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PO1 H Gene Lawrence
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Good morning Colonel Mikel Burroughs. Making others happy and putting a smile on their faces and a laugh in their belly is something I enjoy doing very much. I sometimes fail at that but I still try. I found something today in bible hub.com that talks about making others happy that I want to share with the RP Family. I hope y’all enjoy and receive blessings from reading it.

Making Others Happy
H. W. Beecher.
Romans 15:2-3
Let every one of us please his neighbor for his good to edification.…

1. A man's soul is like a garden belonging to an old neglected mansion. It is full of excellent things running to waste. Now a garden has no right to be dilapidated. It is made on purpose to confer pleasure and profit. So the soul of man is full of good dispositions and kind impulses; but besides these it is full of the stinging nettles of pride, and vanities flaunting coarse colours. A soul's power to produce pleasure or pain in another is very great. We are commanded, therefore, to produce pleasure. It is not left optional with us whether men shall be made happier by our going among them. And not occasionally by a gleam and a smile. It is to enter into the whole carriage of our lives.

2. This is neither a small nor an unimportant business. The making others happy is one of the best manifestations of the Christian disposition, and the closest imitation of Christ's example. Our duty as Christians is not simply to go out after men outside of morality. All about us society is full of men whose lives average but very little sweetness. And it is for us to seek to make them happier. Some men move through life as a band of music, flinging out pleasure to every one, far and near. Some men fill the air with their sweetness as orchards, in October clays, fill the air with the perfume of ripe fruit. Some women cling to their own houses like the honeysuckle over the door, yet, like it, fill all the region with the subtle fragrance of their goodness. How great a bounty and a blessing is it so to hold the royal gifts of the soul that they shall be music to some, and fragrance to others, and life to all! It would be no unworthy thing to live for to fill the atmosphere with a brightness which others cannot create for themselves.

3. Men neglect frequently these very simple and very obvious truths, because there is still a remnant of asceticism among good men. "Oh," say they, "make men better, and then their happiness will take care of itself." But much of men's selfishness and sin springs from their own unhappiness. And whatever shall take that away will tend to make them better. Again, men say, "My business is to be honest, and just, and not to make people laugh." Yet you have no business to be just and honest in such a way that those who stand next to you shall be less happy by your way of being so. No one has a better right to be a hedgehog than a hedgehog; but is he a good neighbour? A thistle belongs to the ordained economy of nature; and yet is it the model of a man? How many men there are who, rude of speech, go thrusting here, and piercing there, and treading down sensitiveness on every side, with no other excuse except this: "Well, 1 believe in a straight, out-and-out kind of man. Jack Blunt is my model!" Undoubtedly, and a very bad model very well imitated, too!

4. We are not at liberty to please by pandering to the bad elements in men's characters. We must move upon the right feelings in men, and not stir up the wrong ones, nor the evil ones. In order to this there must be a discipline in ourselves. In the free intercourse of human life you carry to men the faculties that are active in you, and tend to excite in them precisely the same feelings. If you are irritable, you tend to produce irritation. If you are proud, you tend to excite the resistance of pride. And these feelings never, in you nor in any other person, ministered to cheer. They are sand in the teeth. No man can be happy himself, or promote happiness in other men, until he has learned to put to sleep these malign faculties every day. The whole machinery of life, then, needs a great deal of oiling in you in order that you may minister to the wants of others.

5. We are not simply to carry happiness to those that are around about us. In the olden time it was thought that we should love our friends and hate our enemies. In the modern time it has been thought that we should love our own denomination, and hate those that are heretical. Therefore there has been felt to be a solemn duty incumbent on the Catholic to hate Protestants, and there has been felt to be a corresponding duty on the other side. Now, it is my business as a Protestant Christian man so to treat all Catholics that I shall please them, for their good, to edification. For a thousand years the experiment has been tried of bombarding men into love and faith; and with what luck? Is it not time to see if we cannot please men into unity; if we cannot drop the things that are disagreeable, and insist upon the things that are pleasing, for good, to edification? As it is in religious matters, so should it be in civil. There are times when men must stand in politics for principles, and at such times men cannot avoid giving pain. But this furnishes no criterion for the average of cases. Ordinarily, men who come together knowing that they are on different sides in philosophy, or in politics, or in business, if they be Christian men, should bear in mind that they are to "please one another for good to edification," and not irritate and chafe and hurt each other.

