point. While it may not always be the case, it is possible. Another reason is "Joe" feels that their "stupid" question will get some sort of reprisal from leadership. I know new privates would rather ask a stupid question to a peer than get an incredulous sigh and a straight answer from an NCO or salty E-4.
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Col Rebecca Lorraine
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At least through Rally Point their is a venue for networking and mentorship! This didn't exist before and there are plenty of issues they may not feel they should ask. It's okay to assist as one might help a friend or child. Good opportunity to still be of service and help them become better leaders as they mature in the ranks.
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SSG Warren Swan
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Col Rebecca Lorraine - very true ma'am, but if RP is the first stop these Soldiers have....we have a serious credibility issue in the ranks. If they're coming here first, then what does that say about the current crop of leaders? It means everything that is taught is being undone. No one should come here as a first stop, it should be where they can ask their NCOs at the unit level. That includes NG and Reserve NCO's. There is a NCO (SSG Thomas Livingston) on here if you ask him ANYTHING, he will come with an answer pretty quick, and his accuracy rate is damn near 100%. He is not AD either. If they cannot handle it, don't know where to look, or how to research to find it, somethings wrong. If you've made it here, and no one could find the answer there, maybe new uniforms is the least of our worries. RP should supplement the NCO Support Chain, not replace it.
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Col Rebecca Lorraine
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I wonder if they are just testing the water. They want to appear prepared and informed. Or maybe no one is listening. Good share.
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LTC Yinon Weiss
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If they trusted their chain of command, or felt that their questions would be taken seriously, they would go to their command. I don't like blaming junior enlisted for not trusting their command. That is the command's fault.
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1LT Michael Jay
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CPT Jack Durish - threatens go order and discipline.
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CPT Mark Gonzalez
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CPT Jack Durish - 1LT Michael Jay it is both. It is one thing to vent a little as we are all human, but the internet lacks context and tone.
It is great to help someone if their leadership is truly not helping or if it is a leader looking for advice to better care for someone. I personally believe that the vast majority of leaders have a good heart and try, but some are severely lacking experience. So every time we answer a question that the leader doesn't know we are robbing them of their development. Even if the info is accurate it wasn't gained through experience or direct mentorship within their unit.
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1LT Michael Jay
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When enlisted members welcome their soldiers to go to their officers for answer. In my opinion speak volumes to there leadership to train soldiers. If a NCO can't or won't help or answer simply questions saddens me. It is a testament on the senior enlisted ...ie 1SG and SGM. When I was a junior enlisted...just looking or having the privilege to be giving some of there knowledge gave me the tools to climb the ranks.
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New to RP, it seems like this is a great place to obtain different opinions and experiences from personnel regardless of rank. I remember when I was enlisted, I made some career choices based on one person's opinion and later when I learned more, wish I would have done things differently. Obviously, RP is not a replacement for NCOs and the Chain of Command, but free advice & mentorship should be taken when available.
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SGT Callen Pool
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This is quite possibly because the're scared to go to the're command because they've seen what happened to other soldiers
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So what are you going to do to fix this problem Team Leader? You are in the very best position to nip this in the bud. Be harsh in enforcing standards, but do not drive them away where they wont bring their problems to you.
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SGT Callen Pool
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Well I'm in no place to fix toxic leadership mostly in part of me being medically retired. I'm here to give advice and help where I can. If I was still in I would try but at the same time my soldiers never had an issue coming to me with there problems.
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Sounds like you got out while the getting was good, but we need more like you
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SGT Callen Pool
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Thank you for your vote of confidence in me. I guess your right though. I've been rather upset with the way the military has gone since I got out and it's only been 6 months. Sad right?
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Is RallyPoint supposed to replace the chain of command and NCO support channel?
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No it does not replace the NCO support channel or COC. But if some leaders would do the research and also answer the questions, the lower enlisted would not use this as their outlet. There are a lot of NCO's out there that do not want to help out their Soldiers at all.
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CSM Charles Hayden Passed 7/29/2025
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SSG (Join to see) Too many leaders are too 'busy', self consumed and oriented on their own success. Soldiers are available and will disclose/talk when real leaders reach out to engage them. A favorite MG would swoop in, be driven to the troops and engage them - chat- question and easily take the pulse of the unit in about 10 minutes!
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SGT Ben Keen
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"Replace"...no..."enhance"...yes.

I do not disagree with your comments about the two types of posts you see here but I do not think it is limited to just lower enlisted. I think you can expand it to posts that are truly seeking information and posts that are just rants, or self-promoting or the "angry Veteran" type posts.

