Posted on Jul 22, 2016
SFC Stephen King
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Alan K.
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You forgot money.....That's your top one in a Marriage! But Politics and Religion are probably tops in general.
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Alan K.
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Money causes amnesia among friends....!
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SSG Warren Swan
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When the wife asks you "does this look good on me". Now your wife is supposed to be your best friend, and we all tell the truth to our best friends......RIGHT??????
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SSG Warren Swan
SSG Warren Swan
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SFC Stephen King - Are you using the NCO mind trick on the wife? If so, spill the beans on how to do it, before I get married again. This should be a NCOPD session.
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SFC Stephen King
SFC Stephen King
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SSG Warren Swan Understanding the problem is key. I have been teaching others to control their thoughts for over 5 yrs. The trigger starts the cycle (Who, What, Where or When) your Thoughts about the trigger or heat of the moment #WTF moments drive what you feel (emotions) and what you do (reactions).
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SSG Warren Swan
SSG Warren Swan
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SFC Stephen King - If you control your thoughts, are you setting yourself up for more pain later on? That was a big problem for me when I was married. I would give no outward emotion in an attempt to maintain my bearing with someone who doesn't know what that is. Her deal was the longer I stayed quiet, it would be a matter of time before the shit it the fan.
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SFC Stephen King
SFC Stephen King
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I understand SSG Warren Swan

The next time you have a problem with someone first you need to figure what the problem is. Then list the positive change once you resolve it. Express your concern about it calmly. Ask for their perspective(be ready for the answer and control your non verbal communication) Describe the problem to the person accurately and objectively You/LEAD
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Cpl Justin Goolsby
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Well politics happens to be the most divisive subject in the Country, so that's what I voted for. On a personal level, I have only lost 2 friends. 1 friend wouldn't support my choice in a partner and basically said he couldn't be a part of my life as long as she was going to stay in my life. My 2nd friend believes my people are oppressing his people and then he started calling out for the extermination of the white man.

So for me, women and racist rhetoric caused the worst disagreements in my life.
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SSG Warren Swan
SSG Warren Swan
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Much happiness I'd wish to you, but DAMN that would be two items that would really shake me down. The day I stop loving white women the same as ANY other woman, I need to start sucking on .45 rounds. Diversity makes people good. Opens eyes, and gives glimpses into the other point of view. You can tell Mini-Farrakhan to chill, or go kick rocks.
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