Posted on Dec 25, 2025
What insights can you offer to family and friends of a person suffering with PTSD when they're contributing to the person failing recovery?
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It is a stunning experience to watch the people closest to a person with PTSD berate and aggravate the person constantly. Either the family and friends do not realize how they are hurting the person or they do not care what the education and science says about the condition.
Posted 15 h ago
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Posted 14 h ago
I Haven't had that problem with family support, it's also only been recently things that didn't bother Me at the time I served in Vietnam in 1968-69 now Come up in nights as strange dreams. I seem to feel that there are plenty of people that went through more than I did. Also after 40 years of Police work both Military and civilian the number of call where Physiatrist were the problem themselves on far too many family disturbance calls. A lot of them had their own mental health problems in My opinion and i didn't trust them to solve My own. One Physiatrist friend of mine told Me about 85% of His own fellow shrinks entered the field to find out what was wrong with themselves. On some of those calls it was the so called Mental Health professionals were the problem and NOT the family member they called about. In some of those cases it was the Doctor I either arrested or determined they were the problem. it's not family support but lack of trust in these Physiatrist to go there with My problems. I seem to do better with My own fellow Veteran's than many of those Doctors. I have had college courses in Psychology but I'm NOT a Doctor or expert in that field but i know a nut when I see one and many of these Doctors qualify as just that !
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard
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SMSgt Lawrence McCarter big chuckle, in my early quest to get mental health help, it was always the wack-a-doodles with the degree controlling how things would go with me. In my case, the colloquial understanding of trauma was, "blacks did not go to psychiatrists because we were confined in state hospitals". So, I pressed on without family support or mental health treatment.
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SMSgt Lawrence McCarter
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard - That a very sad, when in Vietnam the guys in My unit ALL were going through the same thing and race had nothing at all to do with it. We ALL did our jobs and the stress impact effected ALL of us. The common enemy was the NVA and the Viet Cong, NOT each other. That is so shameful that these Psychiatrists treated any Man or woman different and wrongly based on race after their wartime or other hazardous service to their country !
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"One Physiatrist friend of mine told Me about 85% of His own fellow shrinks entered the field to find out what was wrong with themselves."
I can attest the factuality of this claim. My older Sister is the only place i need to look.
I can attest the factuality of this claim. My older Sister is the only place i need to look.
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard
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SMSgt Lawrence McCarter I am very glad the landscape has changed drastically over the years.
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Posted 15 h ago
SMSgt Lawrence McCarter CPT Jack Durish CWO3 Dennis M. PO3 (Join to see) SGT Mark Anderson Sgt John H. Sgt Albert Castro SN Greg Wright PO3 John Jeter PO3 Charles Dufrene LTC (Join to see) PO3 Edward Riddle PO1 H Gene Lawrence Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen SGT (Join to see) PO1 William "Chip" Nagel MAJ Dale E. Wilson, Ph.D. SGT Carl Blas SSG Michael Noll SFC Mark Merino
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PO3 Phyllis Maynard
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PO3 Edward Riddle yes, true love makes loved ones seek better understanding
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LTC Stephen Conway
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PO3 Edward Riddle Drugs, abuse of opiods and alcoholism are factors.
A retired Officer on my Facebook Friends list and a Cousin on my Wife's Side declared their 8 and 10 Months of Sobriety.
AA and NA can help those with addictions!
https://photos.app.goo.gl/Nx1Di1Dw6QvNfme57
https://photos.app.goo.gl/Zy1CL9XevJmQG5wB6
PO3 Phyllis Maynard PO3 Edward Riddle SMSgt Lawrence McCarter
A retired Officer on my Facebook Friends list and a Cousin on my Wife's Side declared their 8 and 10 Months of Sobriety.
AA and NA can help those with addictions!
https://photos.app.goo.gl/Nx1Di1Dw6QvNfme57
https://photos.app.goo.gl/Zy1CL9XevJmQG5wB6
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LTC Stephen Conway
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LTC Stephen Conway Correction,8 years and 10 months.
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