Posted on Feb 5, 2015
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Me and some buddies were having this discussion about how to address a group of officers that are all male or female. I tired to convince them that you address them by saying gentlemen or ladies not sir's and ma'am's. I am unable to find it in the AR though, is this correct?
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PO1 Rick Serviss
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Ladies and Gentlemen is too casual for a military setting. I would can them sirs and ma'ams.
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It is not. Naval Courtesy and Customs (great book, everyone should have a copy) will confirm that "Ladies" and "Gentlemen" is the correct greeting for more than one officer of similar rank for that gender. There are such words as "Sirs" or "Ma'ams".
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PO1 Trial Paralegal
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That is correct, a group of officers are referred to as Gentleman or Ladies. An example of that is oddly enough in the UCMJ Article 133 which states “Any commissioned officer, cadet, or midshipman who is convicted of conduct unbecoming an officer and a gentleman shall be punished as a court-martial may direct.”.
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SCPO Frank Carson
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Gentlemen
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Cpl Rc Layne
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In the Marines it would be Ladies and Gentlemen. Doesn't the army have something on customs and courtesies?
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SPC Rob M
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You identify the the highest ranking Officer.
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SPC Douglas Vansuch
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I was taught to address the senior officer first,and then the others by sirs/ma'ams
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