Posted on Apr 6, 2015
SSG Robert Burns
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I must say that I am guilty of allowing my battles to address me as Burns or Burnsy, etc. in the work environment. But had a SPC done that, I'd probably lose my ever-loving mind. Why is that? Are they not just following the example we set? Is it disrespectful or not? Does it matter the rank of the other person?
If my CSM called me by Burns would I correct him? Probably not. Should I? Probably not. LOL I want to know your thoughts on this.
Is this just an Army thing? I know in the Air Force which is almost the same as military, that they address each other by first name quite often. Say it aint so.
Side Note: This picture is the best I could come up with to illustrate this question. Everyone knows the relationship between Forrest and Bubba.
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MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca
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I think in basic we all went through that but once you've had your brain altered and reprogrammed it should be rank and last name under most situations. I occasionally slipped and called soldiers E-4 and below by last names but corrected myself because it doesn't show the same respect that we ask for in return.
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SSgt Ncoic, Admin And Dts
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There is a time and place for everything. I think it is appropriate if that kind of relationship has been established.
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PO3 Steven Sherrill
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When I was in our division mixed it up. Our division officer was Sir, ASWO, or Ens (later Lt.) Williams. If we were not just amongst our division it was always Sir. Our Chief was always just addressed as Chief, unless there were other chiefs present, then it was Chief Simmons. Petty Officer were addressed by their last name, or STG1,2, or 3 accordingly. It was never meant in a disrespectful manner, it was simply a culture of bonding that was encouraged. Hell I have a hat that says Big Pappa Spank because there were those who were convinced I would end up as a WWE wrestler of that name. 
If it was a person from outside of our division, it was always their proper title. CO was always Captain as that is the title he earned as commanding officer of a ship. 
Funny thing is that my step kids address me as "Sir"
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SGT Signal Support Systems Specialist
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It depends on the rank and who it is coming from. I would've rather had been called Sgt but my closest friends or fellow NCO's used to just call me V. Especially down range. Very informal attached to SF and I absolutely LOVED IT!
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SGT Bryon Sergent
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I see that if a peer of superior does it as fine. Most people don't like saying it twice! LOL
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SSG Christopher K.
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When u are addressing someone with a higher rank than yourself it is proper military custom and courtesy to use the rank when addressing them. This is just common sense but it does elude people from time to time and its just a simple on the spot correction and hope it sticks with them.
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PO1 Master-at-Arms
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Good question, Burns, good question...
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SSG Richard Reilly
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I picked "This is only appropriate coming from a peer or supervisor. " however, I would like to say I always adressed Soldiers by their rank that they earned. It should give them more pride in what they are and what they earned.
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SSG Richard Reilly
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Side note I have had many CPTs call me Richard and say I can call them by their first name. My response is "no sir/ma'am I can't. We are in a culture that strives on respect. That respect is given by position and yours is a higher one. If I would call you by your first name another Soldier may assume it is right and degrade your respect."
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SSgt Joe V.
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Depends on your unit, but with a last name that you can't help but annunciate a certain way - Van Ass(e) - I was fine with those above me calling me by last name only. Sgt. VanAss(e) to the younger airmen...
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CSM Brigade Operations (S3) Sergeant Major
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My BDE CSM called me Mike and I called him Sergeant Major. I am not a big fan of superiors calling juniors by their first name. I know the officers do it on a regular basis but as NCOs I don't think it sets the proper example.

Among peers I have no issues unless there are junior Soldiers around, then rank should be used.
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