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Lt Col Charlie Brown
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SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth
SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth
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Exactly ma'am.
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SP5 Mark Kuzinski
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Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen
7 y
Absolutely right. Seems as if the only time men/boys want to be together today is if they are part of a gang. Average educated man is perfectly happy by himself and a video game, not interacting and learning from others.
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LCDR Sales & Proposals Manager Gas Turbine Products
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One of these days, I'll find the right words, and the right venue to share all of my thoughts on this subject. RP isn't that venue, and this is not the right time.

That said, I worry for my little boy. I was the first to hold him, the first to wash him, the first to hold his tiny hands. For two days, I couldn't leave his side, and there will never be a day I stop worrying about his health, safety and future. When I first became a father, I wanted my son to have all of the opportunities I had. I'd like to see him receive a great education, earn the right to compete for greater accolades, and put them to work towards his success. I'd like for him to become part of something bigger than himself, enjoy the pride in achievement, and one day...find a woman who will make him better than he could ever be on his own, and bring his own son into the world...

...but I'm constantly reminded of all that stands in his way.

First, he will have to choose much earlier than I did, which of two paths to follow; that of competing for increasingly few "professions", or striking out on his own. Earning a degree, even a "prestigious" one won't "guarantee" any greater success than mastering a trade. Becoming an "entry level" employee no more promising than struggling to run his own business, or work steadily at making an honest wage. Second, he'll have to confront life with far greater risks, far sooner. All I had to worry about in school was the "bigger boy" who might want to trade punches. My son will have to contend with far greater threats, while simultaneously facing far greater consequences for making a stand. Finally, he will not grow up in a society with any consistent values to draw from. Everything his mother and I will teach him will be contested by those we entrust to teach him outside the home. He will be forced to consider much greater questions, far earlier than I ever did.
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MSgt John McGowan
MSgt John McGowan
7 y
LCDR Joshua Gilliespie—- You are correct Sir. I believe peer pressure will have a lot to do with how someone turns out. The bigger boys, the one that bully others and above all the wrong choice of friends and who they hang out with. My son is over 50 now and has a good job working on F15s at depot. Some lessons never took that I tried to teach and some did. You do the very best you can and hope and pray for the best. But I would hate to do it all over again with today’s society.
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Maj Bill Smith, Ph.D.
Maj Bill Smith, Ph.D.
7 y
Well said!
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LTC Stephen F.
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Okay, SP5 Mark Kuzinski no surprise that after decades of social experiments in schools where (1) boys were put down for being boys while girls were uplifted for being girls; (2) young boys were encouraged to play with traditional girls toys; (3) children were taught that violence was not okay and yet induced-abortion is legal and socially acceptable; (4) in many countries female babies are aborted including the USA., etc.
In this century, young girls are more likely to be sexually assaulted or murdered. That is not exactly news. However when life is devalued by the culture the young can become incredibly cruel and sadistic. The only hope this nation has is faith in God through the atonement of Jesus the Christ.
I am thankful I have four adult sons and no daughters. The LORD has promised me that each of my fours sons will have saving faith.
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SP5 Mark Kuzinski
SP5 Mark Kuzinski
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LTC Stephen F. - great comments.
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