Posted on Feb 11, 2022
SPC 11 C Indirect Fire A Infantryman
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We just got a new Corporal who recently reclassed to mortars. He’s highly motivated (hooah), and during a training event, we had a disagreement over how to perform large deflections. He told me to "drop," but the fire mission he was calling would’ve put us outside the safety fan during a live fire and could have potentially caused injuries to other elements participating in the exercise.

Now, I understand and respect his rank, but I’ve been a mortarman longer and currently serve as the Gun 2 gunner. The fact is—he was wrong. He just became an 11C, and when he wouldn’t listen to correction or reason, I told him (admittedly out of frustration) to eat a bag of d***s.

I’m curious to hear what others think—especially when it comes to situations where rank clashes with experience and safety is on the line.
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You told an NCO to go eat a bag of dicks and you wanna know if you were wrong? I don't care if you've been doing the job longer and know more. You were more wrong than a hooker in church trying to pass a $3.00 bill in the collection plate. Personally, you should have been recommended for UCMJ. Disrespect to an NCO, Article 91. And yes he can drop your ass for corrective training. Remember, he's the NCO and you are not. Next time this happens, take it to your Squad Leader instead of planting your head in your ass.
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SFC Domingo M.
SFC Domingo M.
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2LT Ronald Reimer - What did it for me was hard work and dedication, demonstrated leadership abilities which others didn't. I wasn't afraid to face a challenge.
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2LT Ronald Reimer
2LT Ronald Reimer
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SFC Domingo M. - I’m sure that you were/did. Those who are successful, (like yourself), frequently are. I was trying to point out that those were different times. I wonder if anyone in the past 10 years has gone from E-1 or E-2 to E-5 in 1 year of service. Not in my original MOS, that’s for sure. The promotion points required for advancement were frozen at 998 for 5 years.
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SFC Domingo M.
SFC Domingo M.
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2LT Ronald Reimer - I respect your take on this, but just for the sake of it, I just checked and the cut-off score is 450, and I couldn't find any time frame when it was frozen at 998. At least not for 11B MOS.
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SPC Wesley Parker
SPC Wesley Parker
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Everyone keeps talking about RSOs. There were no RSOs in Vietnam, we were on our own and if we screwed up, innocent people died. A battery 4th battalion 42nd field artillery 4th Infantry Division.
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SFC Retention Operations Nco
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You were both wrong, but you do what your rank can handle. He was wrong to try to flex because he was insecure about being wrong. You were wrong in your response. He's trying to establish himself as the recognized leader in a section that's new to him. You could have changed that entire encounter by pulling him aside and showing him the TM or whatever reference in a way that let's him save face in front of his Joe's.
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SSG Richard Bladl
SSG Richard Bladl
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1stSgt Michael Shafer - Sorry to disagree, your response shows you to be a hard nosed leader that needs some leadership training. You needed to pull both to the side and have a discussion about the problem and try to fix it, if that didn't work you could give less punishment than an Article 15. Sorry top, you don't have my support.
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Sgt Peter McLaughlin
Sgt Peter McLaughlin
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99 percent of getting someone to do something for you is the approach you take. once you mess that up, it's a lot harder to get them to respect you after that. Respect works both ways! The biggest impact came from a First Sargeant who told our unit : " You don't have to like someone, but you will respect the rank". There is a chain of command for a reason. An old saying that goes a long way and will save you many difficulties: Think before you act or speak.
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PO2 Mike Vignapiano
PO2 Mike Vignapiano
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Maybe I missed something but how can you say the NCO was wrong? All this arrogant SOB told us was a very vague one-sided opinion. New can be anywhere from a day to a year. All we know is what he told an NCO who IS IN CHARGE.
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SFC Michael Peterson
SFC Michael Peterson
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PO2 Mike Vignapiano - do you have any idea how serious it is to fire a mortar round outside the safety fan? I’m talking Article 34 hearings and possible criminal charges. He was wrong for telling the CPL to “eat a bag of dicks” but, he just might have saved everyone in his chain of command.
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SFC Ralph E Kelley
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Under Art 92, UCMJ, it is a violation if the SPC does not obey the order.
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SFC Michael Peterson
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1SG(P) Dean Mcbride (MPER) (SPHR) - OK 1SG, you have a CPL who was going to fire a mortar round outside the safety fan and a SPC who told that CPL to eat a bag of dicks. Would it be better for the SPC to just shut up and fire that round? That would have resulted in an investigation. Maybe even an Article 34 Hearing and, a few members of the of the COC being relieved. If that round would have landed outside the safety fan, and the SPC stopped that, the CPL would be the one in the hot seat. I would need to see all the data to make that decision.
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1SG(P) Dean Mcbride (MPER) (SPHR)
1SG(P) Dean Mcbride (MPER) (SPHR)
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SFC Michael Peterson One would think that during a "Live Fire" Training Excercise a Safety Officer was present and responsible. Rather than tell the Corporal to "Eat a Bag of Dicks", the Specialist should have brought the problem to the attention of the Safety Officer.
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SFC Michael Peterson
SFC Michael Peterson
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1SG(P) Dean Mcbride (MPER) (SPHR) - Yes, there would be a RSO present. They mostly stick close to the FDC, where the firing data is computed, rather than on the gun line. A dispute on the gun line could be overlooked and, part of the Squad Leader’s job is to verify the correct data gets to the gun. That would be the CPL in this scenario. Otherwise, you would need an RSO at every position. One for the FDC and one for each of the guns.
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1SG(P) Dean Mcbride (MPER) (SPHR)
1SG(P) Dean Mcbride (MPER) (SPHR)
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Before I dropped a round, knowingly into a tube set with incorrect (and unsafe) data, I would walk away.... Straight to the FDC or RSO! I would not quibble with the Squad Leader or engage in a pissing contest. That round goes down range out of the Safety Fan and everyone from FDC to the RSO to the Gun Crew will be on the carpet defending their actions!
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Can a corporal in a team leader position have me do corrective action (“smoke” me)? And was I wrong to tell him to eat a bag of dicks?
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To come on RallyPoint and ask this question, I think you know what the answer will be.
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PFC Nicholas Hare
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Exactly
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1SG(P) Dean Mcbride (MPER) (SPHR)
1SG(P) Dean Mcbride (MPER) (SPHR)
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Sgt (Join to see) I think we have "Beat this Dead Horse to Death" and given the idiot (SPC Gomez) his two minutes of fame! It's hard to understand how a question this stupid can generate the volumne of response it receives!
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SGT Chuck Freiman
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Some folks, and apparently I'm one of them, have too much time on their hands
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Maj John Bell
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Edited 4 y ago
Marine Corps perspective: You were wrong.

