Posted on Jul 6, 2024
Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
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Got into an interesting discussion with house guests on tipping yesterday. We were out all day and, although we had a planned meal, no one felt like cooking so we ordered in. They insisted on paying and as we were discussing the order asked what percentage we tip food delivery down here. They're from New England and apparently up there its common not tip as much for food delivery as you would if eating in at the same restaurant. Wife an I had never heard of that, but then we live in Florida which is hardly a hot spot for current dining etiquette. So, that got me wondering, should you tip more for in restaurant service and less if it's delivery from the same restaurant?
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Maj John Bell
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I've literally never had food delivered to me.

But I tip based on the quality of the service;
Excellent service - 30%
Good service - 20%
Adequate service - 10%
Bad service - an explanation of my failure to leave a tip. (I've left no tip about 5-6 times in my life.
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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Maj John Bell -
Sorry Major, I Did Not Intend To Point You Out,
Nor Anyone Else For That Matter.
I Was Just Making A General Statement To Everyone.
And For That I DO Apologize, I Made An Unfortunate Mistake.
And Again, I'm Truly Sorry. My Error
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Maj John Bell
Maj John Bell
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney - If you did not intend to point me out, why use my name in specific with a question mark. there is far more to a fine dining service than the quality of the ingredients, how long it takes the chef to prepare the meal. but ultimately the person who is personally charged with the overall quality of the meal is the server. they are the final quality inspector of the fare and the ambience.
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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"why use my name in specific with a question mark." ~
Because, If I'm Not Mistaken, This Is Your Thread & I Had No One Else To Pick On At That Moment.~~ I DID Apologize, And I THINK That's About The Best I Can Do, Unless Someone Else Comes Up With Something Better~~ Again Major, I DO Apologize.; Especially If You Felt Insulted.~~ Totally Unintended. ~~
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SPC Wesley Parker
SPC Wesley Parker
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Like you, I've never paid for food delivery. I occasionally order pizza from local pizza parlors who offer free delivery and will tip the delivery person at the regular restaurant rate.
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Lt Col Scott Shuttleworth
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I tip actual restaurant workers 18-20% depending on the service...maybe less if it is really atrocious or they are rude, but it has to be really bad cause everyone has a bad or off day.

For deliveries I usually tip 10% or $4 whichever is greater because they didn't wait on me, take my order, refill my glass, take away the dirties etc. they just delivered the food.
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
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That's pretty much my thought process as well.
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SMSgt Lawrence McCarter
SMSgt Lawrence McCarter
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Pretty much what I leave for tips also, 20% at least maybe a little more ir there was very good service. Delivery or pick up I'll still tip but less. Once the service at a table was so bad I left two cents and let the management of the place know that was more than they were worth. In the same token for real good service I might let the Management know and the employee would know by the tips I left and My thanks as well.
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Lt Col Scott Shuttleworth
Lt Col Scott Shuttleworth
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SMSgt Lawrence McCarter - Another thing...If it was really exceptional service I mean over the top, I tip well but I also leave them a note thanking them for making our night out worthwhile and that when we come back we will ask for a table in their area.
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MSgt Steven Holt, NRP, CCEMT-P
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I tip based on level of service. I've left a $10 tip on a $10 meal because the server was absolutely outstanding. I've also left a penny in the bottom of a water glass on a $40 meal. If I have to order and receive my food while standing at a counter, you probably are not getting a tip at all.
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Do you tip in restaurant and food delivery people at the same rate?
PO1 William "Chip" Nagel
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen Been a While since I Ate in a Restaurant but I Live across the Street from Lots, Usually walk acroos the Street to get Food to Go. Love that I can get a Margaritta to Go from Salty Iguana.
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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LOL.... I've Also Had Iguana; When I Lived In Panama, The House-Boys Would Catch Them When The Iguana Would Dash Across The Back Yard; Clean Them Out, Split The Ribs Open & Let The Sun-Bake Them While Hanging On The Walls. The Meat Has A Strong Wild Taste And The Consistency Of Beef-Jerky. BUT If BBQ'd Slowly For A Few Hours And Wrapped In Aluminum Foil, It Came Out Much More Tender The Longer It Was Cooked.
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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Edited >1 y ago
I Do Just The Opposite.
Since The Delivery Person Must Take Your Meals
To Their Vehicle, Place The Order In A Safe Place.
Drives To Your Location , Reverse The Procedure,
Then Drives Back To His Original Locating..
He Receives The Bigger Bucks.
Inside The Restaurant, The Server Comes From The Kitchen,
Places You Order On The Table, ~ He's Done~
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
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I like that logic. Now if I could just get the driver to get here at Mach 2 :-))
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen -
Ya Know COL. Jack? ~ One Of These Days The Greek Gods Are Gonna Form A Tag-Team
And Nail Uranus To The Wall ~ Doing MACH III.. (;->)
How Ya Like Them There Apples.?
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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SGT Charlie Lee -
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We've Had Run-ins Before.
No Biggie, So I just kiss his for a moment,
then and get on with my life.
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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LCDR Kenneth Miller ~
RELAX ~~ Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen And I Razz Each Other All The Time.
But ONLY He & I Know "Why I Ended With MACH III " ~~ I Upped It From MACH II.
Sorry For The Misunderstanding ~
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Sgt Ronald Limuti
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Having been a resident of Florida for past 9 years, our experience has been tipping in a restaurant is at a higher percentage because servers are actually performing duties of serving drinks and food. Recently determined waiters/waitresses are now receiving higher hourly wages which should affect tip amounts. Delivery tips are still recommended because of time and gas, but usually not as high as in restaurant tipping.
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
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That's pretty much my thinking as well
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SGT Aaron Atwood
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Depends on the circumstances. My best tip ever was for an unplanned Christmas meal. I forget why we weren't able to conjure something up ourselves, but it resulted in me placing an order with a local place. I felt really really bad for the driver so I tipped accordingly. What do I mean by that? I tipped him the final retail price of what was delivered. I don't recall how much it was, but it was quite the tip. I signed the receipt and handed it back to him. He started walking away and then read the receipt. He stopped, turned around, and asked, "Wait a minute; are you sure?!" My reply, "Merry Christmas!"