RallyPoint is unique in that people can come here and get several different views of a topic outside of their Chain of Command or NCO Support Channel. Does that mean Service Members should not seek answers from these sources? No, of course they should use these powerful tools but lets face it, as Leaders we do not always have the best answer. Sure, we can research and find out, but I think it speaks loudly for the leadership potential of younger service members to try and find the answers themselves and/or to seek secondary views to an issue. I also think it forces us as leaders to do a better job and to support younger service members because I am sure the last thing a leader wants to do is come on RallyPoint and see one of their Soldiers on here talking ill of their Chain of Command or NCO Support Channel.
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Wasn't trying to say they were the only type I see, but I'm seeing more and more of them, which I believe indicates a problem.
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SGT Ben Keen
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MSG (Join to see) - Oh absolutely! You are right, as one of the senior admins on this site I can share he board view of things we see here. I do have to say, this has been one of the better discussions on here this week so thank you!
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A1C Amber Planting
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I'll be honest here, when I was in, if I had a resources like RP, I would have had people I could of reached out to for advice on how to improve my situation and better myself, rather than being thrown under the bus as I had, and stonewalled by my chain of command.
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CPT Jack Durish
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Actually, I remember the days when all moaning and bitching was the purview of the chaplains. Weren't we supposed to take our problems to them to have our "TS" cards punched?
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Soldiers in my opinion are getting promoted to quickly and soon our ranks will feel the effects. For instance these newly promoted E-6/E-7's who have only been in the military 6-10 years have not had the ability to mold themselves or allowed themselves to be mentored by a SNCO. This failure will only lead to poor decision making, poor leadership, poor moral and you will see a military force crumble under scrutiny and scandals.

The military has become a pomp and circumstance/showmanship competition, and what I mean by this is; Soldiers are required to complete online training (SSD, ETC. and fluff their way through it (cheat)) just to get to the next rank. They also don't earn awards like past Soldiers before them, they have become an entitled Force and think everything should be given to them, much like society has become with this younger generation. Soldiers have forgotten a lot of the time honored traditions that come with wearing the military uniform. It's not about the badges or how bad ass you look in your uniform or your Oakley sunglasses. It's a privilege and honor to wear this uniform that says " US ARMY" across your chest.

In my opinion rank, awards and recognition should be earned at all levels. Too many times I have witnessed Soldiers be given awards they didn't deserve or earn but their young leadership didn't want to put in the work to truly award the correct individuals. I have witnessed too many Soldiers receive coins of excellence for no such reason at all other than they showed up in a clean uniform. Today's force and leadership need to take a long hard look at everything we do and don't do as leaders.

Don't take my opinion with hostility or bitterness. I love putting the United States Army Uniform on everyday and believe me I am not a perfect Soldier but I strive to be a great leader and earn the respect of my leadership and peers daily by putting the needs of my Soldiers, Unit, State and the United States before my own. I don't do what I love for the awards, recognition or accolades. I do this job because I value, honor and respect the past Soldiers who wore this uniform before me and want to mentor and lead the Soldiers along side me that are serving today.
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1LT Michael Jay
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Excellent points. Well spoken!
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SSG Warren Swan
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"nd believe me I am not a perfect Soldier but I strive to be a great leader".....Staff I cannot give you enough likes for that. It's a simple but not simple truth. When you honestly can admit you have flaws, you're already leaps and bounds above the rest.
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MSG Pat Colby
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Sorry but you are painting with an awful broad brush. Not all soldiers fall into your mold. Soldiers follow their leaders example and emulate what they see. When a young Soldier questions the "Good Old Boy (GOB) System" it rocks the boat. That GOB System can fall into both extremes. Either "Lead by Fear and Intimidation" or "Fuck Leading, We're just here for a Paycheck". In both of those systems there are high ranking personnel that have the "Who are you to question me?!" mentality. (*cough Flournoy! *Cough) There is a center line that is pretty wide where most NCO's fall in. Personally my position in the line has changed. The older and Rankier (is that a word?) I got, the more tolerant and understanding I became to find root causes of problems instead of the Younger less-Rankier (E5/6) me that would jump on anyone for the most minor infraction of perceived insolence. In respect to Awards, there is some mystical and unwritten rule that the higher your rank, the bigger Award you need. SCREW Snuffy. He/She just needs a Certificate of attendance. This is especially true for PCS Awards. ETS Awards (First Enlistment) are rarely nothing more than a "Thanks for Stopping By!" ARCOM at the MOST.
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MAJ FAO - Europe
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How do you define this "younger genertion" of Soldiers? Many more senior NCOs and officers might lump you (and me) into this concept of the "newer generation" just given the date at which we joined the Army. What's the cutoff to be considered part of the "older generation". Entry date prior to what, 2001, 2000, 1999? My point is that older Soldiers always think younger generations are weaker and more entitled and less deserving and less Soldierly. Interested in your perspective on this. Also, I think it's important not to place the blame on the Soldiers themselves, but on the system. After all, it's the system, and not the Soldiers, that creates the conditions you describe.
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Maybe because our NCO's response is to Google it. As a junior enlisted I have been told to "just Google it and figure it out yourself" many a times. As opposed to when I get on RP and am given answers with actual help and links to do more research myself on the matter. Perhaps it is because, and I mean this in the most respectful way possible, NCO's are getting complacent with their junior enlisted.
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Give a man a fish.... Your NCOs are trying to get you to help yourself because you will remember it better if you find it yourself. It's just poor execution, a starting point would be more helpful. Try asking for a starting point. Tell them the answer when you find it, if it was me I'd tell you if I learned something.
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To them Google is the starting point. Now I am not complaining by any means. Sure it annoys the hell out of me but I have been in the Army long enough to know where to look a majority of the time nowadays. However, for newer privates being told to just Google it time and time again teaches us that we can't depend on our NCO's when we need help.
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I agree SSgt David Jones, just trying to help PFC Caitlynn Geigel keep faith in her NCOs.
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PFC Signal Support Systems Specialist
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MSG (Join to see) -I have faith in the ncos that have shown they care about their soldiers. And having been in 3yrs I try to show leadership to the newer soldiers. I intend to prove my leadership before I become an NCO so soldiers understand I am there for them.
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SFC Christopher Perry
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Personally, I feel there is a twofold answer here. One, the youngsters are more accustomed to relations via social media than we older folks are. It could even be said that some are more comfortable in this kind of relationship than they are in a real face to face connection. Second, lets be honest, this is far easier than actually approaching their leadership. Real hard to get your feelings hurt in here... It's not real after all.
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I think you are seeing a projection of current social media culture into the military. Many of our soldiers, especially the juniors lived most of their lives in a world where the easiest option is to get answers off the social network. It makes sense that this would extend to the military.