How long must a corporal be above you in the chain of command before you must follow his legal orders? Authority is not based on tenure. The standard is immediate intelligent obedience.

Did the order present danger to life and limb?

Did the order present a danger to government property?

Did the order violate the verbal or written order from a more senior authority?

Was the order illegal?

If the answers are all "no," you carry it out. It is OK to try to point out a problem if time permits, but when the final word is issued, you carry it out, well before it gets to a heated exchange. His authority is not up for debate. Even if the Army has an order or policy against punitive "smoking," your "bag of dicks" comment brings into question your suitability to serve.

Marine officers typically do not get involved in matters of discipline unless the NCO/SNCO chain want them to, or there is an immediate threat to life, limb, or property. If they referred it to me, I'd have you appear at field grade NJP and max you out. Add to it your "bag of dicks" comment, if it was in front of any other soldiers below the rank of corporal, skip NJP entirely and you'd be standing in front of a summary court-martial. Any prior or subsequent indications that you have a problem with authority, and you'd be looking at a punitive discharge.
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Maj John Bell
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Sgt Tim Horton - Immediate, intelligent obedience is not the same thing as blind obedience or instant obedience. Neither of those is desirable in any ground unit. And there is no less need for need for thinking in ground units either. I think the chaos level is much greater in ground combat that in aviation maintenance. And we don't have the luxury of getting all the information before we get about our mission.

There is a reason I chose the words I did. There is a reason I did not choose the words you did. Refusing an aircraft for a weep hole would count as intelligent under the concept of immediate, intelligent obedience. In specific, the pilot's order was most likely not a legal order. Were there extenuating circumstances that you have not revealed that would cause the pilot to reasonably believe the risk to pilot and aircraft would justify his order to violate the NATOPS manual?

Had you followed the pilot's order you would have been in violation of the authority of the flag officer under whose authority the NATOPS manual was issued. You would have been subject to discipline. As far as the officer ordering you to greenlight his aircraft, in a ground unit, he would have been disciplined, first time, for issuing such an order whether you followed that order or not. Second time he'd be cashiered.

I'm not impressed by aviation officers who love to hang around the Marines entrusted to their authority or buying the beer. Ground combat officers are no different. But we are acutely aware that our legal and absolutely correct orders may still result in their death, injury or capture. The majority of pilots only share that relationship with enlisted personnel who are actually members of their crew. Unless things have changed, that pretty much limits it to rotary wing pilots, perhaps fixed wing transport who generally don't face as high a threat as rotary wing crew.

The assertion that "it's different in the wing," may be true, but is it necessary. The comment always carries the undercurrent that pilots have to treat their maintenance personnel better because they don't know what they'll do to the aircraft. If I was an aviation maintenance Marine the whole concept of the different ball game would piss me off. Regardless of whether or not I like and or respect my pilot, he would get the best maintenance I can possibly provide. I believe that is true of 99.999+% of the Marines in aviation maintenance. But redundancy in maintenance is there to catch the 0.001% that are nursing a grudge.

