What Are 9 Things Civilians Want To Know About Veterans, But Are Too Afraid To Ask?

Have you ever killed someone has got to be the top question for this I agree.

SGT (Join to see) As you already know i have been ask all 9 over the years and like you avoid some of them especially (did you kill anyone or how many did you kill) could add 1 or 2 to the list .I understand the curiosity to an extent,but some of the people who ask are just being obnoxious or derogatory.

"What do Ham and Lima Beans really taste like?"

I have been asked what I do. But since I don't really want to touch that topic due to the sensitivity of my job I just tell them I do maintenance or munitions maintenance. Most people think that means guns.

I get # 6 a lot... I would assume, with social media, it really is an appropriate, albeit, an uncomfortable question when this is not a one to one inquiry...

My wife has asked me the - "Have you killed anyone?". I answered no as I've never been in combat. Not knowing this was a taboo question since I answered it she asked my father who has 20 plus years in the Air Force plus intelligence work after. I explained to her that there are number of questions you don't ask veterans or service members and that is one of them. However my father in his usual polite manner answered it anyway "yes". I don't think my wife was really prepared for the answer. Needless to say she doesn't asked my father about his service anymore. Kind of glad this happen with my father rather than some of my friends - snipers, rangers, SF that have seen combat. She's a quick read so now its the standard what branch or where were you stationed.

Sounds about right, from my experience. I've been asked them all.

I can honestly say I've never been asked the "big one"...maybe I just don't look the type.

I have been asked things that actually required some thought; "Do you have a hard time dealing with civilian life?", "Has it been a challenge relating to people who aren't veterans?", "Do you wish you were still in?", "As a veteran, what do you think about what's going on with the Middle East?", "Would you let your son serve?"

Sometimes, the questions are bigger than the answers I think.

My favorite is if I'm dropping my kids off at a non-military daycare the little kids there always as "Are you in the Army?". I figure the uniform gives it away, but they are always pretty awestruck. Whenever I visit home-home, like mom and dads, I always get the "So you're the Army one? Where you at these days?" . I get the 'Army one' because I'm a twin and all my sisters and family still live in Kansas while I've lived all over.