Posted on Apr 30, 2015
What's the consensus on dependents using rank based reserved parking at exchanges/commissaries?
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What's the consensus on dependents using rank based reserved parking at exchanges/commissaries? I believe these spots are supposed to be used by the member to rapidly get in/out of a store and get back to work, not as a RHIP reward. To me, it smacks of dependents "wearing" their sponsor's rank.
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I feel being disabled now, that these spots should be used by people that are in need. Not as a convenience which is more often the case. I always try to remember that there is slways someone worse off than I and if I can I walk a little further.
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Spouses should not use the DV parking spots but DVs such as E9s and Col/Gen should use them every chance they get. It is a privilege earned and the younger troops should respect that. It is RHIP and I'm OK with that and it is also because those folks are very busy and don't need to be riding around a parking lot looking for a spot.
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SFC Joseph Lumpkins
As you say RHIP, but how do you feel about a retired SGM/CSM using a DV spot. For me those spots are for active duty service members not retirees.
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CMSgt (Join to see)
If you peruse the DV regs, it doesn't matter if you're active or retired. Once you have attained the rank of E9 or O6 and above that's for life.
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There are no authorized reserved parking at commissaries or exchanges for anyone other than handicap.
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SFC Joseph Lumpkins
Incorrect their are only two reserved spots on a military installation and that is for general officers and handicap and the commissary and the PX have them both.
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SSG Calvin Grant
There are parking spots at the PX and commissary that say reserved for general officers those spots carry no value. Believe me I tasted it. Don’t hide behind your rank or be so conceding to those who out rank. Don’t be that guy that sits in a staff meeting and bob your head up and down and always agree. Contrary to popular beliefs great minds don’t think alike, they think independently but often come to the same conclusion in the end.
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There is no such parking on a military installation. Parking spaces that have reserved for...are overrated. If the parking spot is available use it. The only authorized parking where you can get a ticket for violating is reserved for handicap. The rank of a service member under no circumstances carry over to a military spouse. Nor does your rank carry over to a reserved parking spot. Drive on drive on.
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Reserved parking spaces are ridiculous anyways. What, are you handicapped because of your rank? Do you think you're better than the people below you to get special treatment? Re-think why you posted this question.
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Agreed. This era of self-entitlement should not extend to spouses/dependents of ranking military members. I view this similarly to family members, throughout this country, who use handicap placards to park illegally in order to have the closest parking spot.
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Hell, my last post had THREE reserved "General Officer" parking spaces in the parking lot nearest the entrance to the hospital -- until the last BRAC reorganization the post only had TWO general officers assigned.
To the best of my knowledge NO general officer ever drove his POV to the hospital -- certainly not during duty hours -- the two star had a sedan and driver 24/7 (plus a spare sedan and a backup sedan), the one star had a sedan and driver during duty hours (and any other time he wanted them). If any of the general officers ever visited the hospital they used their sedan and parked at the door, not in the parking lot.
Now the post does have three general officers, but of course they still never use their POV during the day and the hospital has been downgraded to a Health Clinic, but still has three General Officer reserved parking spaces.
To the best of my knowledge NO general officer ever drove his POV to the hospital -- certainly not during duty hours -- the two star had a sedan and driver 24/7 (plus a spare sedan and a backup sedan), the one star had a sedan and driver during duty hours (and any other time he wanted them). If any of the general officers ever visited the hospital they used their sedan and parked at the door, not in the parking lot.
Now the post does have three general officers, but of course they still never use their POV during the day and the hospital has been downgraded to a Health Clinic, but still has three General Officer reserved parking spaces.
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From CWO-2, MCPO, TM (SS) USN [Ret.}
The problem of dependents wearing the rank of the military family member is one as old as the military! The same thing was going on in the 18th century if such tales related in history books are to be believed. In my view, the only way to stop such, on a general basis, is to delete the special parking, perhaps except for disabled personnel! Talking to dependents about the problem apparently doesn't do much good! However, in order to make such a massive change, the order would have to come from a Base Commander or higher, and in order to accomplish that, in my experience, the situation must be so serious as to catch the Commander's Attention@ Just exactly how to do that, will rest on the ability of someone who the Commander will listen to, and seriously consider, the problem being laid before him or her.
Respectfully Submitted;
Marcus Audens
The problem of dependents wearing the rank of the military family member is one as old as the military! The same thing was going on in the 18th century if such tales related in history books are to be believed. In my view, the only way to stop such, on a general basis, is to delete the special parking, perhaps except for disabled personnel! Talking to dependents about the problem apparently doesn't do much good! However, in order to make such a massive change, the order would have to come from a Base Commander or higher, and in order to accomplish that, in my experience, the situation must be so serious as to catch the Commander's Attention@ Just exactly how to do that, will rest on the ability of someone who the Commander will listen to, and seriously consider, the problem being laid before him or her.
Respectfully Submitted;
Marcus Audens
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CWO2 James Mathews
Since the Powers that be will not, or cannot, for some very strange reason, agree to my rank in the Navy, I will have to start my mail with my true rank.
Marcus Audens
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