Why do spouses insist on wearing uniform items that they didn't earn? Better yet, why are the military members letting them?

I hate when incivilian life run into someone saying their aveteran but it their husband.

Sorry, I was corrected by a PO3, we fight and die for the right to wear our uniforms anyway we desire even if disgraceful. So I guess if spouses or anyone else wishes to degrade our dress code then it is fine.

I have really tried to stay away from the uniform did is sion, but must speak my piece. I don'the care who you are or what you do, but when you think it'should "cool" to improperly wear a uniform, or part there of, you have disgraced mines and the reasons I wear it, that is unexceptable. We have lost too many great people and spilled too much blood to be disgraced. You have attacked my pride and commitment, it should "NOT", be allowed.

My wife might hate spouses that wear it on there sleeves more than I do! She'll. tell them too! That's why I married her.

My brother was in the Navy; 32 years before finally retiring in 2000. His wife was not. Absolutely not, she almost would not even let him in the house with a uniform on, let alone her wearing anything, or the children. She would not touch anything of his gear, or anything. That all changed the week after he made Senior Master Chief. They had to move into new quarters about 3 blocks from where they were already. Now the school bus came directly to their house and picked up their children, driving past on the same street they used to live on, and past all the other children walking to school. The kids lost friends because they now live on "snob hill". He just couldn't fathom that.
After they got settled in their new house, the commander of the base's wife knocked on her door, and showed her the roster of her schedule to be the hostess of the tea social. His wife told her in no certain terms that she was not in the Navy, he was, and slammed the door. A couple hours later my brother was on the carpet in front of the commander and was basically told if he wanted to keep his rank, then his wife needs to get in line.
On the day she held the tea social, she was dressed in his uniform. She said If I'm in the Navy then there...That didn't go over at all. It got ugly. She left, filed for divorce. My brother kept his rank but transferred to another job at a different base. But that was just 3 years before retiring;.. I'm sure that no longer happens (?)

The worse thing is when a spouses think they hold rank. The makes me angry. My wife never didn't and I would have left her if she tried. You see I do not tolerate this form of disrespect of others by giving power or authority to someone who did not earn it or was not trained to lead.

though spouces do not sighn a contract they do have a part in that military partners Moral ,they help run the home raise the kids send him packages when hes deployed ,and what better thing to come back to the barrex while deployed and get that sented letter from your spouce with a sexy photo of them in or with a piece of your clothing !and if your a lifer and that spouce has been at your side all that time yes they do have a sort of intitlement !

My spouse is AD Army and I'm a Navy vet so I wouldn't be caught dead wearing any of that ugly nonsense. :p The only thing I still wear are the PT shorts and my old OCS t-shirts that's the USMC OCS from when I was stationed at the Bradley clinic. That color green is acceptable.

same reason we Sulted the wife of some officers and said "sorry we did not know". just to shut them up!!!

I know a few spouses that feel they are entitled to say they served with there husbands. I've argued with them until blue in the face. They just don't understand!!!!