Posted on Nov 19, 2016
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What would you do, if a passenger in first class "boo'd" a Gold Star family for being allowed to leave the aircraft first to receive their fallen son/daughter in the military?
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LCpl Michael Marrero
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As a Marine, I would have squared that civilian away after paying my respect to the family.
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MAJ Raymond Haynes
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I have had the unfortunate duty of making that speech to my passengers too many times. Normally, everyone is very respectful, and if there is a asshole in the group, the other passengers around him are self policing. Sometimes not turning the seat belt sign off helps. There was one particular time where some snow flake pencil neck said that the Captain had no authority to make such a request. I told him that I would be happy to explain my actions after I return from saluting the returning fallen Marine that was in our cargo hold for the last 3 and a half hours. When I returned the Flight Attendant told me that the other passengers "Handled the problem". What a prick.
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PVT Mark Brown
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Thank you sir for your continuing service!
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LTJG (Join to see) - I would take names and do my best to have the boo'ing first class passengers added to the no fly list for failing to honor the flight crew's directions. There is no reason these a**holes should ever be allowed to fly on an american airline again. Warmest Regards, Sandy :)
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You definitely get style points for this one Sandy!
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LTC John Griscom
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Reporting them to DHS for suspected un-American activity might get them on the no-fly list. Hope before they could make a return trip home.
This after letting them know what a low life they are.
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LTC Stephen Conway
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I would say" I risked my life and so did others for you to have the right to show others you are an asshole.Have some respect for the fallen!" I travel in uniform to and from Canada to the USA and back monthly.
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LCpl Ben Spalding
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Beat the fucking shit out of who ever boo'd then drag their ass outside and present it to my brother. Then I would collect their baggage and say fair well.
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SSG Larry R Jones
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Being a Gold Star Family Member, I am appalled that an American would boo a Gold Star Family. But if I would have been there. There would have been a lot of cheering going on as myself and a lot more veterans would take turns making sure that they understood what respect ment.
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PVT Mark Brown
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SSG Larry R Jones I don't fly much anymore but back when I did travel a lot I never ran into this situation. However, had it ever occurred in my presence I, too, would have had something to say and/or do to correct the situation. Like SFC William Stephens A. Jr., 3 MSM, JSCM put it "YOU GO BROTHER!"
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A1C Alexa Cosson
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They may not have been Americans, so didn't understand stand what was going on. Education may've been in order. I'm sorry for your loss!!
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LTC Stephen C.
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I can't even imagine such a thing would happen, LTJG (Join to see), but apparently it did. I like to think that I'd make some comment, but I'm not even sure as to what I'd actually say.
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SSG Paul Carrier
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Stand at attention and salute the family.
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SPC(P) Carlos Santini
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I would start world war III on the aircraft. Fuck these spoiled fucking brats here in the US. They have no clue what kind of man or woman it takes to run toward gun fire, God Bless our Nation and the men/women who fight for it.
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PVT Mark Brown
PVT Mark Brown
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SPC(P) Carlos Santini You have expressed yet another argument in support of mandatory conscripted service. There are far too many namb-pamby types roaming around this planet. Then need to be educated.
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Lt Col Charlie Brown
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen i think we would have adjoining cells. My husband would have to bail me out.
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Wayne Soares
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I’d be right next to you ma’am
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SGT Doug Blanchard
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Make that multiple adjoining cells. As I would be right in the middle thick of it all getting my locks in.
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LCpl Deb Olson
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Ask if they'd like to take the soldiers place. Because it could be arranged
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David Berger
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Who ever booed would be the last person off the plane I would make sure of it
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CPL Glynnda White
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I would be there right next to ya
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MSgt Michael Schierloh
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Was on a flight back from Afghanistan with a fallen hero in a C17. Traveled with that individual on the commercial leg to Dallas. There were some pissing, moaning and grumbling. After traveling for 40+ hrs, I was tired and agitated. 2 of us made the few individuals sit in their seats until everyone was off.
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PO1 Cryptologic Technician (Technical)
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"You keep on booing; because that sailor/soldier/marine/coastguardsman died for you to continue to voice your opinion. But I'm alive and he did the same for me, able to talk to you and to tell you to shut your mouth and give the man some respect."
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This week I was on a flight from Honolulu to Atlanta with the recently recovered remains of a Naval Aviator who died while serving in the Vietnam War. All of the passengers were respectful and patient while the hero's military escort deplaned prior to all others. For me, I felt blessed that I happened to be on that flight. I know not his name-may he rest and peace and may his family find comfort. I later found out that the remains were those of Lt. Richard 'Tito' Lannom of Union City, TN. See comment below.
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PO3 Al Fan
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This Naval Aviator could have been one of my friends. Thank you Col. DiGiacomo for your respect to one of America's heros. I salute you.
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PO3 Al Fan - Al, I later learned that the remains were those of Lt. Richard 'Tito' Lannom of Union City, TN. He was buried with military honors in Union City on 2 March 2019. Again, that small snippet of time in my life is something I will always remember. Thank you for reaching out.
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
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More than likely my wife would be bailing me out of jail for assault and battery on an airline passenger or two.
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PO2 Clotilde Szelkowski
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The rest of us would say "Welcome aboard, Sir"!
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I would have a discussion with the guilty parties. Unfortunately, there are plenty of scumbags.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/gold-star-family-of-slain-calif-soldier-booed-on-flight/ar-AAkvERn
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1SG Aircraft Maintenance Senior Sergeant
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Wow, just plain ignorance. They probably did not know what a Gold Star Member meant. They probably thought Gold Star meant that they won an essay contest. Little do they know. I'm from Grass Valley, CA just an hour from Sacramento. I feel ashamed of that behavior...I know folks from California are more patriotic than that. Just not fully informed. My prayers for you and your family, SGT Perry. RIP, brother! And thanks SGT Thedore, I know you would say something to these folks.
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Sgt Field Radio Operator
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SFC William Stephens A. Jr., - Sgt. Perry was buried at Arlington National Cemetery.
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Kathlean Keesler
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Sgt (Join to see) - Thank you Sgt.
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PO2 Rev. Frederick C. Mullis, AFI, CFM
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I would punch the Booer dead in the mouth.
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SPC Jerry Crain
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Me to
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SSG Robert Martin
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Honestly? I would most likely be unprofessional, and tell them STFU! I would likely be reprimanded for my short comings. There are some things that are too much.
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SSG Eric Blue
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That's a reprimand I could live with, though.
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MSgt Roger Lalik
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I believe the best I could think to do at the spur of the moment would be to redirect the anger and hostility away from the family and to me. Once the Gold Star family had exited. It's time for a Master Sergeant counseling session. I'm an old Corps Marine. I don't believe in this touchy-feelly crap. I believe in getting it done. So the quick talk will be blunt and to the point. It would be a talk they won't soon forget.
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PO2 Dave Johnson
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It had to be in New York. Last year I was working at hobby air port in Houston and I saw a few gold star flights arrive. The first one I saw I thought a plane was coming in with a problem fire trucks and police cars lined the run way the fire trucks were shooting their water cannons in a arch over the plane all of the southwest mechanics and most of the office staff were out side the hanger watching I asked a mechanic what was going on he told me a fallen solider was on board the air craft it was emotional and very respectful.
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PVT Mark Brown
PVT Mark Brown
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Reading your post gave me feelings that I have experienced far too many times. Thank you Dave for your sharing.
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