Posted on Jan 14, 2015
On the spot corrections in public; when is it appropriate?
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This weekend me and my GF decided to get out and go to the movies not near any military base once so ever (maybe a Reserve or NG training facility could be near by). So I'm glancing around notice a uniform on a young lady and her hair down with a PT cap on inside of the mall. I didn't loose my mind at first because it could be anyone just wearing the uniform these days. As I get closer to her I notice she has on SPC rank. I told my GF that I have to say something to her and of course she didn't understand. When I approached the SPC and her civilian male acquaintance, I asked her was she in the Army and she quickly replied "yes". So I asked her did she know she was in complete violation of Army Regs she says "yes". The female rolled her eyes at me and I could tell she was going to have
a attitude with me so I quickly removed myself from the situation. So at what point do we as leaders make a on the spot correction in public or remove ourselves from the situation? I felt at the time as a NCO I should have done more to make her fix herself, but on the other hand I didn't want to make a scene at the mall and in public. SPC Ware I definitely will remember you forever.
a attitude with me so I quickly removed myself from the situation. So at what point do we as leaders make a on the spot correction in public or remove ourselves from the situation? I felt at the time as a NCO I should have done more to make her fix herself, but on the other hand I didn't want to make a scene at the mall and in public. SPC Ware I definitely will remember you forever.
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One thing I was thinking about was when lower enlisted run into officers and NCO's that are clearly jacked up. There has been a few times where I've tried to correct and I end up getting chewed out. I didn't even make a scene about it I just subtly asked them to make the correction.
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As a SNCO, it is part of our duties to point out uniform violations. Sometimes, it is an honest mistake - you are in a hurry and forget or don't notice that something didn't get put back in the right place after a trip to the cleaners. Once, I had to tell a General that he had strings hanging from his uniform. You have to point out the error in a respectful way - as the way you would want someone to do for you.
In this case, you knew she wasn't going to take the advise as a good thing - rolling your eyes at a senior ranking member of any service - I would have ask what unit she was assigned to and the name of her supervisor and commander. Then I would have reported it to the unit for action. However, if anyone is told that there is something wrong with my uniform, I would thank them for pointing it out and quickly correct it. That is Pride in Service - that just being there for the benifits.
In this case, you knew she wasn't going to take the advise as a good thing - rolling your eyes at a senior ranking member of any service - I would have ask what unit she was assigned to and the name of her supervisor and commander. Then I would have reported it to the unit for action. However, if anyone is told that there is something wrong with my uniform, I would thank them for pointing it out and quickly correct it. That is Pride in Service - that just being there for the benifits.
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In the context of your situation, i would attempt to talk to the person in private (ie using a soft voice so only the person could hear). If the person became belligerent, then he/she would turn it into something public.
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Example: One time when I was a young E4 I was walking through O'Hare on my way home for leave in civilian clothes. I saw a young Sailor in Dress Blues, rank E-2, sporting 3 or 4 ribbons. At the time the National Defense Service medal was being awarded for Desert Storm era service (same reason I was awarded my first NDSM). Knowing that Great Lakes Recruit Training Center was close by, I asked the Sailor how long he had been in. "I just graduated Boot Camp Sir..." was his answer. I then politely showed him my ID card and introduced myself as Petty Officer Miller and kindly explained to him that he should remove the unauthorized ribbons post haste and even suggested that he go into the men's restroom we happened to be standing next to.
He in turn replied "Yes Petty Officer" and fixed himself.
He in turn replied "Yes Petty Officer" and fixed himself.
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Introduce yourself and then pull her aside for the correction. If you still got the same response from her I would contact her CoC with the photo and her disrespectful attitude. If NCOs don't correct this behavior then one day this SPC will be a SSG and how do you think her standards will make the military a better place. If this was after 1900 (I think) then she should not have even been in ACUs. I hope you contacted her unit; just viewing that photo makes me want to take the photo and get in touch with her unit.
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You should have corrected her there making a scene and then there is being polite but at the same time upholding the standard
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IF you took the time to confront her, why not explain the importance of her being in the proper uniform in public?
I mean, you took the time and you backed down. That will make her more bold and she will continue her behavior.
I mean, you took the time and you backed down. That will make her more bold and she will continue her behavior.
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You have name, rank and location. From there it's a matter of a quick search for the local unit and the 1st Sgt. I would.
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Considering that this happened in Dallas, Texas, makes it difficult to contact a local unit. Was it a Reserve, National Guard, or Active Duty individual. As for Active Duty Army, the individual could have been assigned to a recruiting command office or AAFES Hq's to the southwest of Oak Cliff and to the east of Grand Prairie.
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You have name, rank and a location. All that's need more is a quick search for the local unit and a call to her 1st Sgt. I would.
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When I was on active duty we were taught that it is your responsibility to correct someone. And think about this, if another service member was watching you NOT make corrections YOU could be the one in trouble. When I was first commissioned I hated making public corrections until someone told me that.
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