I too get amazed sometimes that someone spends time on some topics that are easily found on the first page of a Google search. The social media habit is the only thing i can think of.
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SSgt Terry P.
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1SG (Join to see) I believe you are correct .
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Never thought about the social media aspect, very interesting
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An excellent discussion topic. Asking for assistance in locating this or finding that is one thing. But I believe you've hit on a delicate point. I believe some people are seeking serious advice or looking to build support for an issue outside of their C of C. To your question, I don't think RP was designed or intended to replace command leadership. But a number of discussion postings have raised some doubt whether or not various SMs are not, in fact, using RP for that very purpose. A very unwise decision on their part. "Hey, Lieutenant, some people on a military Internet site told me to tell you to shove it where the sun don't shine!!!" Uh, huh.
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No, this does not replace Chain or Support Channels. This is meant as a place to chat with fellow service members but also to augment both of the above.
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MSG Pat Colby
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Sometimes the Command is 8^ from the top down.

It took a Social Media site to call out CSM Flournoy and then the Soldiers experiences with her in previous Commands came out of the woodwork.

Let that sink in for a minute.
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MSG Pat Colby
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And the outcome was a staged Photo-op...
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Valid point haha
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SGM Erik Marquez
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Id prefer the word augment...
And then ask yourself.. where is the issue?

If the Sm is unable, unwilling to ask those questions of the squad leader, section sergeant, platoon sergeant,. PL.. WHY?

Were they not taught that was proper and advisable? (Leadership failure)
Are they too scared of an abusive response? (Leadership failure)
Have they tried before and received only platitudes or nonsense response, but not actual guidance allowing them to discover a solution or reasonable help to solve the problem? (leadership failure)
Or have that had all of that handed to them and choose to not ask the question in a quest to "find the answer on there own, thus impressing the leadership of thier ability to make it happen...

Of course it's just as likely they are a dirtbag , to lazy , to inept to open a book, read a policy letter
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MSG Pat Colby
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Just food for thought CSM..

There are a lot of people in Senior Leadership positions that have heard the same damn questions over and over and over again throughout the years, that they dismiss the questions and either refer the Soldier to the Soldiers first line Leader or Google. Seriously, I had some scripted answers for common questions but even then I got tired of replying the same thing over and over. I'd bet that some Soldiers that came to me felt like they got blown off. NOT because I had "Tired Eyes", but it was a routine crap that their FLL should know.