Anywho, so while wait staff at an eatery of some sort are localized to the facility's confines a delivery driver has to take the food from the eatery to the delivery place and back again, and many places can't afford to cover much for the driver. Vehicle fuel is usually on the driver. Ditto for auto insurance and vehicle maintenance. It all adds up.

On the other hand: while I don't mind tipping delivery drivers and wait staff I do believe that tipping has gotten way out of control with many other workers (including those in visibly volunteer positions) more or less demanding tips, and then acting like you're the Scrooge from a Christmas Carol if you don't pay them to breathe for the rest of the day.
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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One Christmas Evening We Picked Up My Car Through The Casinos Valet Service
And Just To Enjoy The Guys Reaction, I Said: "I Hope You'll Be Off Work, On Time To See Santa", While Handing Him A Folded 20... I Took About 3 - 4 Steps When The Valet Said "SIR, You Accidentally Gave Me A 20 Dollar Bill", And Began Walking Towards Me When I Replied "It Wasn't An Accident, Merry Christmas & Have A Drink On Me". When We Do Little Things Like That, It Makes Their Day A Little Better, And They Have A Story To Tell.
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LCDR Jerry Maurer
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I tip 15% at restaurants if the service is good. Tipping was established to make up for poor salaries, but in Washington state, minimum wage is over $15 an hour. So tipping is not there for the original purpose. Frustrating to me that we are expected to continue to tip people who have a decent hourly wage. I don't tip unless I'm sitting at a table being served.
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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Out Here In Vegas Many Jobs Pay "Tips-Only" So It's Important To Be Generous With Your Tipping As It's All They Have To Live On. I've HEARD, But Not Sure I've Been TO One, Some Restaurants Actually CHARGE A FEE To Work In Their Restaurants; Especially The High Class Restaurants Where Large Tips Are The Norm..
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SFC Casey O'Mally
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As a former delivery guy, I look at things a bit different.

When I tip delivery, I tip based on effort required. A $75 pizza takes the same effort to deliver as a $15 pizza. You get $5 and change. Now, if it is raining, or on the edge of your delivery area (or maybe even a little outside it) that goes up. If it is snowing, that goes up some more. If there is a tornado warning, I call the store and tell them to hold my order until the warning is over, I don't care if it is cold. Then the tip goes up a LOT when it finally gets to me.

If I order 7 pizzas, the tip goes up, even if they were free with points.

And so on.