6. If these views are correct, then there is a new element of personal piety that should enter into the conception of every one. We ask men whether they are willing to leave off every known sin, etc., but how seldom do we question men as to beneficence of disposition! When, then, we are bringing men into the kingdom of God we should inspire them with heroic enterprise in doing good; but there are thousands of men who are attempting to do good, who never had it enter their minds that they were to make happiness. If I were to carry home this subject to the household, are there not many families that would bear some reformation? On the other hand, how many households are there that call themselves Christians, and have a right to, because all daylong each one is shining on the others; because each one is removing obstructions, taking away attritions, smoothing asperities, and seeking to make all amiable and all happy? When, after the long, loathsome voyage, I entered the channel, and saw, dim upon the horizon, the blue line of shore, and smelled the strange odour in the air, I said to the captain, "What is this smell?" "Bless your heart!" said he, "it is the land-smell." All the smells of the sea put together were never so sweet as that. There are persons so lovely that you cannot go near to them without perceiving that they exhale gladness and cheer and happiness. Blessed are such! I believe in revivals; but I have never known any revivals that did not need to have ether revivals in them. I have known men revived from intemperance and from wickedness, who went into churches and into neighbourhoods where they set themselves up on their orthodoxy and their propriety, and carried themselves so unsocially, so offensively, that they exerted no happiness-producing power. No person has drunk in the spirit of the Lord Jesus Christ who does not make other persons happier when he comes to them.

(H. W. Beecher.)

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PO1 H Gene Lawrence
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Col Robert Wallace - Great advice Robert, my friend. Have a truly blessed and smiling day.
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PO3 Rod Arnold
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Col Robert Wallace Well put Col!
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LTC Stephen F.
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I pray that you and I embrace the Biblical concept to do for others what we would like done for ourselves selflessly, my friend and brother-in-Christ PO1 H Gene Lawrence.
LORD YOU birthed joy and laughter before time began. YOU created each human being in your image with a capacity for joy, laughter and an innate desire to make others happy.
I pray that each and every adopted son and daughter of YOURs recognizes that YOU designed us to be blessed when we selflessly help others. I pray LORD that we will accept those YOU place in our path as they are in Agape love. Empower us encourage others, train others to laugh at themselves by our own example, and bring joy and mirth to every home we enter.
By the power and authority of the Name above all names, Jesus the Christ.
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PO1 H Gene Lawrence
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LTC Stephen F. - thank you for the prayer my friend, Be Blessed.
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Good morning, Mikel! Great topic for the day.

“For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.”
― Ralph Waldo Emerson

I always loved this quote. There is a lot of wisdom there. If you want a happy life, leave anger at the door. Have a great happy day!


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COL Mikel J. Burroughs
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Good call and great wisdom in that quote this morning David. Leave the ange at the door my friend. Easier said than done for most these days. You have a very happy afternoon SGT (Join to see) and watch it rub off on everyone!
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Sgt Deborah Cornatzer - I love that meme! I have read all of Emerson several times so I appreciate that!
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Great from RWE !!!
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LTC Stephen F.
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I pray that you and I embrace the Biblical concept to do for others what we would like done for ourselves selflessly, my friend and brother-in-Christ SGT (Join to see).
LORD YOU birthed joy and laughter before time began. YOU created each human being in your image with a capacity for joy, laughter and an innate desire to make others happy.
I pray that each and every adopted son and daughter of YOURs recognizes that YOU designed us to be blessed when we selflessly help others. I pray LORD that we will accept those YOU place in our path as they are in Agape love. Empower us encourage others, train others to laugh at themselves by our own example, and bring joy and mirth to every home we enter.
By the power and authority of the Name above all names, Jesus the Christ.
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Good Morning COL. "Make Others Happy day"..... I start at home with "Happy Wife, Happy Life" then branch out!
This is a basic common sense approach:
"Give what you want to receive. If you want happiness, make others happy." — Russell Simmons
It is contagious:
"Whoever is happy will make others happy." — Anne Frank
Last but not least by any means:
"It's a brand new week, so let's have some fun, get some things accomplished, and put a smile on everyone's face and them happy. Why Not?" — COL (Ret) Mikel Burroughs
Let's rock the week.......
Good Morning to your Ladies from Stevie and I, she is off today.
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Lt Col Charlie Brown
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Good thoughts Alan K. And like smiles, happiness is contagious
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LTC Stephen F.
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I pray that you and I embrace the Biblical concept to do for others what we would like done for ourselves selflessly, my friend and brother-in-Christ Alan K..
LORD YOU birthed joy and laughter before time began. YOU created each human being in your image with a capacity for joy, laughter and an innate desire to make others happy.
I pray that each and every adopted son and daughter of YOURs recognizes that YOU designed us to be blessed when we selflessly help others. I pray LORD that we will accept those YOU place in our path as they are in Agape love. Empower us encourage others, train others to laugh at themselves by our own example, and bring joy and mirth to every home we enter.
By the power and authority of the Name above all names, Jesus the Christ.
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MSG Charles Turner
MSG Charles Turner
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Alan K. Great Advice. I need to have that week "Happy Wife.. Happy Life" EVERY DAY!
Thanks!
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