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Lt Col Charlie Brown
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Good Thursday morning COL Mikel J. Burroughs So glad not to be running the traffic this morning.
Great topic. Life happens. We can't control what happens to us, we can only control how we respond to it. So often if we stop obsessing over the fact that it didn't go as we planned we can find a way to make something good come from it. But first you have to let go of your expectations and go with the flow of things. Have you done that when things didn't go as you planned? How did that work out for you?
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COL Mikel J. Burroughs
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Lt Col Charlie Brown - I truly believe our attitude and how we handle life's ups and downs is to important. You can definitely make things much worse with a poor attitude and you can handle things that come your way (especially the bad) with a upbeat attitude Charlie! That is the way I face life even when the bad things come along. Glad you're out of traffic, so have a great day Charlie!
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SFC Tom Jones
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As the old saying goes you get smarter with age and if I knew what I know now I would have been a better leader,father,husband but I am learning and sir your speechs help and I am learning life has its ups and down
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PO1 H Gene Lawrence
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Good morning Rally Point. It is a beautiful morning with the sun shining brightly in Waco, Texas. It is supposed to get to 86 degrees today. My container garden is in full bloom. Life is happening in and outside the house today. I have found an interesting article that I would like to share on everything happens for a reason. Enjoy my RP Family and have a blessed day.
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IS EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS FOR A REASON? May 12, 2016 Paul Baxter

Some say no, others yes, and a good many folks scratch their heads and answer: “I don’t know but I’d like to know.” A diligent Bible study group that has been meeting for 40 years early on Friday mornings asked me to come and address this question, one which has tickled their little gray cells and enlivened their conversation.

Let’s begin with those who say “no.” Nicholas Clairmont entitled his post: “No, Everything Does Not Happen for a Reason. Thank God for that.” He wrote: “‘Everything happens for a reason’ is my very least favorite thing for someone to say. It is bad philosophy, bad theology, bad thinking, and bad advice. It manages to combine the maximum of ignorance with the maximum of arrogance.” Veronica Neffinger, writing from a Christian perspective, quotes John Pavlovitz, who “explains that while God certainly gives our lives meaning, the idea that everything we suffer, all the horrible experiences we’ve ever endured, have a purpose and meaning is actually harmful to our Christian walk.”

Chances are we have all heard the “yes” people who express the opinion that everything does happen for a reason, often hoping what they say will comfort and console those going through seemingly senseless suffering. The “got questions” blog asks: “Is it true that everything happens for a reason?” The answer: “There are several known factors that help us to answer this question: the law of cause and effect, the law of grace, and the doctrine of providence of God. These factors demonstrate that everything does happen for a reason, not just by happenstance or by random chance.”

How do we answer this question? First, from a literal standpoint, everything does happen for a reason. There is a cause and effect, clearly seen in natural law. The “reason” for happenings may be natural, willful, medical, accidental, or providential, though we must not jump to the conclusion that everything that happens has a providential reason orchestrated or micro-managed by God!

Sometimes it is pure chance, like when a person falls off a roof (accidental) or someone contracts an infectious disease (medical). While Islamic terrorists may claim beheading Christians is “willed by Allah,” we Christians do not believe God wills such atrocities. They arise out of evil impulses fed by such sins as out-of-control anger, arrogance, passion, pride, and prejudice.

To say “everything happens for a reason” is not Scriptural. It is not a quotation from the Bible, although some people think it is. Perhaps the closest text is Romans 8:28, where the Apostle Paul writes: “We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God: those who are called according to His purpose.” This does not say or mean everything that happens to everyone has a reason planned or controlled by God. God works within His people and their circumstances to bring good out of even evil.

John Murray writes: “Many of the things comprised are evil in themselves and it is the marvel of God’s wisdom and grace that they, when taken in concert with the whole, are made [by God] to work for the whole.”

John MacArthur explains: “It is God’s providential power and will, not a natural synergism of circumstances and events in our lives, that causes them to work together for good.”

There are many things that do happen by random chance, real unforeseen, and unplanned accidents or incidents! Although there may have been no purpose behind what happened, no theological reason for what happened, God works within those often “unreasoned” tragic events or illnesses to bring His people through them.

As I’ve said before when tackling tough questions and concerns we must be ever so careful not to tread where angels fear to tread, not to let our own pride lead us into the missteps of Job and his friends! Job felt he had a right to know the “reason” for his overwhelming pain and suffering while his friends seemed utterly sure of the “reason” he was suffering. Both attitudes were prideful rather than faithful pursuits! We will discuss this point a little more in a follow-up article.

I have come to believe that humility is the doorway to God, while arrogance or excessive pride is a trap door through which we fall away from God! As is often visualized, Satan fell from Heaven to Hell because of his innate pride.

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Rhonda Hanson
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Thank you for sharing this Brother Gene! Excellent advice, have a blessed night!
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PO1 H Gene Lawrence
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Rhonda Hanson - you’re welcome Rhonda and you as well.
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Rhonda Hanson
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Praise the Good Lord!!! PO1 H Gene Lawrence
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PO1 H Gene Lawrence
PO1 H Gene Lawrence
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Rhonda Hanson - yes indeed, He is good.
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Life is what happens when you make plans
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
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And sometimes when you dont!
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SGT Steve McFarland
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Life happens whether we make plans or not.
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COL Mikel J. Burroughs
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Amen to that and I'm constantly planning and it has had a profound affect on my life LTC David Brown some not so positive, but mostly it's been awesome! Have a great day brother!
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