When I was delivering, a run was a run was a run. I never compared total to tip, and, honestly, never really worried too much about how high the tip was. I never *expected* a tip on any normal orders, but if you had a BIG order, regardless of cost, and you didn't tip, it was upsetting. Likewise if we were bending the rules to deliver to you outside of our area. Or if you asked for special effort and I put that effort in - I had requests for songs at delivery, draw pictures on the box, "knock like the Po Po", even stop and pick up some smokes. If I put in that effort for you, I don't expect a *lot* but SOMETHING to show you appreciate the effort was expected.


When I am dining, it is a bit different. I still believe that the wait staff should not be penalized for my light order. If I just have a coffee and I occupy your booth for an hour sipping my coffee because I am waiting for someone who never shows up, you don't get tipped 20% of $2. You are still getting $5. Especially if you kept me topped off.

$5 is pretty much the floor for actual fine in service. Baristas and others may get less. From there it goes up, and, yes, is *generally* percentage based.

Standard service is 20% and change (I always round to even dollars, usually even $5). Slightly substandard service with a reasonable excuse (they were packed, she also had a table of 16, 15 of which were named Karen, etc.) is the same.

Good service gets AROUND 25%, and exceptional service can go as high as 50%, depending on how rich I am that day and how good the service was.

Even poor service that *tried* will get around 15%.

Anything less than 15% is a discussion with the manager. But so is anything over 25%. And I have a lot more of the positive discussions than the negative ones.


But I think a lot of that comes from my time delivering which gives me a lot more empathy for the plight of the server / delivery guy - both financial plight and workspace plight. I can *see* when that server is having a rough night of it through no (or very little) fault of their own or when they are just hanging out at the bar, flirting with the bartender, rather than asking my wife if she wants another.
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SSG Laurie Mullen
SSG Laurie Mullen
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I tip 20%, if the weather is really bad that day I'll increase it. I used to deliver pizzas too so I make sure I tip the pizza guys. One of my nephews works for a catering business and had prepared $600.00 worth of food and had it ready for the lady to pick up. She didn't tip and then had the audacity to ask him to help her take it out to her vehicle. That task was not on list of tasks to do so he told her not so nicely to get phucked.
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SFC Casey O'Mally
SFC Casey O'Mally
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SSG Laurie Mullen I had one where I delivered 40 pies and a dozen 2Ls (ice cold and sweating, mind you) to a party that was outside our delivery area. The parking lot was over 100M from the delivery location, so it was 225M round trip for each trip back and forth - and it was 6 trips to get them everything so over 3/4 mile of walking.

Between bagging it up and getting it in the car, all of the back and forth, plus the extra drive, that run took 50 minutes. (As comparison, on a busy night, I would do as many as 6 runs an hour.)

$0 tip. Like, count back my 39 cents of change. I was.... less than happy. I didn't say anything but WHOOOEEEE I wanted to.

Luckily, the son stopped me on my way back to my car after the last trip and slid me a $20 with express instructions to never let his dad find out.
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SSG Laurie Mullen
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SFC Casey O'Mally - When I delivered pizzas we had one family outside of our delivery area that wouldn't tip. If I was working I would take the trip because I could cut through Ft Gordon to make the trip shorter. We finally had enough of them after they had me walk back to my vehicle and get their 7 cents in change from my vehicle. After that none of the drivers would accept the delivery. The family didn't get any pizza from that shop again while I was stationed at Ft Gordon.
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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SSG Laurie Mullen - ...
LMAO ~~ Some Bass--Turds Are Like Finishing College & Leaving With Their Degree In Their Hands ~ They Simply Have NO CLASS, And Some Never Will Have Much ~~
It's Just Another Case Piss Poor Potty Training... And The Can Was Never Flushed.
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SMSgt Charles Olson
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My wife and I go out several times a week and we have our favorite places. At these eateries the waitresses or waiters know my name and my preference for drinks. I don't even have to tell them what I want, so usually I tip anywhere from 20 to 30 percent. I have given as much as 40% when the service is really exceptional. I don't have food brought to my home so I don't know the amount I should consider. When I was teaching at a local college I would order pizza for the students on the last day, and I would always give somewhere between 20% and 25%. As far as poor service I agree with Major John Bell and would let someone know why I was either leaving a very small tip or none at all. I do know food service people work really hard and sometimes it's not there fault when the service is poor. For example, the restaurant may be short staffed and the wait staff are just swamped. In those cases, I always try to talk with the manager to let them know I am displeased.
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A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney
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You DO Realize The Same People You Report Your Displeasures About Are ALSO The Same Ones Handling Your Food Before It's Given to You? ~
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