As far as my "not so subtle digs," I've given the same as I've received starting with "Meh," no more, no less. But it was not intended as a dig. During my career, I've been aware of three administrative reductions in rank, all three were Marines from the aviation community, NCO's who transferred to ground combat MOS's. Their repeated failures to demand immediate, intelligent obedience eventually resulted in one or more of the following: security breaches at a strategic weapons facility, damage to serialized government property or injury to personnel. They were reduced, but not the only ones who didn't initially adjust well. They were the ones that didn't learn even after repeated intervention by the SNCO chain to change their perspective.
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Maj John Bell
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Sgt (Join to see) little problem here with Cpl Madisons understanding of the RP terms of use.
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SGT Greg Gold
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RAH!
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SMSgt Jeff Kyle
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Interesting take. I was Marine Corps hen Air Force. My entire career was helicopter maintenance. The incident that I’m discussing occurred while I was in the Air Force and I was a SSgt (E-5). I had a dent in the side of a tail rotor blade that was out of limits, no repair allowed. I briefed my night guy on the discrepancy and asked him to get things going for a new blade. The next morning as I was crossing the hangar, I noticed a massive blob of bondo covering the dent. My blood pressure started going up, I mean WTF?!?! The night shift supervisor (MSgt E7) saw me looking at the blade and told me he miked the blade and said it was good to go. I uncorked on him. In a nutshell I told him it wasn’t safe and the blade was coming off. His response was a negative; sand it smooth and fly it. My response: if that blade doesn’t get removed, I was going to take a hammer and beat the shit out of it till there was no doubt it was unrepairable. The wasn’t flying and that was it. Period.
After cooling down I apologized. It was unprofessional of me to lose my shit. Apology accepted. He went home. I got a tool box and removed the blade. I removed all the bonds, hade metal shop Mike it and once again it was out of limits. By the end of my shift a new blade was installed and nothing more was said. I was right, he was wrong but I didn’t fall over the precipice and land on my sword, so to speak.
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1SG Chad Mcdaniel
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As a former IG, you technically can't be dropped for punishment, with that said a 4856 is the alternative. Telling a CPL to eat a bag of dicks (although funny) is disrespect to a NCO and yes could again be given a 4856 and could even request UCMJ action.
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MSG Intermediate Care Technician
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SPC (Join to see) oh, don't worry. If I gave an essay for corrective training, it totally covered what the infraction was, the impact on the unit and what legal ramifications the SM could face.
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CSM Charles Hayden Passed 7/29/2025
CSM Charles Hayden Passed 7/29/2025
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SFC William Linnell In my day, they always added: ‘One for the Tiger’. (See profile photo).
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SSG Ted Strachan
SSG Ted Strachan
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Sorry 1SG, but I fail to see anything funny about disrespect to an NCO. That kind of crap can get people killed under the right circumstances and should never be tolerated. If the CPL was wrong, take him aside offline with the pertinent references and make your case. No room at all for this kind of garbage. And corrective training in the realm of the physical should NEVER be removed as an on the spot option unless the offender has a valid physical profile in possession.
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1SG Chad Mcdaniel
1SG Chad Mcdaniel
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SSG Ted Strachan sorry SSG, never said disrespect was funny, I even said he could recieve UCMJ. Funny is the comment eat a bag of dicks don't read any further into that!
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SGT Joseph Gunderson
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He most definitely can smoke you, and I hope he does it again.
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SFC Marc W.
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The troll is strong with this post
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SPC Kevin Ford
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He has the power to do it and you were wrong. Regardless of if he's wrong on the technical side of the job, he is your NCO. Since he is new to the field you would do much better to try and help him in private to be successful instead of undermining his authority in public. That won't help either of you and in certainly won't help the unit.

If he makes a couple of mistakes in training, that's all good too. It's part of the reason we do training.
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SGT Gifford Allaire
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I agree with SPC Ford. You were in the wrong, and to be honest you're damn lucky you didn't get slapped under UCMJ. What you should have done, at least in my opinion, is talked to him in private and shown him on paper via TM, etc. It's far more professional that way, and you show him both what is right, and that you care enough to do so in a professional manner. That's my .02 on it.
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SFC Casey O'Mally
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A VERY similar situation was what got me my 1st Article 15. My squad leader was so far in left field he wasn't even in the bleachers, he was in the parking lot.

My 1SG even told me that what I did and said NEEDED to be done and said. But I didn't have the rank to do or say it, so here's your article 15.

Yes you were wrong. Article 15 level wrong.
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