Posted on Nov 14, 2016
SSG Jessica Bautista
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Consider where the term originates, who it was created for, and why. This is an actual question, so we're not doing any comedy in here.
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CPT Jack Durish
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What makes you think that we're making fun of people who need safe spaces? I don't see anything funny about it. In fact, I think that it's a very frightening concept. Life is full of hard choices and it takes courage to face them. These adult-children who can't bear to hear dissent or opposition are poorly prepared for the harsher realities of life. Ultimately, they make very poor citizens. Have you ever been a lifeguard or simply learned the rudiments of life saving so you are able to help a friend or family member in trouble? If so, you were taught that there is nothing more dangerous than being around a person in a panic. They'll grab onto anything, which might just be you. That's how many would-be rescuers end up being victims themselves. Well, these adult-children we see crying over a disappointment like a child denied an ice cream cone are like drowning people. And because they are adults with adult rights and privileges, they have the power to take us down with them. Imagine yourself in a tough spot and the only one around is one of them. You might make the mistake of depending on them for assistance and end up in worse trouble than if you had been alone and forced to rely upon yourself. No, no one is making fun here. No one is laughing. Me? I'm terrified of them and I'm terrified for our nation because of them.
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SFC Manuel Sandino
SFC Manuel Sandino
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You just don't want or refuse to see the point; the veracity of his point of view, and I concur as well, doesn't fit your narrative so you dismiss it by countering that he doesn't understand it. I have but a high school diploma and I get it.SSG Jessica Bautista -
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PO3 Andrew Kelly
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CPT Jack Durish - While the spaces you mention exist they are outnumbered and overshadowed in public awareness by the opinion free zones of the man children. First time I heard about these spaces on college campuses I thought someone was pulling my leg. 
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Sgt William Margeson
Sgt William Margeson
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Each generation over the past 40 years have gotten weaker than the previous one. In my day, these people would have been seperated as not being able to adapt to military life. Todays youth, having been taught that wgatever happens is not their fault. They bring this attitude into the military, and currant leaders except it, as the norm, thereby reducing the effectiveness of the fighting forces, reducing standards. All this will cost a lot of wasted money in training, readiness and wasted man power.

If anyone requires a safe space, they should not be in the military!
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SGT Thomas Bentley
SGT Thomas Bentley
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Where to start? Safe places for abused women and children? Safe places for coddled self indulging young millennials? If for women and children I agree they are necessary and under utilized in fear of reprisal. If for the young that are "triggered" by speech or a difference of opinion..........well no one has bled to death because they had feeling hurt. Many abused women and children have died at the hand of the abuser. Just my personal opinion on this matter.
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I am not sure where the term originated, but, I suspect as a place where one can avoid the triggers that cause him/her problems.

However, it has become a term for a place where one can go to make sure he/she does not here what they don't like to hear.
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SSG Jessica Bautista
SSG Jessica Bautista
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Capt (Join to see) - Ahhhh, that's a good point. That's the same way women's shelters work, and they are good at it.
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CPT Jack Durish
CPT Jack Durish
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SSG Jessica Bautista - Are you equating designated "Safe Spaces" on college campuses with abused women's shelters? I hope not. That is a real stretch and indefensible
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CPT Jack Durish - No, Jack the conversation drifted.
I just commented this type of shelter was needed.
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CPT anonymous your interpretation and points have nothing to do with the conversation at hand.
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Cpl Justin Goolsby
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I believe safe spaces originate from therapy/psychological counseling/whatever you want to call it. The reason people make fun of those that "use it" is because currently we have a generation usurping the term safe space as a place to silence any dissent. You are not allowed to have an opinion that differs in these "safe spaces". People's egos are becoming so fragile that they can't even handle their own ideas being challenged. So it's not that people are making fun of those in need of mental help, it's more like people are making fun of those that can't handle their opinions being challenged.
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Cpl Justin Goolsby
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Also true. I was just thinking of it in terms of the "making fun of" variety.
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SSG Jessica Bautista
SSG Jessica Bautista
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Cpl Justin Goolsby - Would you personally be opposed to safe spaces?
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Cpl Justin Goolsby
Cpl Justin Goolsby
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I would be opposed to safe spaces that weren't being utilized in a constructive way.

If you're a mediator in a divorce, you need both parties working together no matter how bitter the divorce may be. This is a constructive use of a safe space.

If you're a counselor helping a rape victim, you need them to be comfortable expressing themselves without judgment. This is a constructive use of a safe space.

If you're a clueless college student who wants to bring segregation back to school campuses because white people are racists, then no, that is not a constructive use of safe spaces because it is a very literal spit in the face to everyone who actually fought to eliminate segregation.

If you're a clueless protestor who believes only people of color should use a public walkway and all white people have to walk through a ditch because white people are racists, then no this is not a constructive use of the safe space.

I have zero issue with safe spaces, but too many people are clinging to that moniker as if it exempts them from acting like decent human beings.
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SSG Jessica Bautista
SSG Jessica Bautista
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Cpl Justin Goolsby - Lol I agree. That was a different view of it, but I agree.
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