Sorry for being human.
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SSG Jeff Beltran
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The overall Command climate in the the Chain of Command will determine how well lower enlisted will respond to their leadership. Leaders, who do not communicate or give clear guidance and guideline will develop poor soldiers. Trust is a two way street and Leaders who take the time to follow up with their Soldiers and continue to develop and mentoring their Soldiers will understand what motivates their Soldiers. This, I believe will develop good soldiers who will not come up on SIR and Blotter Reports. A leader has to have the mindset of continually understanding human relationships and developing good interpersonal skills, which takes time and experience and personal development. Many leader's and Soldiers will always default to their last good and bad Leader's who led or did not lead by example. If good leadership is around these SM's will look at their NCO support channel in a very positive way and will want them to emulate their leaders. That's why we have SGT's Time and NCOPD to continue the development of all SM's to prepare for the next conflict or war.
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SPC David S.
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No but there are many reasons I feel that drive this -

1) Using RP as a sounding board - doing research
2) Playing devil's advocate and vetting information
3) Looking to capitalize on the experience on RP
4) Complaints about poor leadership - they want to try resolve the issue without getting the CoC involved
5) There's a real underlying issue with their NCOIC or CoC
6) Jr SM's are not well informed - no such thing as a stupid question mentality.
7) Leadership allowing SM's to be lazy
8) Millennials - there's an app for that - really there is.
9) Instant gratification
10) Getting something off their chest - venting.

However regardless the SNCO or CoC needs to invest a little time and drill down to see what's really going on - is it a matter of getting the jr pointed in the right direction or holding their peers accountable to their troops. Hey I've had many LT's ask me questions - never thought of it as a hit on them though more so an opportunity to inform and train them.
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MSG Pat Colby
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You forgot Trolling. It happens more than people realize...
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SPC David S.
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Sure trolls are part of the mix of all responses - being able to filter is as well needed.
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RallyPoint, like ADP, Central Army Registry (CAR), etc. is a resource. Having been a PV1 trying to read a reg is like trying to read the user manual to an Atomic Plant ... in Mandarin, and it sucks if you only speak Cantonese.

REF: "lazy and not doing their own research?"
Possibly. But when I do respond I will provide the AR and the para. Depending on how convoluted the reading, I will interpret as best I can IAW the couple of days of which I served, which is pretty much what their FLL's will do anyway.

With many of the answers I've seen from other members, it's better they get the answers here than from the Private News Network.
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SFC Roberto Garza Jr.
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No it should not, I have the same complaint. This site encourages going outside of the chain of command for alot of basic questions. I tend to stay away from questions that should be left for first line leadership. I also try to point the answer to lead the service member back to his unit. Many will not agree with my response but the chain of command should be the first place a service member goes for questions. I feel this site should be used as a forum to share information but in no way should replace or devalue tge chain of command. I never respond to those that are complaining. I do feel that they should be pointed in the right direction but not always given the answer and to be encouraged to use their chain of command. Great post! SFC Bradshaw
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TSgt Jennifer Disch
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That's why ex-military are here: to provide life experience and guidance.
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SFC Roberto Garza Jr.
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Yes I agree but there is a fine line between doing the job of the chain of command and supplementing the chain. That's my opinion of what it should be. I get your point though.
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SGM Erik Marquez
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SFC Roberto Garza Jr. "This site encourages going outside of the chain of command for alot of basic questions. "

Ever asked yourself WHY that is? What would your self reflection be if YOUR SM were going to sources outside the NCO support channel?
As a leader, are you more concerned that your soldiers get the support, assistance, guidance they need from YOU, or just that they get it?
Are you perfect? Do you always have the ONLY correct , relative answer?
Are you of the opinion only YOU can provide relative, timely accurate and effective guidance?
Do you teach your subordinates to accomplish the mission? To be self reliant? or ensure they are dependent on you?
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SFC Roberto Garza Jr.
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SGM Erik Marquez - as I stated this site should not be the first, but I never stated that they should not seek out other venues for info but it could cause the Soldier too lose faith in his c h sin of command if he gas to go outside all the time. That's my point.
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Working in JAG I get asked questions on a daily basis that should be answered by other sections. It seems if you throw the work "legal" into your question then it is for JAG to answer. It would be something like, "JAG is it legal to promote my Soldier early if he is doing a good job?" That's not a legal question, it is a G1 (personnel) question and there is a regulation that tells you the requirements for an advanced promotion. I feel too many people aren't willing to research information and therefore go straight to a source they think will help them. If lower enlisted are asking questions here then they probably feel comfortable in asking. Maybe they don't believe in their leaders or are afraid to ask in fear of looking stupid. We need to educate these individuals on where to find the answers. Though I get tired of being asked questions that are not of a legal nature I will always help those who ask me. Whether it is in the office, on the street, or here on RallyPoint, I will always attempt to help someone who has a question. I too learn from these and that in turn makes me a better leader.
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Thanks for sharing that, makes me feel better that it's not just an Internet problem.
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