Posted on Nov 12, 2023
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I've never asked this question, and I've never seen anyone else ask it, but I'm curious. What do you say when someone thanks you for your service?
My Military ID is right next to my driver's license and debit card in my wallet, so it's visible if I have to show my driver's license for something or if I'm taking my debit card out to use. Very often, someone who sees it will ask what branch I was in. Then they will thank me for my service. My usual answer is "Thank you for your support." But I'm curious about how others respond to that.
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Sharon Danitschek
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I am a civilian and told a Veteran, "Thank you for your service. I hope you hear it often and you never tire of hearing it." His response blew me away.
'Thank you for being worth fighting for."
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SMSgt Jeff Kyle
SMSgt Jeff Kyle
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I think that is the best answer I’ve ever heard. Thank you and I’ll be using this response in the future.
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SSgt Brian Brakke
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That was a great answer! Totally agree with Jeff!
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
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Normally just: Thank you, I loved every minute of it.
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PO2 Andy Rawls
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You're worth it.
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Thank you for your support.
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Amn Flight Engineer
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I'm not entirely linked because I was duped into signing out of the army. I'm still depressed about that smh even after all these years. Before I left the service, I wanted to at least become a sergeant. They robbed me of the opportunity and left me as a PFC SMH, even though I was only three months away from becoming a spec 4. https://bitlife-online.io
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Sgt Field Radio Operator
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MSgt (Join to see) I say thank you and often times ask if they served. If the person did not serve, they will usually remark that a relative or friend served, which often leads to interesting discussions.
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CPT Carl Ford
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When I am wearing my Viet Nam cap People often thank me for my service, I always respond that it was my honor. Depending on the situation I also include that I don't wear it for myself -- I came home safely after two tours -- but for my buddies who didn't make it back or worse are still unaccounted for.
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Sgt Douglas Mellen
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I’ll have to remember that one. I always wear my Vietnam Veteran hat.
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SSG John Tuck
SSG John Tuck
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Welcome home brother
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SSG John Tuck
SSG John Tuck
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Sgt Douglas Mellen Welcome home brother
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After 15 years in, I say something to the effect of "It's my honor to serve," "It's my pleasure," or just a simple thank you. Sometimes, I respond by initiating a conversation and talking about the military. After all, they brought it up.

https://www.rallypoint.com/command-post/a-veteran-s-response-to-thank-you-for-your-service
https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/what-s-the-best-response-for-thank-you-for-your-service-i-like-to-say-this
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SGT Mary G.
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Yes, sometimes people want to talk about the military, or having served just wanting to connect with another veteran, like while waiting in grocery line, or whatever. I've chatted with several other veterans by happenstance in that way.
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PFC Miriam Schiro
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lol same
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
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SGT Mary G. Funny, about a year ago we were getting new cell phones and the clerk asked what our current plan was, and I told her Military. When we were done someone came up and said something to the extent of did you say you are on a military plan and where did you serve. That led to about a 30 minute conversation comparing experiences.
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"Thank you for thanking me" is my usual response.
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SFC David S
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I was at Walmart, I wear a disabled army veteran hat. An employee, a young man saluted me and thanked me for my service. I simply said you are welcome. sometimes I say it was an honor. these are my two responses. KISS...keep it simple stupid. If someone wants to know more, I'll tell them I served on active duty for over 21 years and was overseas 5 times and I miss being in the army, they were my other family and I miss them dearly. But keep it simple stupid or you might be misinterpreted. Never say anything about loss of life in a war zone. They can't relate.
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SGT Richard Cook
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My responses Is Thankyou. Keep in mind that 50 years ago when I returned State Side we were spat on and call baby killers.
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Sgt Douglas Mellen
Sgt Douglas Mellen
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Welcome home, brother
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SSG John Tuck
SSG John Tuck
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Welcome home brother
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1SG Mark Colomb
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Thank You for being the kind of person who made it worth it.
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SFC Dave Nutter
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You know, I really hate that. Most times I hear it is at a couple of big box stores when I use my military discount, some of those folks are sincere but for most its just a platitude that say because they are required to. But for all instances I usually say thank you and continue to march on with my day.
That said, I just went on a KDVA Return to Korea trip and that had over 50 Korea vets travel to Korea (Cold War and Korean War). I felt quite honored by the way we were treated by all we encountered while we were there. I could not say thank you enough.
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